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    The perfect blow job and what I learned from it

    Gentleman (and Ladies), just this weekend, thanks to Shana of WildTime, I experienced the perfect blowjob and I’d like to share with you what she did and what I learned, on the chance her technique will work for you.

    One of the amazing things I’ve learned in this “hobby” is that you can continue to explore your own sexuality and learn new tricks even into your fifties and sixties if you’re paying attention. I must say that I’ve long since outgrown the thrill of “banging hot chicks” and have uncovered the much greater pleasure of sexual exploration and taking pleasure to new and thrilling levels as I’ve met some remarkable sexually open and adventurous (and yes, quite attractive) younger women.

    A number of years ago, I was made aware of the work of the renowned sex therapist, Barbara Keesling, who among other things, defined the levels of arousal leading up to orgasm. From her, I also learned that there’s a huge difference between orgasm and ejaculation and that they don’t always occur at the same time, ejaculation being the simple act of discharging semen, which while both pleasurable and leaving one feeling quite relieved, is only a local experience of the genital area. Orgasm, on the other hand, is a full body experience that leaves you gasping for breath, your heart pounding. I’ve also learned that if you learn enough control of your body (which, by the way, I haven’t yet) that one can orgasm without ejaculation, and experience what the girls do: multiple orgasm.

    Here’s how Keesling describes the levels of arousal: At levels 2 and 3, you feel mild twinges of arousal, but arousal is not really constant. Levels 4 and 5 are constant, low levels of arousal, and levels 6 and 7 are steady, moderate arousal. At levels 6 and 7, you really feel that you don’t want the stimulation to stop. At level 8, if you had to talk, you would sound somewhat out of breath. You are aware of your heartbeat and you feel the blood roaring in your ears.. Level 8 corresponds to Masters and Johnnson’s plateau phase of the sexual response cycle. Level 9 is the feeling that you are very close to orgasm. Anything beyond level 9 is the feeling that orgasm is inevitable.

    From the MP Dani, I learned a few years ago the thrill of tantric massage as she worked me up the arousal scale, holding me between 7-8, taking me to 9, and raising and lowering, back and forth until finally finishing me off with an orgasm of an intensity unlike anything I’d ever felt before.

    From Molly, I learned the thrill of prostate massage. Oh, if I’d only learned that so many years earlier.

    And Friday night, Shana, the debutante at WildTime, treated me to what I can only describe as the perfect blowjob, one I can now hope to have repeated as I share her technique with other present and future lovers.

    Let me try to break down the differences for you between the common blowjob (cephalophagous ordinaire) and the perfect blowjob (cephalophagous ohmyfuckinggodicus). Most common blowjobs, whether well performed or not so well, have the same structure, lips wrapped around the shaft, the performer bobbing rapidly up and down. There might be some ancillary stuff, some bls, maybe some rimming, some spitting, the hand may or may not be involved, but it all centers around the rapid in and out motion. As enjoyable as I find that, it is rarely mind-blowing.

    Now to this past Friday night when, with Shana at the controls, I experienced cephalophagous ohmyfuckinggodicus. Here we had an artist at work. She caressed me, licked me, played with me and sucked ever so gently, nursing me through the levels of arousal, her energy increasing with my arousal. Occasionally she pulled and inch or two away, holding me in her hand, a thin strand of saliva connecting her mouth to the tip of my cock, which, while not adding to the physical arousal, was visually stimulating. Every so often I’d open my eyes to find her looking into mine. As I approached levels 8 and 9, she read me and increased her pace ever so slowly until finally, as I reached the edge of eruption, my heart now beating rapidly, she increased the pace and I finally exploded into her mouth, and collapsed.

    While I've experienced elements of the perfect blow job in the past, Shana's performance as a whole was something entirely new and, again, mind-blowing.
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    I think she'll be quite busy after this review.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Max15411 View Post
    I think she'll be quite busy after this review.
    Well, this isn't exactly a review, per se, but I did write one. It's in the outcall thread.
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    Did you inquire about the PM, wouldn't that have encompassed the whole goodness of everything at the appropriate time?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Special K View Post
    Did you inquire about the PM, wouldn't that have encompassed the whole goodness of everything at the appropriate time?
    PM? What do you mean?
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    Prostate massage
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    Quote Originally Posted by Special K View Post
    Prostate massage
    Actually, I did tell her about Lucille afterward, and might invite her along next time. Of course, prior to the event, I had no idea she was going to push all my buttons so exquisitely.
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    Re perfect BJ well written post. I have had in my time many great sexual experiences. The best being a combination of BJ and PM by an mature SP who I had repeated experiences before she moved away. She also appreciated me returning the favor. I have experienced many sessions with extremely beautiful ladies who were good but not as exciting. Overall I would say having a lady who enjoys what she does and wants to do it with you is best. MR seems to have met is ideal hope he can continue to enjoy her charms for some time to come.
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    Quote Originally Posted by oldbutartful View Post
    MR seems to have met is ideal hope he can continue to enjoy her charms for some time to come.
    Thanks. I'll see her again, but it's really more about what I learned about myself and what floats my boat. I plan to let my current flame in on what I've learned this very afternoon.

    On a side note, I've realized since realized that the way Shana went at me the other night pretty much mirrors the way I perform cunnilingus, slow, teasing and tantalizing, increasing the energy as her arousal level increases.
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    The garbage has been taken out and the thread has been cleaned.

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    I Am glad that the quite offensive posts from a quite backwards thinking individual has been taken out.
    I will repost a link to the series that he had posted as it did remind me of this web series and so far it has been quite interesting. Mind you I have yet to get to the link posted...so we shall see.

    http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Dg59wBbegvk

    Oh and I must congratulate rumples on an excellently worded review, that gives insight into the workings of the joys of oral pleasure.

    On that I leave you this other clip. Which might well illustrate shana's technique

    http://www.xvideos.com/video688248/r...h_maid_blowjob

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam black View Post
    On that I leave you this other clip. Which might well illustrate shana's technique
    http://www.xvideos.com/video688248/r...h_maid_blowjob
    Yes! Yes! Just exquisite. Thanks, Adam, this is very close to what Shana did with me. Nice and slow, smooth and consistent, paying distinct attention to his arousal. Lots of eye contact throughout the entire performance. And, oh, how tragic that she's not working tonight.

    Particular things of which to take note: 1. the little swishing effect right at the 4:00 mark. 2. her rotational enrobing just after the 5:00 minute mark, which must have sent this guy into paroxysms of ecstasy. 3. the way she flicks her thumb over his glans at around 5:45. I'm getting the shakes just thinking about it. 4. she massages his glans at 7:00 in a very tantalizing manner. 5. around 8:00 she licks the underside of the glans repeatedly. This woman clearly has a thorough knowledge of the penile nervous system 6. her firm, but not too firm grip, is splendid. I also like the way she rotates her hands in different directions between 8:00 and 9:00; I don't know that I've ever experienced that, but I'm ready at any time. And notice how she increases her pace and intensity just as she senses he's about to reward her.

    The woman is clearly a master, what pacing. If I were the principal of an agency, this video would be required viewing. (Hint. Hint.) The artist reads her companion and increases her intensity with his level of arousal.

    The only place where I'd take exception to her technique is that she appears to be pulling the skin up his shaft with her hand. I MUCH prefer when my companion slides her hand along the skin instead of pulling it.

    I do have a feather duster in my home. Is it Tuesday yet?

    A couple of side notes: 1. Camille happens to be a local woman. I wonder if she'd hire herself out for tutoring. On her own website, she makes the following excellent point, "...although blowjobs are really popular, they're either treated as a boring prelude to sex or they're really rough and there's very little skill involved. We wanted to show that a blowjob can be beautiful and something exciting for both men and women, so it felt like a calling."

    2. I also notice at the end that the video was sponsored by Tantra Chair. I've actually been considering getting one. I guess that's for another thread.
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