I am really good with responding to messages both text and email. Unless I am ignoring it or dont know how to respond I will give a reply 80% of the time within 35 minutes 97% of the time within the hour. This is largely due in part to the fact that I am always on my phone and I never get off of it.
Two different scenarios within the last 24 hours. A guy emailed me wanting to see me (19 hours prior to the appointment time) I messaged back within 5 minutes saying I would be free I asked him to confirm the length of time he wanted to see me for. He never replied. Was he just wasting my time ? Someone else sent me a text I responded within the minute hours later they didnt reply.
Does it seem bad on my part to respond quickly ? What is a guys general take when a sp responds really quickly or really slowly to emails/texts ? Should I make people wait? I respond to emails quicker because I know that some guys have separate accounts which they only check so often. Both these messages were written very thoughtfully no vulgar messages or asking for services so they didnt seem like time wasters. Were they shy ?