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Do you use your real name and phone ?

Do you use a personal line ?

  • Yes

    Votes: 63 68.5%
  • No

    Votes: 29 31.5%

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neverbored

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I came across a post on one of those gossip sites regarding an SP that publicly posted shit about a customer (I'm sure as hell not posting a link in the forums that's for sure).
But that made me wonder... how many of you guys are actually "brave" enough to tell them your real name and use a your personal/business cel ?
 

Ricky bonds

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I use my real name, ricky bonds. (I rarely say my name at all though, but when i do its my real name...ricky bonds)
 

2458p

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Yes I do. Well, only my first name, not full name.

I once used the name Alberto at a massage parlor but the girl didn't buy it. It's hard to sell the whole latin thing when you're white. :)
 

Mithridate

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I always give my full name and phone number, since i have nothing to hide and usually trust implicitly the few persons I meet.
 

Numerati

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When I am in the hobby means I am a FREE bro and do whatever and whenever I wish. So yeah I use my real name and my actual cellphone number. When it is all said and done I just erase all texts and numbers on my phone.
 

CaptRenault

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My real name is Captain Louis Renault, but I use a fake name when meeting escorts. :D
 

EdaBlackwood

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Here's the thing. If the guy isn't a wanker he won't need a burner cell and a fake number. I've posted text conversations online before because it was obviously the same guy trying to harass me from different numbers, and other providers need to be aware that he may try the same things with them - so it gets posted.

Not a jerk? Not a problem
 
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Lily from Montreal

There such a thing as too much information? Real name? Fine , fake? Again I do not mind but give me something I can use ,signing ''Big Dick '' is a no-no.

But I think it is a bad idea to write using your work email...
I once scolded a gentleman because he wrote using the company letterhead, he just laughed and said it was his company.
Still,me of course I am trustworthy but you don't know who you are writing to.
I did appreciate though that a gentleman did that because he wrote from a company I used to work,I didn't know him but I didn't want to take chances so declined the meeting...
 
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Maria Divina

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Lily,

There is a lot of classical renowned Indies who are demanding real names. That's part of a regular screening for a lot of people in the USA, and even in Canada. It has been ages that people are processing this way.

Please, I am curious: do you have yourself a kind of screening to keep you safe?
 

letsrock2012

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Yes I do... I mean the name and the phone number :D got nothing to hide. That being said I do choose whom I contact.
 
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Lily from Montreal

Of course Maria,I've been Lily for a while now...maybe not as long as you but if I made mistakes it was in the beginning,like not asking for a phone number and confirmation the day before...now I have a sixth sense ,some I know right away they will be a waste of time...
 

FunSexyMan

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When I first started seeing companions, I had no references to validate who I am as a person/client.

I totally understand the concern of giving out my name, cell number and personal email. I never know for sure if I'm giving my contact info to a law enforcement or the potential of it being abused by the companion.

With some research, using sites such as MERB, it helped to validated the sincerity of the desired companion I would like to see.

With my concerns alleviated, I found that giving my actually name and contact info helps to validate who I am. By being truthful, it helped to build trust between companions and myself.

However, if one is insulting, demeaning and/or derogatory to companions, it is fair game to post these idiots' contact info and communications online.

Hopeful, it helps to regulate unsavory behaviours and to show to others how not to act.
 

anon_vlad

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Here's the thing. If the guy isn't a wanker he won't need a burner cell and a fake number. I've posted text conversations online before because it was obviously the same guy trying to harass me from different numbers, and other providers need to be aware that he may try the same things with them - so it gets posted.

Not a jerk? Not a problem

Firstly, you may have heard about a new law: C-36. It hasn't been repealed and may be enforced some day somewhere in Canada against a man who pays for sex from a woman legally allowed to sell it. Even without it, some of us have significant others or occupations which we can lose if an escort exposes us. I had a regular who appeared to me to be a nice and normal human for a year and a half. When I informed her that I was ending the relationship, she threatened me.

There was a report of an escort yesterday on this forum who became abusive when a potential client refused to accede to a price increase hours after the booking had been made. While I am unfailingly polite, keep appointments, don't waste the time of others and don't bargain for SP services, I am not going to risk exposure because somebody decides I am a jerk for reasons which may not be warranted.

Yes, I use a burner phone and never give my real name. I would be astonished if you don't do the same. Calling me and others like me wankers doesn't reflect well on you.
 
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Lily from Montreal

I've met a surprisingly big quantity of ''John Smith'' over the years lol

As for phone I have two, one is my Lilyphone and the other my real life phone ,a lot of the ladies have two...why not the gent?
 

neverbored

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I found that giving my actually name and contact info helps to validate who I am. By being truthful, it helped to build trust between companions and myself.

Trust? I sort of get what you mean, but how do you decide you can trust the SP in question? Because she's been reviewed ? Really ? How do you know for certain that this info won't end up in the wrong person's hands? A friend of hers, a pimp, LE, etc.. ? Perhaps I'm the one with trust issues ? :(

However, if one is insulting, demeaning and/or derogatory to companions, it is fair game to post these idiots' contact info and communications online.

We can only see one side of the conversation though. Who is to say she doesn't hide her comments to the client? Trying to pass as a victim, getting people to feel sorry for her. Not trying to defend anyone... I am sure there are quite a number of shit heads out there as well. But I don't interact when them (unless there are hidden on this board). I've seen some cases first-hand do a full 180degrees on me due to unrelated shit going on in her personal life and suddenly decide to take it out on me (and others).

So I can see this situation degenerating badly for others. I can think of one incident in particular where a girl I had been seeing (for years) had a personal situation get out of hand with her family. It was pretty bad... she went into a depression, drugs, lots subsequent poor choices... a really bad spiral. Suddenly one night, she started contacting me threatening to blackmail me ( I know a few other guys also fell victim to this as I knew of another one of her regulars, and he freaked out and wasn't the kind of guy to mess around with). I simply discarded my sim card at the time and got a new one and that was that. She later apologized for you actions... but there could have been significant damage.

Hopeful, it helps to regulate unsavoury behaviours and to show to others how not to act.

I agree with the idea behind what you're saying. I've had SPs show me their "winners circle" messages. There are A LOT of creepy keyboard warriors out there that hide behind the anonymity of their phones. Ever checkout any girls messages on any dating site? There are a LOT of classless assholes out there. Hell, I'm sure I've sent messages to a girls which could pass as unsavoury on a drunk horny night.

But SPs, as purveyors of sexual fantasies, immediately attract the scum of the earth looking to indulge in his most darkest fantasies using a very untactful approach. Surely it is to be expected when you accept to do this line of work?

Still can't see any valid reasons to take up this behaviour. This will also have serious impacts on good customers...

Yes, I use fake name, fake occupation, fake email, fake burner hell... even a fake accents at times (its fun). She has no use for this information all she needs to know is I pay well and am respectful of set boundaries. I've even been quite open about it (get laughs for the accent). Never had I had a girl get pissed at me for doing so.

I'm kind of on the fence on this one.... maybe not. If I can't trust an SP with my PIN, I don't see why I should trust her with my personal info.


part of a regular screening for a lot of people in the USA, and even in Canada. It has been ages that people are processing this way.


As for a screening process... I think SP references work well. Did it out West without a hitch. Let's protect the girls, but let's be safe doing so. I think that would also do wonders in ridding this board with the rediculous amount of non-contributing lurkers.

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FunSexyMan

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Trust? I sort of get what you mean, but how do you decide you can trust the SP in question? Because she's been reviewed ? Really ? How do you know for certain that this info won't end up in the wrong person's hands? A friend of hers, a pimp, LE, etc.. ? Perhaps I'm the one with trust issues ? :(

By being anonymous with ones identity, it doesn't help to give that sense of safety and security for the companion. Plus, if SPs don't know who you are and have no references to back up your character, then why would they bother accepting someone as a potential client. Yes, there is a risk with giving your information out. But, I realize that I have to take that initial risk in showing the honesty of who I am.

Also, I find anonymity has a tendency of letting individuals act in disrespectful manners which could potentially lead to some unsafe encounters.

Trust has to start somewhere. As a gentleman, it's important to take the initiative to establish a positive safe encounter(s) with a companion.
 

2458p

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By being anonymous with ones identity, it doesn't help to give that sense of safety and security for the companion. Plus, if SPs don't know who you are and have no references to back up your character, then why would they bother accepting someone as a potential client. Yes, there is a risk with giving your information out. But, I realize that I have to take that initial risk in showing the honesty of who I am.
Question: I only use my first name, Jonathan, never my family name. Real first name, real phone number of course. Do you know if most clients give their full names? I've never asked this question, I thought giving the full name was giving too much information for nothing.
 

EdaBlackwood

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I didn't say that people who use burner phones are wankers. I said people who are abusive are wankers. I'm sorry if that got list in there. I reply from my phone and typing coherently with two fingers doesn't always get things across
 

smuler

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Here's the thing. If the guy isn't a wanker he won't need a burner cell and a fake number

This is whats written..I am sure you can go back and edit the post

PS- I couldn't care less about this thread..just pointing this out...

Best Regards

Smuler
 
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