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    How do you erase memory of a bad SP experience

    During my early days in the hobby I went for an incall in the McGill ghetto. Confirmed the suite number an up the elavator I went. I knocked on the door and as it opened the SP hid herself behind the door. So in I went and as the door closed and I got to see her and I knew right away she was not my type. But me being new to the hobby I still went through with it, heck I'll just check her type off my list as being been there done that.

    It was one of the few occasions I wanted to be in and out as fast as possible. But since she did not turn me on it lasted longer than I wanted and cumming was more of a reflex action than something of pleassure. As I left the building I was just thinking what the heck did I just do. There was no way I was gonna have the memory of that bad experience haunt my day let alone the whole week. When I got home I decided that the ony way to get rid of the memory of a bad experience was to replace it with a good one right away. So I called for an outcall later that evening and thank goodness the SP that I saw was more to my liking.

    In the end I replaced my bad SP experience right away with a better one and not letting it haunt me. It was my first time seeing 2 SPs in 1 day more out of necessity than choice.

    So how does my fellow MERBites erase a memory of a bad SP experience?


    Cheers!!!

    TheDon
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheDon View Post
    When I got home I decided that the ony way to get rid of the memory of a bad experience was to replace it with a good one right away. So I called for an outcall later that evening and thank goodness the SP that I saw was more to my liking.

    In the end I replaced my bad SP experience right away with a better one and not letting it haunt me. It was my first time seeing 2 SPs in 1 day more out of necessity than choice.

    So how does my fellow MERBites erase a memory of a bad SP experience?
    TheDon
    I have been hobbying for more than 40+ years, and to this day I still have not found a better way to erase a bad experience.

    These days, with the review boards, those bad experiences are few and far between. But old timers like yourself will know that seeing an SP in the old days was a real roll of the dice.

    Since then, and even today, I always carry enough money to see two girls.

    If the first one does not cut it, I send her away and get another.

    With some of us, if you have a bad experience it just sits there .... best to wipe away the memory immediately.

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    First thing I do to lol Financially it makes no sense but some how makes me feel abit better

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    I also do the exact same thing, but I make sure the girl I see after the bad one is a regular. Unfortunately, it is usually at least a week or two till I get to a location where there is a regular. I have had two bad experiences this year since I gave travelled to a couple of new places that had fake reviews and inexperienced reviewers. I PM'ed one of the reviewers and his response was I thought everyone liked thick girls. Uhh, no dude, we do not all like thick girls. I usually tell the regular about my previous bad experience which usually gets me an extra good session. Last time, I literally said to a regilar that I fucked a corpse a week ago and she was like what, like Jeffrey Dahmer. And I said no my last escort experience before you was with someone that played dead the whole time, and sure enough the regular did a fantastic session. But keep in mind that if you had never tried anyone new or played in a new market, you would have never found the regulars that you really like.

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    I just remembered a story from one of the low-end U.S. review boards. This would not work for me because I always see someone that requires too much screening. But this guy was doing incall with a girl who required no screening and he used a burn phone. She was unreviewed and turned out to be a lousy experience. Fake pics, upsells, lack of performance after upselling. You know the drill that can happen with a low-end incall provider. It was in her apartment and he realized at the end of the terrible session that he needed to take a dump. She was even bitchy about letting him use her bathroom so he could not resist. He pulled back the shower curtain and took a massive dump in her bathtub, got out and wiped himself, and flushed the toilet. He patiently waited and sure enough his burn phone rang early the next morning with a hysterical crazy lady cussing him out. Now that is a great way to get over a bad session if all the stars align - her place incall with no ability to trace your identity.

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    I wana "like" that last post lol

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    lol

    Taking a dump in her tub.

    That's one way of making a bad session into a classic story!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheDon View Post
    So how does my fellow MERBites erase a memory of a bad SP experience?
    Frankly, if the experience is really bad, I don't think you'll get over it 100%. Time will
    take care of it but it might be slow but you may not recover 100% as I mentioned.

    I had a bad experience with a really fat girl once....I mean really fat....her thighs were
    three times as big as mine...she was sticking her tongue into me constantly (Ewwww!).
    Her 300-lbs worth of chewing gum was such a turnoff. There was no way Junior was
    able to wake up. The whole experience was Eeeewww raised to the power of 5000000!
    She had the audacity to claim she runs 5 klicks per day and kids in the neighborhood stare at
    her beauty! Occasionally I get flashbacks and nightmares seeing her naked body (again Ewwww!).

    Pathetic liar with delusions of grandeur.....she got stares for being the freak of nature. How
    can she run 5 klicks? Can't even run 5 steps without falling over from her weight.

    I avoid fat girls as a result (a little bit overweight is ok, i.e., 10 lbs).

    I felt violated being tongued, touched, felt up by "Big Whale".
    Now, I know how a woman feels like to be raped.

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    Been there too many times, I usually run back to my more reliable girls and that usually does the trick.

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    They say ''Time is healer''.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheDon View Post
    In the end I replaced my bad SP experience right away with a better one and not letting it haunt me. It was my first time seeing 2 SPs in 1 day more out of necessity than choice.

    So how does my fellow MERBites erase a memory of a bad SP experience?


    Cheers!!!

    TheDon
    If the next experience was beyond expectations, you would immediately forget about the previous bad experience. That was good you saw another girl so you can get rid the experience of the bad encounter as it can linger for a while if you don't take action. Actually those are easier to deal with. What is hard is when you had an amazing experience and the next few encounters never measure up. They were not bad at all but just doesn't measure up in any way.

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    I usually take a large scotch and sleep like a babe. I am sure for every bad experince 5 or 6 good ones occur. My worst experience was being with a lady I met in the pub, we went back to her place and just as I about to reach the vinger strokes. I felt a cold wet thing between my buttocks, her dog had got loose and wanted to join the action stuck its cold wet nose where it didn't belong.. Talk about a passion killer. Its funny now but wasn't at the time.

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    Talk about redefining doggie style.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheDon View Post
    When I got home I decided that the ony way to get rid of the memory of a bad experience was to replace it with a good one right away. So I called for an outcall later that evening and thank goodness the SP that I saw was more to my liking.

    In the end I replaced my bad SP experience right away with a better one and not letting it haunt me.

    TheDon
    I had a terrible experience recently with a very hot girl who was so stoned and into the money that I just could not enjoy her hotness... She was quite business-oriented. I had booked her for 2 hours, but in her perception of things, this meant 2 SOG, which were dealt with within 40 minutes...So after 40 minutes, she called the driver of her agency to pick her up, cause she badly wanted to go partying with her friends and get even more stoned...

    I was so pissed and frustrated that I did the same as you: The next day, I called another girl ( Kate, from GG) and really enjoyed myself; still, this did not totally erase the memory of my bad experience... I even decided to take a break from hobbying for a while !! I guess only time will really help me get over it

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    Time has a way to turn bad meeting into funny ones,so when something happens that is not so nice I just look at it as material for my ''Lily stories''.

    I've often been told I should do stand up comedy...but I prefer horizontal play...

    It does help to realize that no matter what happened in the hobby it is that, a hobby,so maybe not attach to much importance to it? It is funlife, not real life...

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