So it's my birthday soon and if I'm given my wife's blessings, I'd like to experiment an evening with an SP. Problem is, I get nervous/anxious when I go to a strip club, so I imagine I'd get the same thing when I will meet my lady of choice.
My main concerns are:
- What if she doesn't find me attractive? (I'm not fit, just got a few extra pounds)
- What if I can't get off?
- What if I can't perform? (Happened during a 3some with an SP and my wife...)
I apologize in advance if these are stupid concerns, but I'd really appreciate some tips/advices/constructive comments...