Apologies if this comes off rude but I have no other way to phrase it.
As some background, I have a friend that is obese, at least 70-80 pounds overweight, probably over 300 pounds, and single. He would like to hobby but much like fear of going to the beach in summer, he is afraid of shocking SP's with his size when they strip, being made fun of, and even having them refuse service (leaving).
I tried to encourage him to try but I really do not know what the reaction of a 20 y/o SP that is 1/4 his size and 1/2 his age might be.
I feel like I am a typical john - maybe a few pounds overweight - beer belly, etc. - but nothing abnormal that would turn heads walking in the city, so if there is "SP discrimination" that I am not privy to it.
Can any larger guys out there speak to this? Do they really care what we look like or as long as we are gentlemen are they "good to go"?