Who do you prefer to take the lead at a rendezvous? Do you wait for the other person to initiate?
Quite embarrassing to say but I just stood there like a robot on my first ever encounter and the poor girl had to do all the work, since I was so green at this I wasn't sure what I could & couldn't do. I would like to think I was better with my second one, at least a bit better but I wasn't close to how I usually am.
I usually like the lady I'm with to take just as much initiative as I do, referring to how I would normally take the lead not what I mentioned above LOL! Although I have to admit I do like taking charge as well.
I feel like I am getting more comfortable and my next meeting should be a lot better. I will definitely like to repeat with the first 2 SP's because I enjoyed them so much and really liked their attitude. I Should be a lot more relaxed as well seeing that I know what to expect.