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    I have been fortunate and blessed to partake in paid companionship with ladies in this industry over the last 8 years. It has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. There are several ladies in this industry - all of whom I have been seeing over the last 3-4 years - who consider me to be a regular client.

    I have steadily progressed to the point where time spent with a lady is all about the companionship and being afforded the opportunity to completely relax and unwind without inhibition. It is about that unforgettable date, whether it is dinner and drinks, a night out on the town, or a charity gala - just to name a few. Frequently I lust after a woman's scent and the feel of the feminine body. I'm a wine taster - I don't necessarily want to drink the wine but I want to experience the exquisite taste. I don't necessarily want to have sexual release, not even fs or hj. If afforded the opportunity for F/S it is greatly appreciated but this is NOT the reason for me to see a lady. In fact, sex with a girl now seems mundane at times and has lost much of its appeal. I am seriously considering social companionship only with ladies, with NO sex offered at all.

    Wondering if anyone has any thoughts on this subject, either from their own beliefs or personal experiences?

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    "I am seriously considering social companionship only with ladies, with NO sex offered at all."

    That's a-ok, and actually sounds kind of positive and healthy.

    The only thing that comes to mind is why are you paying for 'friendship' (after all, social companionship = friendship)? Why don't you just make some real female friends or try online dating sites rather than pay someone to be your friend?

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    My tough? You definately have too much money to waste, i can send you my paypal by PM.

    Oh don't worry, i can spend time with you as long as you want, and i am way cheaper by the hour :P
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    Quote Originally Posted by gkm777 View Post
    I have steadily progressed to the point where time spent with a lady is all about the companionship and being afforded the opportunity to completely relax and unwind without inhibition.
    If you are lucky she will even behave in a genuine GFE fashion...offering you the silent treatment.

    To each is own but why paying for that? There is a throng of women out there doing this for free.
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    Quote Originally Posted by protagoras View Post
    To each is own but why paying for that? There is a throng of women out there doing this for free.
    I don't think he wants friendship. Just a fun and beautiful companion for a while, with no thought for future relationship. Something like a Geisha. Real friendship has to be nurtured and sometimes it's not possible to unwind completely. Real dating takes time and you won't get an outstanding sophisticated beauty unless you're outstanding yourself. In my opinion it's not more stupid than paying for anything else. Why do we pay professionals millions to play hockey instead of watching amateurs play for free?
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    I fully agree with Protagoras...

    There is no need to pay for what he is looking for.
    Actually, it makes more sense to find someone online like Baron said, somebody you could find some connection and enjoy much more the time (and money) spent with her...

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    There are many guys doing the EXACT same thing ....
    There is a name for them. Husbands.

    Paying & No Sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by protagoras View Post
    If you are lucky she will even behave in a genuine GFE fashion...offering you the silent treatment.
    Funny,

    Good one P. But I take the view that even if this is not for me, if it makes someone happy to do this and it's not doing any harm or creating complications in any way to him or her then to each his own way. From what I've heard there are more guys than we think who have an issue that prevents them from having the kind of easy free-flowing full sexual experience we tend to think is what is worth paying for. Should they stay out of the hobby because of some unfortunate limitation? No. Don't forget many of us are over 40 and the likelihood ALL OF US still have the same physical ability to enjoy the full range of sexual experiences we could have at 18 is zero%. Injuries and other issues come over time and yet those who are the unfortunate people still have the natural desire for fantasy sex and/or just companionship. If they have the means then why shouldn't they seek out escorts like we who have not...yet...had debilitating issues.

    Maybe some day you too might want just some companionship with a fantasy woman.

    Quote Originally Posted by protagoras View Post
    There is a throng of women out there doing this for free.
    Really? Don't they also have their own lives and desires so that they aren't as available when you need them as you suggest. Plus, if a guy wants young beautiful companionship aren't the odds of finding that without $ compensation extremely low and near impossible.

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    For the most part I agree with M on this point. I would add that having the "option" to be physical at whatever level is probably in the back of the poster's mind. Although he believes that "companionship" is his goal, the ability to touch and be touched (at whatever level) is probably part of his scenario. Thus internet dating, a friendly relationship (at some levels) does not always provide these abilities and/or services.

    A second point would be "companionship compliance". A great deal of the intangibles that these ladies provide is engagement in conversation. Many times the client is just f_____g boring, yet the escort puts on a good show at being interested at all times. I mean really do the clients in their 40's, 50's and 60's believe that they are always that interesting to these 20-somethings ladies? I very much doubt that whoever you might "internet date" or other casual relationship will provide the same level of "companionship compliance" that an escort has to exhibit.

    Thus the engagement of an escort for companionship is perfectly legitimate.

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    I just wonder how old the original poster is.


    Sure, his attitude is mature but for most young and even not so young men, companionship is fine but needs to be complemented with physical intimacy as well.

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    The bottom line is, if a guy wants to pay a girl for companionship only there is nothing a matter with that. It is his business, it is his money. As long as things are agreed upon upfront and both parties hold up their end of the bargain, who is anybody to judge, enough said.

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    I've had demands like that but problem was there was almost always a provisio...they would say that since there was no sex or sometime no penetration but hj for exemple ,they would ask for a ''rebate'' since we were not doing all possible acts...
    I always answered that when meeting you decide what we do,as much or as little of it that you feel like it...but the rate is not a ''à-la-carte '' menu,you are paying for the time spent with me not for the actions performed...I've met where we only talked and cuddle and it can me very intimate still...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Roadtripr View Post
    There are many guys doing the EXACT same thing ....
    There is a name for them. Husbands.

    Paying & No Sex.
    If there was a LIKE button for each post, I would of clicked on it for this post
    Not sure if this features is something that can be added to the board ...

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    its yur money and you can do what you want with them. if you want to spen it on companionship without sex as long as you are happy with it and the lady is great for that everyone is happy.

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