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    Cool chemistry

    this is a word I hear often in peoples reviews
    my feeling is as long as your clean and respectfull it should not be a problem
    you are paying 200.00 AND MORE AN HR
    after all her job is to make the chemistry work
    this is not a date that your friend fixed you up with
    or someone you picked up in a bar
    its up to the escort to make it work that should be her priority
    maybe im living in dreamland

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    OTOH you can't get blood from a stone. Should an escort make best efforts, sure. There are things they can do to help the process along. However sometimes with some people it just won't work.
    It is much easier if you meet them half way.

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    SPs are not magicians lol

    It takes two to tango (no matter how much you are paying per hour).
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    Sometimes chemistry just happens....a matter of good vibrations.
    Sometimes you both work at it and you develop chemistry.

    Other times nothing can make it happen.

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    Chemistry can't be taught, usually it either happens or it does not within only 1 or 2 hours but like cloudy said it can develop, over time.

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    I think for me there is a difference between compatibility and chemistry. Two (or more wink wink) people can be compatible and have a wonderful time together. This is fairly common if the pre-meeting correspondence goes well (i.e. screening is done easily and there is no attempt at negotiation). But then there are those combinations of two (or more - yes wink wink again) people that involves us 'clicking' in a very special way. Those are encounters involve chemistry. To take a bit from Gabrielle's post - it is magic.

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    bash... chemistry may work for some, not for others...

    Lets take me for exemple, i could find an SP that happen to be a huge gamer girl, have tons of fun chating about the next game coming out, what are out expectation, thus letting us have relax and friendly sex... but for the next "mister" wich is age 50+ could not work the same way.. Thats chemistry and that is proper to each....

    But thats not saying mister 50+ y.o won't have a great meeting because she can't talk of something else... you see , this is all a matter of the SP "skills" and being able to center her client... sometimes it happen very easily, sometimes it just does not. And its not a matter of "was she trying" cause i seen SPs try hard, be the best they could to please me(the client) and still it was not working because it just didn't click... it was a matter of "bad chemistry" and not "bad will" from her part, so in those case its understandable...

    Sometimes its mutual interest, sometimes its even deeper than that, thats really a case by case... and honestly i seen SPs wich i had zero chemistry with, as in i didn't gave a damn about her personality or interest, give me a good ride for my money, and i was satisfy... On the other hand i seen girls try hard to please me but still appear to want to be anywhere but with me and it showed so i had a not so good time... and then i had SPs, very few ones, where it clicked on every level(that or she was one hell of a good actress) and those where outstanding meetings...
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    Physics comes first, then and if it cliks, comes Chemistry. I (mostly) never book a 2-hours session on a first date. The first time you meet an SP, you are usually expecting that there will be physics, a lot of friction between genital organs, a lot of energy being dissipated in form of heat...One (or should I say two) sense from a first encounter if there are things that transcend physics to the realm of chemistry. If client and SP had nothing to exchange during the first encounter except platitudes, then the said-client should not excpect any chemistry during subsequent encounters. It just did not click and you cannot force it to click.

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    I think that chemistry can make the difference between a good session and an outstanding session. Further to the OP's point, yes you are paying for a service, and the SP needs to do everything in her power to provide a good session. However there are times when two people just click and that connection makes the session extraordinary.

    It's also important for the client to choose the right provider. If a girl is known for providing a soft gentle GFE service and you are looking for a PSE service, you may be setting yourself up for disappointment.

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    Hi JSB,

    Actually it all depends what the SP is advertising. There are escorts and there are companions. companions are usually indies. A client who is hiring a companion is looking to spend some quality time with the lady, not only having sex with her. I will never expect any chemistry from an escort. And as I said before, even with companions, one should go for a dry run first to see if it clicks before booking longer appointnments.

    I would also say that your odds are higer, chemistry-wise, with older SPs (30s or 40s) than with younger ones.

    HFE.

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    Maybe I misunderstood the definition of chemistry, JSB. Getting along with a girl sexually is what I called physics as it involves a lot of friction and energy. Chemistry, in my book, is feeling comfortable with a girl, talking to her so freely as if you knew her forever. Good chemistry translates most often into great and passionate physics.

    On the other hand, I do agree with you, that some 19 years old are very mature and street-smart. But, that would be the 1% as you mentioned.

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    D'accord moi aussi avec JSB, l'age de la dame est important. Étant moi meme dans la jeune cinquantaine je connecte beaucoup plus avec des dames de 35 ans et plus voir 40. La partie conversation eat plus agréable et la partie sexe aussi

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    First meetings are not chemistry but to feel each other out, chemistry is with repeat sessions IMO. Even when you meet a new person you can not click in 15 min ( the rest of the time you are having paid sex, so the other 45 does not count ). Be clean and polite and you may get some liking or respect.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sol Tee Nutz View Post
    First meetings are not chemistry but to feel each other out, chemistry is with repeat sessions IMO. Even when you meet a new person you can not click in 15 min ( the rest of the time you are having paid sex, so the other 45 does not count ). Be clean and polite and you may get some liking or respect.
    Well-said STN, one has just about 15 minutes on a first encounter to see whether it will click or not. It is all about first impressions.

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    so what you guys are saying be clean and respectful which is a given
    pay your money and hope for the best
    thanks guys I just learned something

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