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Thread: erection trouble with the wife

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    erection trouble with the wife

    I think the title says it all.

    I'm a 32 years old guy, I've been hobbying about one a week more or less for the last 4 years.

    I can stay rock hard for a full hour with an sp or mp but today I wasn't able to stay hard with the wife. After 10 minutes of intercourse, I went from hard to jello, in second.

    Maybe it was too late at night or maybe it is a sign I should quit hobbying.

    Any info would help.

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    Sp are all fantasm, wife maybe not. That could be the explanation.

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    Avoid masturbation,watching porn and try seeing an sp/mp once a month rather than once a week hope this helps

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    Either quit hobbying or divorce; I chose divorce. :P

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    Quote Originally Posted by THEHITMAN View Post
    Avoid masturbation,watching porn and try seeing an sp/mp once a month rather than once a week hope this helps
    I think THEHITMAN's recommendations are quite solid. Both aspects definitely contribute. Also, if one is overweight, losing some weight / improved fitness helps as well.

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    My cousin told me that once he developed back problems the muscles in his abs were not as strong as they used to be so he couldn't stay hard as long...
    Maybe???

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    leave $200 on the nightstand.-maybe pick it up in the morning.lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by playafter View Post
    leave $200 on the nightstand.-maybe pick it up in the morning.lol.
    Do you have a pic of your wife ? Maybe in case we can tell you why after

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    Mr. Krusty,

    I could use the old line and say, "Really? I don't have the SAME problem with Mrs. Krusty." But NOOOOO, I'm not going to do THAT!!!

    I knew there was a name for this and I found it. Voila. Madonna whore complex. Really, READ ON.

    From Wikipedia:

    In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship. First identified by Sigmund Freud, this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna).

    More HERE.

    https://www.google.com/#q=madonna+whore+complex

    Maybe Freud was a Hobbyist.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Roadtripr View Post
    Mr. Krusty,

    I could use the old line and say, "Really? I don't have the SAME problem with Mrs. Krusty." But NOOOOO, I'm not going to do THAT!!!

    I knew there was a name for this and I found it. Voila. Madonna whore complex. Really, READ ON.

    From Wikipedia:

    In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship. First identified by Sigmund Freud, this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna).

    More HERE.

    https://www.google.com/#q=madonna+whore+complex

    Maybe Freud was a Hobbyist.
    Well he certainly spent a lot of time and money on his research.
    Draw you own conclusions
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    I think I have the Madonna whore complex, I just googled it and it is exactly my lifestyle, love without sex for the wife and sex without love for the whore.

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    thats a lot of answer guys, thanks

    We tried again a couples days later, and everything was fine... maybe i was too tired.

    sorry but you won't get picture of my wife

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    regular use of porn does that. I stopped porn for a while and then i could fuck anything with a heartbeat...now I am back on porn...thank god

    http://yourbrainonporn.com/

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    I'm a little bit in disagreement with many posts here. I find it a nice complement to having sex with the wife, that is hobbying. But I hobby 1 to 2 times a month the most, I guess if I would be hobbying every week it would not be the same. And yes I do watch porn and do masturbate, it is good for onés health. My sex with the wife is great, it is just that she does not have the same libido, is tired and I respect her when she is not in the mood. And with children, it is very much understandable.

    Anyway, my 2 cents on this topic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2fast2slow View Post
    regular use of porn does that. I stopped porn for a while and then i could fuck anything with a heartbeat...now I am back on porn...thank god

    http://yourbrainonporn.com/
    Very interesting read, thanks for the link! Though it seems very anecdotal, it makes me want to try the challenge to see where that'll lead.

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