I have started this thread for a couple of reasons. One is to write a massive thank-you note to those with whom I had the great pleasure of first meeting in March, when I posted a thread in the Independent Escorts forum about my special weekend of hosting incalls -- and also to mention my gratitude to these forums for giving me the gift of wonderfully intimate new connections with some extraordinarily kindred spirits! My sincere apologies for the belatedness of my thank-you note, I just realized my slip in manners in the shower this morning as the soap was slipping out of my hand, as these things tend to do!
I also wanted to mention my "review policy" to anyone interested. (I had wanted to post this in the appropriate Sticky, but it is currently locked, so I hope it is alright that I've taken the liberty of starting this new thread). I prefer not to be reviewed, as in the past, when I have received reviews, while they have been flattering and written with good intentions, I received more inquiries than I could possibly handle, which was more overwhelming and stressful to me than a blessing. While I realize that by certain definitions, I am providing a “service”, it is an intrinsically personal service, and as a human being, I cannot help but feel commoditized and objectified by being "rated”.
As well, I do not want anyone to form expectations of a prospective date with me -- which depends so highly on such unique variables as you and I -- based on the fantasies of others and how they have interpreted their time with me. To compensate for my lack of reviews, I (a very novice webmistress!) have newly built my website from scratch, and have tried to convey as much of my personality and appearance as accurately as I can there. I also frequently have photo-shoots to keep my photos are up to date, and to represent what I really look like, I use little to no retouching on them.
If you cannot resist the impulse to review our time together, I request that you respect our mutual confidentiality, and keep the explicit and intimate details between you and I, to spare my privacy and feelings. And no numbered ratings, please -- I may be juicy, but I am not a filet mignon, and I may be talented, but I am not an Olympic diver!
I am not currently an advertiser on this site, and I hope it is okay by the forum's rules that I have started this thread. I've researched the FAQs, but I am still not clear. I tried to take out my contact details and website link in my Signature to be on the cautious side, in case they are not allowed here, and I also tried to repair the broken photo link there, but was not able to edit it (if anyone could lend me a hand with that I'd be most appreciative!) My sincere apologies if I've violated any rules here -- this is not intended to be an advertisement, as I believe in giving credit where it is due -- but I want to prevent any misunderstandings from occurring between myself and any potential reviewers. I don't mean for this thread to be just about me and my personal review policy, however! If it turns into a more general discussion about how both companions and their friends feel about reviewing and being reviewed in light of what I've just said, that could be interesting.
Much warmth and many thanks,