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    Dining at the Y. instructions?

    OK, put ego's aside. Looking to improve my style. Who would be the best SP instructor? I do "not" get excited with woman where their thighs touch when standing up. sorry, but the friction, heat and perspiration turns me off. So aside from the expected comments, who would you recommend as an SP that has the patience and attitude t0 guide me to the "best practices". Always looking to "up" my game and talk alone won't do it. In town in 2 weeks and wanted to plan ahead. Merci

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    you can always look up nina hartley instructional vid. she has one where she talks about how to eat pussy

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    haha, a few PM's about "who cares", it's a guys world. Sorry, disagree. I think my style works but want to get much better. For me, there is value in a partner gasping and asking to rest for a few minutes for real and not effect. Looking for a truly fit and open SP that will spend the hour "teaching" how to make her happy. If she wants to extend the time or share the experience, even better. To me, this is fun and want to be the best.....

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    For that kind of meeting I would go with a young woman not a girl.
    Naomie ŕ MSC would be one of the best.

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    Chad, there is a slight problem with your request.
    Every woman likes it different....and some women like it different depending on the time and date and their cycle.
    Only solution is to experiment with each woman and find out for yourself.
    Communicate verbally and listen for clues.
    When she screams..... don`t fucking stop....that`s a good clue.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cloudsurf View Post
    When she screams..... don`t fucking stop....that`s a good clue.
    What...? I thought it was time to say I'm sorry I won't do it again! loll

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    Quote Originally Posted by cloudsurf View Post
    When she screams..... don`t fucking stop....that`s a good clue.
    LOL obviously

    I even had the chance to hear :
    - don`t fucking stop ... Am gonna come !
    NO Expectations, High satisfactions!

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    http://www.theattractionforums.com/s...k-orgasms.html

    Ohhhh you have been warned if she allows digits. LOL. It would be an absolute mess if she squirts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cloudsurf View Post
    Chad, there is a slight problem with your request.
    Every woman likes it different.....
    When she screams..... don`t fucking stop....that`s a good clue.
    Agreed. Well said, Cloudy
    Quote Originally Posted by Delta123 View Post
    What...? I thought it was time to say I'm sorry I won't do it again! loll
    Delta, there is a difference between ... don`t fucking stop ...and... DON"T!!! Fucking STOP!!!
    Quote Originally Posted by Numerati View Post
    http://www.theattractionforums.com/s...k-orgasms.html
    .... It would be an absolute mess if she squirts.
    The cleanup makes it fun.
    Quote Originally Posted by pat98 View Post
    ...I even had the chance to hear :
    - don`t fucking stop ... Am gonna come !
    Me too!
    Quote Originally Posted by ChloeeRose View Post
    ....Communication is the key ...
    Right on, Chloe.
    Chad, you might want to watch out for overbite. That is when you are dining away, enjoying your "meal" and it suddenly starts to taste like shit. That is when you might hear ... don`t fucking stop ...or... DON"T!!! Fucking STOP!!! I've heard both.

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    watch lesbo porn! They all like things differently!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cloudsurf View Post
    Chad, there is a slight problem with your request.
    Every woman likes it different....and some women like it different depending on the time and date and their cycle.
    Only solution is to experiment with each woman and find out for yourself.
    Communicate verbally and listen for clues.
    When she screams..... don`t fucking stop....that`s a good clue.
    Every woman is different in their own unique way and some reach orgasms really easy. My take on this is WHIP CREAM and CHOCOLATE SYRUP....You cant go wrong. You see as your licking the stuff off of her, her verbal responses change and when you lick the right spot, she will let you know and X marks the spot. And you have fun in the process..Don't forget the lobster bib, it gets messy. Crap, i have a feeling i just outed myself to some ladies..LOL.

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    I spent a delightful hour with my favorite MPA today, in Toronto. She told me, and I quote, "You eat pussy like a girl...". I think that that was a compliment... ;-)

    Different girls like different things, and I think the key is to be aware of how they are reacting and if they aren't purring, then adjust your strategy. I think most guys are too hard and fast... Kind of like how we jerk off.... And that isn't, IMHO, what most women like. A light touch, lips, tongue, swirling and sucking, perhaps a finger tip along the way, and depending on the girl, straying for a little DATO to boot...

    Practice makes perfect, and I personally take great pleasure in getting a lady off this way. It's without a doubt, the sax act I like best, giving or receiving.

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    I have come to realize that slow and easy to start is the best approach. Be gentle with the pressure and the time spent directing your attention to her clitoris, too much too early is not going to get the job done. Gentle and indirect to warm up the engine and then a little more gas as you go. I will eventually introduce one digit then two and stimulate the G spot at the same time which in my experience causes a flood of emotion lol I have had women squirt and then tell me that they never have done that before if they relax they will all squirt and patience is the key to having them relax. I will take no less than 20 minutes to 1/2 hr to enjoy DATY with a woman......hey, I love it too Scratches on your arms and shoulders and a good soaking of you and the bed are pretty good indicators that the job was done well and properly. Remember that women are all different but the stimulation is the same, just watch the speed
    " You actually get to choose your friends, family.........well..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Doggyluver View Post
    I have come to realize that slow and easy to start is the best approach. Be gentle with the pressure and the time spent directing your attention to her clitoris, too much too early is not going to get the job done. Gentle and indirect to warm up the engine and then a little more gas as you go. I will eventually introduce one digit then two and stimulate the G spot at the same time which in my experience causes a flood of emotion lol I have had women squirt and then tell me that they never have done that before if they relax they will all squirt and patience is the key to having them relax. I will take no less than 20 minutes to 1/2 hr to enjoy DATY with a woman......hey, I love it too Scratches on your arms and shoulders and a good soaking of you and the bed are pretty good indicators that the job was done well and properly. Remember that women are all different but the stimulation is the same, just watch the speed
    Doggyluver, I think you just made ME squirt!

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    Its finger food, you do not need utensils.

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