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    Perhaps a strange question...

    Hi all,

    So, I'm pretty new to the "hobby" as some call it... (twice, once with Ivy June and one with Mei Wang of Sexyindies)

    I'm 43 years old and I am wondering how many other older guys go with the younger ladies and how that's accepted by them (the girls).

    Maybe I'm too concerned about this but... I do wonder... (and worry too I suppose).

    Thanks

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    I'm older then that and I like the 18-28 year old SP. I get the feeling that they don't really like me either. The SPs are just using me to get at my friends that are even older than I am such as Ulysses S. Grant who is 192 years old and Andrew Jackson who is 247 years old and their favorite, Benjamin Franklin who is 308 years old. You know the old bugger has still got it? He can make a lady smile anytime I whip him out. It's all about the Benjamins.

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    Don,t be concerned: they really don't care. 43 is not 65 (and even, most would offer your services even if you look like their grandpa ;-)

    Go have fun ;-)
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    Quote Originally Posted by kooker View Post

    I'm 43 years old and I am wondering how many other older guys go with the younger ladies and how that's accepted by them (the girls).
    If it weren't for 'older men', most of the sps would be working at McDonald's. 'Older men' are the lifeline of this business. And that's how it should be. Younger guys have their entire lives in front of them & have so much to learn (and so much 'free' sex) before they should start venturing into this addictive business.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hungry101 View Post
    I'm older then that and I like the 18-28 year old SP. I get the feeling that they don't really like me either. The SPs are just using me to get at my friends that are even older than I am such as Ulysses S. Grant who is 192 years old and Andrew Jackson who is 247 years old and their favorite, Benjamin Franklin who is 308 years old. You know the old bugger has still got it? He can make a lady smile anytime I whip him out. It's all about the Benjamins.
    Do you know what is about six inches long, has a big head on it, and is a girl's best friend? The new U.S. $100 bill.

    But seriously, I can never quite figure out why some guys are uncomfortable seeing a provider in the 18-25 year old range just because of an age difference. I have never encountered someone who is opposed to prostitution believe that it is okay for john to see a provider their own age but not okay to see a provider who is much younger than the john.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kooker View Post
    ...I'm 43 years old ...
    A mere youngster. Hello, kooker. I would guess you are in the younger group of hobbyists. Most, as near as I can tell, are in their upper 40's, 50's, 60's, and some brag about being in their 70's, as well they should.
    Quote Originally Posted by MisterPep View Post
    ... they really don't care....
    They are more interested in.....
    Quote Originally Posted by hungry101 View Post
    ... Ulysses S. Grant who is 192 years old and Andrew Jackson who is 247 years old and their favorite, Benjamin Franklin who is 308 years old. ...It's all about the Benjamins.
    I'm sure the green, red, and brown money is just as appealing.
    Quote Originally Posted by Doc Holliday View Post
    If it weren't for 'older men', most of the sps would be working at McDonald's. 'Older men' are the lifeline of this business. ...
    I wouldn't be surprised if some do. Most of them have day jobs, and/or are students.
    It has been maybe five years since I had an SP not be interested because of my age, but that was only one or two. I do, however, ask when I book a teenager for the first time, just to make sure she can tolerate an OFG (Old Fat Guy). The booker always laughs and replies with something similar to what hungry101 says.
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    Lily from Montreal
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    If a girl is not comfortable with a age group or any criteria ,she will or should refuse, if she agrees...then by all means enjoy...
    If she agrees but do not like what she does,she is in the wrong line of business for her...

    Agency girl are less picky since they do not have the option of choosing...Indies as a rule are more choosy,because to quote Obama;''we can''...and do...

    Just have fun and try not to overthink?

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    I believe that the way you treat them is more important than your age.

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    I'm in late 50's and like em young, so go after the 18-25 year olds - never had a problem. Like what was said, it's all about the cash (and the way you treat them).

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    I'm in my late 60s, and have never had an SPO act rudely. As soon as they see me, they know they're not dealing with a horny kid and they behave accordingly. Agency girls are always friendly, but with indies I usually stick to ones iwho describe themselves as MILFs or soccer moms.

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    43 is nothing. I've seen 50-60 year olds taking an 18 year old to the room in German clubs.

    As LilyForYou wrote, a provider is in the wrong line of work if age/race is an issue. The 40/50 segment is probably the largest market; they are the ones with the most disposable income. Vitamin V probably increase the size of the market to include an even older population.

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    Lily from Montreal
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    Although I like to hear my name and truth in the same sentence I have to qualify what transatlantic said.

    I did not say that a sp cannot have issue, I do,as those of you who read me knows ,I for one, is not comfortable with meeting pretty one thing, the point is that I don't,I chose the persons I meet to match my criteria.

    That's what I meant , the girl should follow her preference,if she is not comfortable meeting men twice or more her age, she should not...if she does accept the meeting,she has no business letting him feeling that he is not welcome...

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    To me, age difference issues are only a legitimate question if you were to have an actual relationship with someone in that age group. This is sex for pay, pay for play. It is not a dating game. I am bothered by some threads that ask questions that analyze these things as if it was a dating game. It's not. It is sex for hire.

    For an 80 year old guy like Donald Sterling to be pounding a 20 something mistress, then yeah, the question does come into play. That is a sugar daddy situation.

    You seem unaware that some SPs have age restrictions and actually will not see guys under 45. I saw this recently: no clients under 45. You, by the ways, would be rejected by those who only see guys 45 and up. 35 and up is more common as a restriction, from what I have seen. There are lots of reasons, but for SPs who have a good business sense:

    - guys over 45 are more mature socially, and generally more respectful towards women than younger guys, because they know what women want and need socially, they know how to talk to women. They have what younger men lack-EXPERIENCE!

    - most of them are less aggressive sexually, often only being able to muster one SOG absent cialis/viagra

    - most important: guys over 45 are generally more financially secure, wealthier, and do not have "cheapass issues" in the eyes of the SP- they don't need to look for deals or bargains because they do not have the paycheck of a 25 year old working on a starter salary or hourly wage.

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    Age is just a number, and as long as you dress smartly look clean and tidy most SPs will make you have a good time. I am over 65 and have had younger women chatting to me down town in the bars on St Catherine's. When I gently explain to them I have a family in their 40(s) I get an astonished look and they don't believe I am that old. I had to show my ID at one bar when I showed my OPUS card he thought I was taking the piss. You are only as old as the women on your arm and to hell with what others think. When I first came to Montreal some 12 years ago I was staying down town on Atwater I called an Agency and requested a 36 - 40 yo SP. The booker replied "We don't send out grannies" I replied "ok just send me two 16 year olds instead" All I heard was the phone slam down. I walked along to the Crescent had a couple of drinks, and went back to my apartment with a charming 38 yo whom I still see about every 6 or 7 weeks. Enjoy life while you can, for 'for sure you will be a hell of a long time dead'.
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