For once i'm not posting a question.
I never could wrap my head around why sex is so bad, everybody does it (well most of us) Nobody would exist without it, how else would we reproduce? Why is something that feels so good and makes people so happy always so BAD. I can sit down in front of my TV during primetime and watch someone's head get blown off or see a burnt body on an autopsy table, but god forbid I should see a woman's breast or 2 people having sex, I don't expect to see graphic sex during primetime but you know what i'm saying. I never understood that.
These laws that are in place to "protect" sex workers, that never made any sense to me. if you want to protect sex workers put laws in place to protect them. Make it legal, have rules and follow up with those rules like you would any other business. Take all the time, money and energy that is being wasted on busting people who are mutually consenting to an agreement and focus on the ones that are truly the bad guys and take them down.
Hey if I could get people to pay ME for having sex with them I would be in the business right now. Am I being forced into it? No. Am I degrading myself? Not in my eyes. Would I be enjoying it all the time? Maybe not if i'm not attracted to the person but hey it's my choice.
I will admit I had different views of escorts before I started on these forums. I never looked down at them or anything but reading these posts shows you another side of them. I never thought being with an escort would be the way it was for me, i'm not talking about the sex part, just everything else, I was treated with kindness and understanding. It's not as robotic as I thought it would be, of course there are SP's that don't get into it but there's are a lot of them that do, there seems to be an intimacy, weather real or not it feels nice and sometimes it's just two people having fun with each other.
Everybody has their own reason for going to escorts, there is obviously a need for them. It's getting me through a very difficult time in my life and i'm thankful for it, it's just very frustrating that I can't speak to anybody outside these forums about is because it's so "Wrong and disgusting" in some people's eyes. I know plenty of people that got married and had kids for the sole reason that their husbands or wives had money or a certain status in the community. They are miserable, not happy, grumpy individuals. That to me is wrong & disgusting.
I was never into politics, always hated it. When I heard about this new law I read up on it and I really couldn't wrap my head around it's justification of how it's there to protect these sex workers. There are so many other ways to do that.