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Thread: What does "No rush" in an ad really mean ?

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    What does "No rush" in an ad really mean ?

    I'm sure many of you like myself have gone through the ads on 123, backpage etc looking at the ads and reading the offers. One thing that I have had a hard time coming to grips with is the "No rush" offers in these ads. My question is, why are the young ladies offering 15 min $$$, 30 mins $$$, and 1 hr $$$ then adding that they have a no rush policy. I may be stupid but to me no rush means just that, hell, I'll take the 15 min special and extend it to 1 hr if your policy is "No Rush "
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    Yes, I believe it means rush like hell. LOL

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    It always makes me laugh when I see no rush for those ladies who offer those,in my sense ,weird package...15 min ? Really?

    I've had request for 15 min and my standard reply is : ''shower is there,take matter in your own hands '' loll

    Even 1 hr is too short most of the time...

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    I assumed that no rush meant that she would not try and get you off in 15 min during a 1 hr session and call it an evening, but I also assumed that my Oilers would be in the playoffs by now.
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    It might be that she like to take time to speak in beginning, so if you want to shot on goal with a girl that said no rush maybe you'll have to get her to start to fun play earlier.

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    The vast majoroty of girls are rushing, time is $$. For me no rush is when the girl is rushing but give you the apperance that she is not

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    A 15 minutes session with the epithet « no rush »...it simply doesn't make sense!

    It is probably a fallout from the thread on skin diseases. In that case the proper title of the thread should be: "No Rash!"
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    Gentlemen,

    Quote Originally Posted by protagoras View Post
    A 15 minutes session with the epithet « no rush »...it simply doesn't make sense!

    It is probably a fallout from the thread on skin diseases. In that case the proper title of the thread should be: "No Rash!"
    Or "no Rush" could mean you don't have some self-righteous nutcase screaming about morals at you while you're DOING IT!

    http://media.salon.com/2013/08/rush_limbaugh5.jpg

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    I personally allow gents to take a shower at my location before we play, and time starts when he is all nice and clean and ready to play. This doesn't apply to 15min sessions.

    Also, I do not terminate the session automatically when the guy got all of his allowed SOGs. I keep exchanging, caressing, cuddling, kissing, etc... The experience doesn't end there.

    I like to offer full sessions. Sometimes I even like to talk a bit, before or after, off timer. This, to me, makes the encounter less of a business transaction. It's just more human. That is my "No Rush" policy.

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    15 minute sessions? These would have been great when I was 16. Hell I wouldn't of been able to last that long.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hungry101 View Post
    Yes, I believe it means rush like hell. LOL
    Ya i agree !

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    I do advertise an unrushed experience. What it means to me? We start with conversation and cuddling, maybe some wine, get comfortable with each other. Then we spend time slowly exploring each other's bodies, touching and kissing before moving on to the actual "events"...the experience is relaxed and not at all pressured. The shortest appointment I offer is one hour but I do prefer at least 90 minutes.

    Many clients have come to me with stories of escorts who literally pushed them directly into the action, then tried to get them off as quickly as possible. Those experiences felt impersonal and distinctly "rushed". I am positioning myself in direct contrast to those experiences.

    Unfortunately some girls will lie. A girl offering a 15 minute "no rush" service could also be the one falsely claiming to have "real pics" and offering "GFE" service, etc. As always, it's up to the client to do their homework before meeting.

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    I always joke that I am not a clock watcher because I don't see it , I remove my glasses in bed unless there is a mirror on the ceiling that is loll ,
    but more seriously the way I plan my 1hr meeting is 1hr of play so the chit chat before and the shower (hopefully together) after is not in the 1hr if my date is not in a hurry,
    I kind of prefer postponing a meeting when my date tells me he has 60 min top chrono to meet between meetings...I do not want to have to check the time...

    I prefer longer meeting because I do talk a lot and love to share funny Lily stories,being a klutz does makes for funny (afterward) anecdotes...

    If there is no talking connection is missing for me...

    One of my worst meeting ever ,was a few years ago when I met this gentleman who had requested my red boots,fine, I arrive ,barely a hello,no kiss,he told me to undress ,put on the boots and lie in the bed while he went to the bathroom,came out ,did the deed without a sound,got up got dress and left...20 min flat..I was speechless... Not my idea of a nice unrushed meeting

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    Quote Originally Posted by LilyForYou View Post

    One of my worst meeting ever ,was a few years ago when I met this gentleman who had requested my red boots,fine, I arrive ,barely a hello,no kiss,he told me to undress ,put on the boots and lie in the bed while he went to the bathroom,came out ,did the deed without a sound,got up got dress and left...20 min flat..I was speechless... Not my idea of a nice unrushed meeting
    This really sound to me like a dominator fetish. He does not want to connect cause for him the escort is just there to satisfy a need. Pardon the vulgarity, and remember this is not what i personally think, just analizing this situation, but it really feel like what he wanted was just a "hole to empty himself" , and somewhat loved red boots as it may re-inforce the "prostitute look" if i can say.

    During my years in this "business" as both in front and in the back of it, i seen some very "special" stuff to say the least. Some clients do not care at all about there "partner" and they are really there as a service they pay for. With some guy it evolve into this kind of dominance yet passive way and the "in control" factor, for others it may even be in the rougher side like forced deepthroat and choking, wich seem to be kinda popular , and im always surprised that some girls allow it or don't make it more clear that its a nogo.

    In any case back on subject personally the norush meaning for me would mean a girl take her time to spend the entire hour with her client. I seen again all kinds of provider in my years. Some like to chat a lot, wich may seem like a norush thing at first but then you realize later that your time has vaporized and your forced to rush to finish... Some could say "no worry it does not matter if we go 10 min overtime" and this could be seen as norush.

    I saw escorts who had very minimal conversation skills and the "introduction" was really awkward, but then once the sex started it was actually very cool... so i would rather have her just "rush" in that case lol.

    Then there is alwyas the old "leaving before the hour is over" Some providers just rushing you to make you cum the fastest possible and then being out. Its a thing that was(is?) more frequent in newspaper or such type of agencies, where MSOG is not a possibility.

    In any case as a client personally , here is how a session SHOULD go for me. Note that i only take 1H meetings.

    1) Between 5 and 10 mins of introduction

    I always see outcall so i am always clean when she arrive, so if she need a refresh in the bathroom i would include it in the 10 mins intro. I never ask for clothes changing or stuff like that so bathroom should not be too long. Sometimes it may expend a bit if the person is really easy going but if she ain't at least kissing me by the 15 min mark there is something wrong

    2) Cuddling and kissing is expected first, not overly long, just to make me hard and i dunno, i had some girls go directly downstairs and it felt awkward, kissing and cuddling is like the power on switch to me

    3) I need a solid 30 mins of BJ/Sex at least... so if everything is respected, this put us at the 45 mins mark

    4) A little post chat after sex is cool, while she remain close to me for 5-10min

    5) When there is 5 mins or so left, she can shower and gather her stuff

    Thats more or less an usual great hour, but it does not always happen like that, i had girls who where very timid when arriving and the sex would almost start immediately, we would finish with 25 mins left and then she would open up and chat a lot, because the ice was broken... I am a 1 SOG kinda guy, i can't achieve more than 1 in an hour now, so no matter how much time is left at the end, i can't really restart as i need a solid 15 mins of recharging time

    Soooo... damn that was a long post... lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hungry101 View Post
    15 minute sessions? These would have been great when I was 16. Hell I wouldn't of been able to last that long.
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