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TheKrusty

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I think the title says it all.

I'm a 32 years old guy, I've been hobbying about one a week more or less for the last 4 years.

I can stay rock hard for a full hour with an sp or mp but today I wasn't able to stay hard with the wife. After 10 minutes of intercourse, I went from hard to jello, in second.

Maybe it was too late at night or maybe it is a sign I should quit hobbying.

Any info would help.
 

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Avoid masturbation,watching porn and try seeing an sp/mp once a month rather than once a week hope this helps

I think THEHITMAN's recommendations are quite solid. Both aspects definitely contribute. Also, if one is overweight, losing some weight / improved fitness helps as well.
 

smellowman

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My cousin told me that once he developed back problems the muscles in his abs were not as strong as they used to be so he couldn't stay hard as long...
Maybe???
 

Roadtripr

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Mr. Krusty,

I could use the old line and say, "Really? I don't have the SAME problem with Mrs. Krusty." But NOOOOO, I'm not going to do THAT!!! :nono:

I knew there was a name for this and I found it. Voila. Madonna whore complex. Really, READ ON.

From Wikipedia:

In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship. First identified by Sigmund Freud, this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna).

More HERE.

https://www.google.com/#q=madonna+whore+complex

Maybe Freud was a Hobbyist.
 

oldbutartful

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Mr. Krusty,

I could use the old line and say, "Really? I don't have the SAME problem with Mrs. Krusty." But NOOOOO, I'm not going to do THAT!!! :nono:

I knew there was a name for this and I found it. Voila. Madonna whore complex. Really, READ ON.

From Wikipedia:

In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship. First identified by Sigmund Freud, this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna).

More HERE.

https://www.google.com/#q=madonna+whore+complex

Maybe Freud was a Hobbyist.

Well he certainly spent a lot of time and money on his research.
Draw you own conclusions
 

Dreamer69

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I think I have the Madonna whore complex, I just googled it and it is exactly my lifestyle, love without sex for the wife and sex without love for the whore.
 

TheKrusty

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thats a lot of answer guys, thanks

We tried again a couples days later, and everything was fine... maybe i was too tired.

;) sorry but you won't get picture of my wife :)
 

tallguy

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I'm a little bit in disagreement with many posts here. I find it a nice complement to having sex with the wife, that is hobbying. But I hobby 1 to 2 times a month the most, I guess if I would be hobbying every week it would not be the same. And yes I do watch porn and do masturbate, it is good for onés health. My sex with the wife is great, it is just that she does not have the same libido, is tired and I respect her when she is not in the mood. And with children, it is very much understandable.

Anyway, my 2 cents on this topic.
 

dude79

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Don't base yourself on only one occurence!

If this happens often, then maybe you should see a doctor... at that age it's not normal!

I'm 36 and I have the same habits as you... and sometimes the wife comes after me the same day I went to a sp-mp... it's hard no matter what. (I'm by no mean a rambo).
 

Holdmedown

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Are you still attracted to your wife? I mean in looks and lustfullnes?
If you can stay hard with an sp then most likely not a medical issue.
 

SensualFlight

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I have the opposite problem ;)
Have a hard time to FS, so most of my sp encounters are daty, bj and hj.
Although we are all different, it's similar for me. First meetings with an SP I may stress for a "performance" goal, and if that happens, nothing works! With the wife, or with someone I'm getting to know better, it becomes more of a "let's pleasure each other", no stress, and everything gets back to normal.

SF
 
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