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    Smile Premature Ejaculation

    This is my first post here on this forum. Sorry not a big hobbist for seeing SP that why I have no post. Looking for some advice how to solve premature ejaculation.

    1) I don't watch porn and even don't masturbate.
    2) I need to see any urologist or sexologue.
    3) I should perform some kind of therapy, what they do really and how it works.
    4) I use this product call promecent and I was not too satisfy.
    https://www.promescent.com/about-promescent
    5) Any ideas if this legit or a scam. Is that product can work to solve my problem.
    http://www.klipdomm.com/catalog/#.ViQd634vdiw

    Any ideas or advice is greatly welcome. Thank to you all for participating.

    Mod if I have post it to the wrong section please move it to the right place.

    Skyrocket

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    Hmmmm....they have condoms coated with something so you last longer. I know Durex has a version, and I think Trojan does too. I've tried Durex at least, and it seems to help.

    Also, how hard are you when you're doing your thing? The harder you are, usually the longer you last. If you're semi-flaccid, you'll come way faster. If that's the case, you might want to look into something like Viagra as well.

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    Charmer_,

    I have no problem to get a hard erection and even I can stay hard very long time during foreplay or oral sex. I think Viagra is for people who have erection problem. I don't want to use Viagra.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Skyrocket View Post
    Any ideas or advice is greatly welcome. Thank to you all for participating.
    Tu es jeune?

    Se masturber le plus souvent possible.

    Dr. Rose lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lily-Rose View Post
    Tu es jeune?

    Se masturber le plus souvent possible.

    Dr. Rose lol
    La masturbation chez l'homme n'aide en rien avec l'éjaculation prématuré bien au contraire. C'est la pire des solutions. Les sensations d'une main n'a rien à voir avec les sensations par la pénétration. Se masturber ne va que l'entrainer à être plus résistant qu'à la masturbation. La meilleure solution est l'entrainement à la pénétration (si ton problème est sur ce point) et pour ça tu dois avoir une partenaire très receptive à tes besoins et qui comprend ton problème. C'est à force de cerner son point de non retour que l'on s'améliore. Si c'est après 30 secondes, ta partenaire doit comprendre que tu dois prendre une pause après 30 secondes (c'est un peu poche pour elle mais c'est la réalité). Le jour suivant sera peut-être 1 minute et ainsi de suite. Ce problème ne se règle pas en 30 secondes malheureusement mais avec beaucoup d'entraînement.

    Tu peux souffrir d'hypersensibilité du pénis et utilisé des condoms plus épais comme mentionner ci-haut ou avec des crèmes (par exemple des crêmes pour le mal des gencives contenant de la benzocaine, lidocaine et des crêmes que les tatoueur appliques sur la peau avant de faire un tatoo) mais il ne font que masquer le problème et non le résoudre. L'alcool aussi (sans problème d'érection)... Qui n'a jamais durer plus longtemps lorsqu'il est saoul «gelé»! Mais ce n'est que des solutions temporaires.

    Bref l'entrainement et une partenaire qui est prête à savoir que tu ne vas la «rider» comme un taureau dès les premiers soir est la meilleure solution définitive. Et certaines positions sexuelles moins «hard» peuvent t'aider à apprendre tes sensations (le missionnaire étant une des pires pour l'homme).

    Mais bon dans un cas désespérer avec les benzocaine, lidocaine ou promecent (qui est du lidocaine) l'appliquer sur une peau moite après un bain (chaud idéalement) ou juste après la douche améliore nettement l'efficacité car le produit pénétra beaucoup mieux la peau. Tu vas réaliser que ça te «gel» nettement plus le gland que lorsque que tu l'applique sur un peau sèche.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AbEn View Post
    La masturbation chez l'homme n'aide en rien avec l'éjaculation prématuré bien au contraire. C'est la pire des solutions. Les sensations d'une main n'a rien à voir avec les sensations par la pénétration. Se masturber ne va que l'entrainer à être plus résistant qu'à la masturbation.
    Possible. Chacun son remède.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lily-Rose View Post
    Dr. Rose lol
    Est-ce que "Jouer au docteur" est un service que tu offre, Dr. Rose?

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    Hello all

    I have seen this topic going by a few times already here are the links



    https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread...RE+EJACULATION

    https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread...RE+EJACULATION



    Cheers




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    Premature ejaculation and premature orgasms seem to get confused quite a bit.

    Premature ejaculation (ejaculation without experiencing an actual orgasm) is due to a variety of factors but is generally stress related and can't be fixed just by masturbating a few times. It is better to talk to a doctor about. Or even you SP - you never know having it out in the open might destress you just enough

    Premature orgasms though, masturbating until you reach the edge and then stopping & waiting, and repeating this cycle a few times may help train your body be patient.

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    If you can reject any medical reasons for your pe, then it's stress related. I would avoid gels, creams .... The best way, imho, is to focus on your breathing from the time you enter the pussy until the end. Try to sync it with your in-out movement. For example, breath out during 5 in/out and breath in during 4. You need to find the rythme with which you are comfortable without becoming short of breath. Consulting meditation articles/books would be a good start if you are not familiar with the subject.
    Don't get discouraged if it doesn't work at the beginning. It takes some time and practice until you become comfortable with the method and control your ejaculation.

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    Strange that the original poster does not mention the length of his refractory period.

    If he can come twice in an hour, or attempt to reduce his refractory period to do so, premature ejaculation for the first one is just not that big of a deal. That is where Viagra, which he flat out rejects, can be quite beneficial. It is of course easier to do two in an hour if there is enough gap between seeing providers.

    This is a way to turn a negative into a positive. I like the scene in Orange is the New Black where the guy is trying to get interest in an article regarding delaying ejaculation. The editor says, why wouldn't I want to cum? Cumming is the whole goddamn point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MsWolfe View Post
    Premature orgasms though, masturbating until you reach the edge and then stopping & waiting, and repeating this cycle a few times may help train your body be patient.
    I agree with Ms Wolfe here, be patient and train your body. You'll be surprised with what you can achieve.

    In the meantime, If there's some positions that you last longer than others, then enjoy them and just end off with the one you know you will finish the fastest with.

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    Not that i would suggest this to anyone, but i used to destroy my body after i heard about a trick from a porn industry insider..
    They all take a speed and a viagra.
    The speed delays orgasm to a maximum and keeps the individual extremely horny while the viagra keeps him erect for hours.
    Of course this is an awful way to increase sexual pleasure, and in the end who cares how long it takes you to orgasm as long as you can recoup and do it multiple times

    P.s, people who take anti depressants, the main side effect in many of them is extreme difficulty to achieve orgasm, and delayed orgasm.
    "Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going"

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    Try this method. If you feel like you are about to cum have the SP shove an ice cube up your ass ( have a bowl ready beside the bed ) the results are amazing.
    I do not think outside the box, I do not think inside the box, I do not even know where the box is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sol Tee Nutz View Post
    Try this method. If you feel like you are about to cum have the SP shove an ice cube up your ass ( have a bowl ready beside the bed ) the results are amazing.
    WTF
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