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    tipping advice

    Does anyone have advice on tipping? Specifically, is it better to tip before or after an encounter???

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    Well if you plan seeing her again then tip after. If you are accustomed to tipping and do not plan seeing her again then tip before.

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    Tipping is not expected, as far as I've been told by SP it is rare and, I think, should not be encouraged.
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    I found out the hard way, for massages at flip time, tipping after being offered the menu, usually just gives you ten minutes of what you pay for.

    Tipping before the massage starts, you can get you topless fun right away.
    Once I tipped an extra 5 at the end, because the MP got into the massage and rubbed her upper body quite a few times before the flip. Unexpected, happy, extra tip. Call it a mini-Thai.

    Haven't yet been to an SP...if I would, I would only tip after, if I feel I have the experience to judge the girl went out of her way to make me happy.
    I would only tip a small amount, like a 5, just to make her happy back.
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    ...but divorce had me lose weight...I can see the tip now!

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    "The other best way is to call her again! I find it the best way to tell her she does provide a good service no??"


    I agree, this is the best way of tipping, it shows the sp that she was so good the first time around that you decided to call her again.

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    Here's my take on tipping:

    For exceptional, exceptional service, tip after. Otherwise, from my experience, tipping is not expected in Montreal.

    I wouldn't tip beforehand, and I don't think it's a good idea. Hate to say it, ladies, but I really don't want to encourage tipping.

    Why? Here's an example: tipping is now absolutely expected at U.S. restaurants. You can get the worst service on Earth, and if you don't give 20 percent tip afterward you are regarded as a jerk.

    In the U.S., escorts expect tips, and sometimes you don't know how much unless you get 411 beforehand. Thus you can wind up with an escort you don't even like who'll demand a big tip before her coat even comes off.

    Montreal is a great place for hobbyists to visit. I am generous when it comes to tipping ladies who provide terrific service. I think if too many people get into the habit of tipping, especially before services rendered, it'll become mandatory to tip - as it is in the U.S.

    Just my two cents.

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    Tipping where there are reasonably clear rules, such as in restaurants, is a fine. Tipping in this industry could be bad for business - especially the SPs. The reason is that clients are less likely to repeat business wiht an SP/agency when there is an unexpected demand for a tip, especially beforehand. If i call a place (no names here) where I expect to pay 160 and I suddenly am be told a 60$ tip will be required, I'm now in the $220 range which means that there are many other agencies or independents I could have called. Which mean I won't call this one again.

    Montreal has a pretty major SP business that caters to visitors as much as locals. Most visitors using these services are business people and will tend to repeat visits. As for the locals, repeats is a sure thing. If a person had an amazing time, then tipping after may make sense if you neven intend to see her again, but as mentioned above, the best tip is to repeat with her again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bumfie
    Hate to say it, ladies, but I really don't want to encourage tipping.

    In the U.S., escorts expect tips, and sometimes you don't know how much unless you get 411 beforehand. Thus you can wind up with an escort you don't even like who'll demand a big tip before her coat even comes off.
    I don't know where you hobby in the US - but unless it was Vegas, I don't know of ANY ladies that expect a tip, unless they are the rip-off types (you know, the kind that just sit there for the hour)... all of the girls I know in the US - and I know lot's of the ladies, here in NYC, in DC, and Philly - and none have an expectation of being tipped.

    For me, the question comes down to this... what are you trying convey when you tip a lady? I will tell you what I think when I recieve a tip - I think the guy had a great time and that he wants to see me again. I appreciate it, but I appreciate a call back too, so really it is a personal choice for men to do it or no.

    When I recieve a tip, I put it aside as my play money (I budget every other penny like a hawk!), then usually send a thank you note with a reference to what I did with the moola! I think that is the funnest part!

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    Tipping Strippers

    Do you guys in general tip strippers? I tend to tip them only if I have a great time (no, high mileage is not necessary for a great time; it may just be the stripper's sense of humour), or if they have danced for me before and I really like them. I absolutely HATE it when I am ASKED for a tip.

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    I saw the movie Waiting... recently, which is about a bunch of staff at a small bar and grill, and there were two polar opposite situations in the movie. In one, the protagonist was told to "keep the change" literally. In another, he was given a very large tip but it was done in a very rude and awkward manner ("you need it more than I do"). So to go back to what Anik said, it depends on the attitude and rationale with which it is given.
    Last edited by lovin spoonful; 02-05-2006 at 10:11 PM.

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    Chefplus,

    I agree with you on tipping strippers. If the moment with them was memorable, I give them a little tip.

    I also tip SP's if I find the experience memorable as well.

    Both situations depend on the person, the chemistry (i.e. do we click), and the overall experience.

    CK

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    Tipping hum...

    I would think that U.S. men have so many times got rip off in there country that when they end up in Montreal they feel spoiled and are very happy to tip the girls, at the end of course! What the point to tip before having the services?

    I have to agree with the fact that when a girls his a repeat to someone that is also a kind of tipping.

    About asking for a tip ... hum ... not sure it's very appriciable!

    For example: When I go out in a bar, if I get normal service well I leave normal tip. If the person serving me work out memory to remember what I drink, when and if I need anything else, then it end up with more tip.

    Regarding the escort business, I have to say that it depend on how much you paid for, if there is extra's or not to some services. I know there is a tread also talking about the normal services you can get, you wanna get and what is common appreciate.
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    Anik:

    I did my U.S. foxhunting in New York City. But to be honest, it was 20 years ago, and the rules may have changed.

    I'd rather come to Montreal anyway. The women in Montreal, IMHO, are the most beautiful I have ever seen,

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    Quote Originally Posted by chefplus
    Do you guys in general tip strippers? I tend to tip them only if I have a great time (no, high mileage is not necessary for a great time; it may just be the stripper's sense of humour), or if they have danced for me before and I really like them. I absolutely HATE it when I am ASKED for a tip.
    Asking for a tip seems rude ! I always appreciate(and obviously , thank the guy) a tip but to ask for one .

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    Quote Originally Posted by AutumnHaze
    Asking for a tip seems rude ! I always appreciate(and obviously , thank the guy) a tip but to ask for one .
    Yeah, I consider it rude. There was a dancer at Downtown who said to me, "Please, Please, give me a tip. If I don't ask for one I don't get one".....I'm not kidding. This was after a bizzare dance where she kept saying "Stop touching my pussy!"....and I was touching her upper thigh! I suggested that the next time she wear "bobbettes de grand-mere" to identify no-man's land

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