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    Question How to talk to an sp/customer about their Hygiene.....?

    Hey everyone, i wonder about how we should talk to a customer about their hygiene regarding the service provided.... for example most of you would like to have the full gfe .. and most of the girl are offering it... BUT when they said depend if the person is clean or not.. how should we tell them.... if their mouth smell bad, or if their ''mini-me'' smell something ... or simply if they smell sweat...

    I mean there is ppl who totaly refuse the shower or simply to wash their hands...

    Might be the same for customer about the sp's sometimes..


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    Bonjour tout le monde, je me demandais comment nous devrions parler a des clients concernant leur hygiène vu les services offerts... par exemple la plupart d'entre vous voudriez recevoir le GFE complet ... et la plupart des escortes l'offrent... MAIS lorsqu'elles mentionnent que cela dépend si la personne est propre ou non...comment devrions nous leur dire...si leur bouche sent mauvais, ou si leur ''mini-moi'' sens quelque chose...ou simplement si ils sentent la sueur...

    Je veux dire il y a des gens qui refusent totalement de prendre leur douche ou même de se laver les mains...

    Peut-être etre la même chose du côté des clients en ce qui concerne les sp's parfois...

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    IMO that's a hard one, so better be nice but direct about it. If he doesn't understand, then the sp can tell the customer that she will leave. It's basic respect and ethiquette to be clean with the providers, and that applies to them as well. There's no easy way around it, kind and direct, just don't be too aggressive when you say it. I once went incall to an indy, went to the bathroom, but washed my penis after peeing. She then asked me if I wanted to shower and I told her, no I'm good I showered prior to coming. She then said in a very whory tone (sorry for the "w" word, but that's what it was), you just went to the bathroom babe, if you want me to put my mouth there blabla. She could have just asked if I had washed it, or be nice about it, but she needed to be firm I guess. She didn't size the customer.

    That being said I still beleive that one needs to respect himself/herself to be respected. Showing you care about yourself is a good thing and if the client is not happy to hear the truth, it's his problem. Girls shouldn't have to deal with bad hygiene, never!

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    thanks wallseye cuz its a common problem that we have and girls prefer to say that they are not gfe ... but by doing that they are scraping their reputation as a gfe escort...

    i'll pass the word

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    I'm more of a rookie but I'd have to agree with wally. Would I be insulted if the woman asked me to go get cleaned up, never...it's actually somewhat appreciated as it tells me she actually cares about cleanliness. The flip side however, if the guy will argue about cleaning himself, that already "smells" of a problem. Why be so resistant.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Laila McCole View Post

    I mean there is ppl who totaly refuse the shower or simply to wash their hands...


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    Je veux dire il y a des gens qui refusent totalement de prendre leur douche ou même de se laver les mains...
    I can't imagine refusing to take the shower, even if I know I just took one before. It is about comfort when 2 strangers are about to get intimate.
    There is a respectful way to ask of course.

    And if you refuse to wash your hands on request, that is another level of disrespect in my opinion.
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    I like the shower that happens after the service....LOL!

    Telling a person that they smell funky (mouth, body or junk) can be awkward and hard.

    Maybe inviting the client to take a shower together, may help ease the embarrassment for the client, without actually having to say "You Stink!" And then you know everything is clean, as you can help with the process! LOL! The cleaning process can be intimate!

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    la chose qui me dégoute totalementtttttt...es les mec dans un club qui vont dans un club,.....et quil se dirige au toilette...et juste pour pissé...il se lave meme pas les mains....jen voit tellement ca me dégoute....je le vois surtout au poker....ces dégoutant...touche au jetons,cartes etc...ces dégueux....depuis ce temps je serre JAMAIS ou le mieux possible ... les mains quand je rencontre quelquun....et pour ce qui es de lhaleine joffre toujours de la gomme et jinsiste lollll quelle es de superbe faveur hihihi.....voila

    p.s. pour une rencontre avec une sp...prend ma douche et me clean et me rase encore plus pres...et a larrivé a lhotel je reprend une douche...ca ces certain...et pourquoi pas a 2

    bottom lines NO SHOWER...ANDDDD DONT FORGET THE SOAP......BAD SMELL...OR ELSE ...I AM OUT OF THERE
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    Me personally as a client, I would *want* to know. That way, it ensures that I get the max experience (and also, it shows that the SP is mindful of cleanliness).

    Of course, there's always a "good" way of bringing it up, without seeming rude (which is up to the SPs interpersonal skills). Some guys might just be clueless, and need someone to point it out to them.

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    Je m'astique complètement ( douche, rasage et brossage de dents, et rince bouche) avant de rencontrer une fille. Si elle me demande de me doucher en arrivant, je m'empresse de le faire. Normalement la fille devrait se doucher entre chaque client, mais on n'a pas la certitude qu'elle fait. Cela m'est arrivé une seule fois que la fille avait seulement lavé son petit nid d'amour et pas le reste. La rencontre a diminué a 30 minutes et bj seulement. Une suggestion: les deux devraient prendre une douche rapide ensemble, ce qui rassurerait les deux d'être propre avant la rencontre de près. Les SP asiatiques que j'ai rencontrer l'ont fait avec moi, j'ai beaucoup apprécié et ca fait excitant de prendre une douche ensemble avant la rencontre...

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    I always make sure everything is clean all the time. But during an SP visit, I make sure everything is freshly cleaned!

    If I had to ask an SP to go clean herself, or offer gum or she had to do the same for me, it would take away from the mood for me. I've never been in that situation.

    Some odours won't be noticed until the clothes start coming off..... at that point, I'd probably end my session with the sp very politely, and take the loss on the money! I wouldn't have any nice way of saying "You need to wash your junk!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Toxic1979 View Post
    I like the shower that happens after the service....LOL!

    Telling a person that they smell funky (mouth, body or junk) can be awkward and hard.

    Maybe inviting the client to take a shower together, may help ease the embarrassment for the client, without actually having to say "You Stink!" And then you know everything is clean, as you can help with the process! LOL! The cleaning process can be intimate!
    The shower for two option is a great way to go. You can even build it up as a fun bit of foreplay. If he still doesn't bite, then I'd suggest you refuse to see him. That will definitely make it clear how important cleanliness is.
    I'm a massage fan and if I try a new place and they don't have a shower, I don't stay.

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    Personally i only do outcall to my hotel room, so can't say for incall but when the girl arrive, im always super clean, everything. She can tell my hair is still not completly dry when i have them a bit longer and all. I supose for incall to have the client shower is just a must, its common sense. I mean even if he took it before going there.

    I wouldn't mind taking another shower if she want to, but i don't do "shower for 2" personally. Im a bit shy and being completely naked in the shower with her is a no go. Showering is my personal moment of cooling down before she arrive lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Halloween Mike View Post

    I wouldn't mind taking another shower if she want to, but i don't do "shower for 2" personally. Im a bit shy and being completely naked in the shower with her is a no go. Showering is my personal moment of cooling them before she arrive lol
    common mike it is because you sing in the shower...that is why....loll...i am kinding..but i agree in that way also...but like atlante 007 said...i did try with girls and it is a good way to start also the two of you touching each other...and getting more hot..and hot....veryyy cool that option too...and also love a girls that is taking good care of mini moi....(i kknow it is for better cleaning in that case...but a good feeling..soap ..hot water...hot girl...humm..)ok let stop now loll
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mitsou xxx View Post
    If they do not like it than maybe they aren't the kind of client you would like? Refusing a shower would seem like a bad sign?
    Very bad sign!
    If I was an SP, I'd adopt the policy "No shower? No service!"

    Quote Originally Posted by Mitsou xxx View Post
    The shower with the SP is an option also
    I can't think of too many guys who would turn this down.
    I know I wouldn't.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mitsou xxx View Post
    Although - if you take a shower and have no deodorant with you and you sweat - you might get smelly even after taking a shower
    This is an occupational hazard. Not much can be done about this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by panthere View Post
    common[B][U] mike it is because you sing in the shower...that is why...[/
    Lol i do ocasionally but this is more a question of my little pre-meeting ritual in a way, i always make sure with the booker i go in shower around 20 mins before she arrive, to be as fresh as possible. But i wouldn't feel confortable washing myself with somebody else. Just like i let her take her shower alone at the end. To be totally honest tough, the showers of most rooms at my regular hotel are for 1 person only.

    Also i do agree with Mitsou, showering before an incall should be a TOTAL MUST, as you never know if the client really did it or whatever. I mean, since you mention you got so many problems about this Laila, its a sign you should require it.
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