View Poll Results: Should your provider contact you after an encounter?

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Thread: Would you like a follow-up contact from your independent provider after an encounter?

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    Question Would you like a follow-up contact from your independent provider after an encounter?

    As discussed in another thread, opinions seem to vary, so I thought I'd try a poll. Would you like your provider to contact you, perhaps thank you for your meeting?

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    Thanks sweet Tianna,

    I'm sure you are going to find this will be around 50/50 or more in favor of hearing from the ladies one way or another. I'm sure if not for the risk of being discovered most guys would be far in favor of some sort of contact after and between encounters...if it was a successful meeting.

    Good luck,

    Merlot

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    Marketing! Part of a good loyalty program ... It's interesting , so next time I see an Indy/agency I would love to ear from them so I can give them back an appreciation of the encounter ( what is satisfying, on schedule , clean/dirty place and more ! ). A good way to build up a list of favorite clientele and what they like . We should have a third email for that kind of correspondence .

    I think it's even most important for agency because we don't have a more direct contact with the head of the agency!
    It's all about quality control And expectations!

    Great idea and thread Tianna !

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    I always send a thank you email following an encounter. To most, I will let them know that I would be delighted to see them again and should they need a reference in the future, to feel free to contact me as I would be happy to provide one for them.

    From experience, I can tell you my patrons most appreciate it.
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    Personally if a meeting went particularely well I let the gentleman know to feel free to write me to update me on how he is doing, even if it's not about a booking, just because i'd like to stay in contact.
    This opens up the lines of communication, and if the gentleman write to say hello I know that it's ok for me to write him from time to time to do the same

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    I had a few providers over the years that would contact me asking to see me again etc..i actually like that... then ended they contact me almost every week ... im thinking of one in particular that got too comfortable and service was affected so i had to end it...too bad we had a lot of fun together

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    It really doesn't bother me if an independent lady contacted me for any reason.

    I don't really expect it, but it's always really nice to get a genuine thank you e-mail or text from someone I just saw, IF it's genuine.

    I've PM'd or e-mailed some of the women after a date to thank them for the time they spent with me, not because I felt I had to but I genuinely wanted to.

    I also find little flirty texts or emails before an encounter helps build the excitement or anticipation of the upcoming date as well

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    It's not a simple Yes or No answer. It's more a matter of making a judgement call. Assuming the encounter went well then a few simple questions before leaving should help resolve this question, i.e. "Would you mind if I communicate with you from time to time?" or "Would you like me to keep in touch with you?" Of course it is different for an Agency follow-up which I appreciate. If you, as an Independent, get a "No" response to these questions it may help trigger a discussion of whether the encounter was enjoyable or not and may help resolve any negative feelings to ensure a repeat in the future. Of course some guys rarely repeat with an SP but may recommend her to a friend.
    I once had an Independent call me repeatedly after a first meeting - which meeting was rushed and cut short and left me to finish the job myself. I couldn't believe how clueless she was when she seemed surprised that I didn't enjoy our first encounter. For a lot of older guys like me (50+) it's more about the fantasy and we appreciate the niceties and subtleties of being with a sensual woman who seems to enjoy our company as much as we enjoy being with her.

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    Voted No.

    In my case as a client; if the encounter goes as or better than expected I will write a thank-you and provide praise without fail, at this point a reply from the provider is nice.

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    If the results go the way I think they will, ladies, you've just created some more work for yourself!

    Because scheduling and prepping and answering inquiries are not keeping you busy enough already, right? Agencies have a hard enough time responding promptly to questions during the busy season, this just raises empty hopes in hobbyists, for something that will be very difficult to execute well.

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    Hello all,

    Quote Originally Posted by snoodle View Post
    ... then ended they contact me almost every week ... im thinking of one in particular that got too comfortable and service was affected so i had to end it...too bad we had a lot of fun together
    Yes, for the first part I realize this contact has a lot to do with marketing, still I would not want to be solicited frequently. Let's make that distinction clear. What I am referring to is some light contact and some mutual appreciation. If someone did solicit me too much for meetings then the feeling turns around completely and it starts to feel more and more like it's only about money. This happened to a friend of mine when the lady realized he had feelings for her and she and the agency owner took the opportunity to call and call frequently. That would be a bad move for me by any lady and a real turn off.

    For the second part, too much familiarity can be a real problem. I've never been in a position where I can see someone frequently, as in weekly. But I can understand where the lady might start to feel she has a sure thing and the quality of the meeting suffers.

    As long as both clients and ladies don;t get carried away with either pushing business too much on her side or getting too involved on his side I am all for some appreciative interest from her and I hope she feels the same way.

    Cheers,

    Merlot

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    Nice Tianna

    Honest communication is always welcome and a good thing in my opinion, whatever the content

    One of the reasons I don't bother with conventional relationships/dating

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    Quote Originally Posted by Amelie.courtesan View Post
    Personally if a meeting went particularely well I let the gentleman know to feel free to write me to update me on how he is doing, even if it's not about a booking, just because i'd like to stay in contact.
    This opens up the lines of communication, and if the gentleman write to say hello I know that it's ok for me to write him from time to time to do the same
    This is perfect for me. I don't expect daily or even weekly contact.

    I always found the follow up email a pleasant surprise but I wouldn't want it to be a forced cut and paste email either. No point if you just saying cause everyone else is

    I saw one SP where it was cool for a while with occasional email notes until I wasn't able to see her a for a bit and then it just seemed like conversation dried up, forgetting to reply... That's ok, I just need to go find someone else The big question now I guess is why I'm not just spending it on Amelie?

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    From my point of view I always send a short text after a meeting just to say thank you and telling the girl how much I enjoyed the time we shared. I'm not a big fan of return texts the next day or days later as it will sometimes be at a time which might not be convenient but an e-mail is always welcomed and appreciated, I enjoy the interaction and will make me want to see that girl again.
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    I think it would be great to get feedback. I realize that its a lot of work... But perhaps indies can give feedback at least to their repeating clients or merb members so that they can always improve for the next meeting. There is an advantage to providing feedback to first time clients which can help a client repeat

    So I vote for yes

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