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    Should I see a sp who I see in a social setting

    Advise needed - I met a sp couple of times in recent past. Since then I also happen to see her in a social setting for last couple of weeks. It was not planned but our paths crossed. Both of us have discretely acknowledged each other. My question is it advisable to have a rendezvous with her now as I am sure we will continue to see each other socially for some time.

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    Been there, done that .... TWICE and I know some hobbyists in my position as well ! One advice, just do not get emotionally attached. Enjoy the ride while it last.

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    LOL. It happens that I used to know a girl who used to be a SP... however, she never mentioned it to me, but I knew she was. I always wanted to fuck her. I had chances to show up at her incall place, but it would be akwards..either she would have been surprised or she would have told me "why you didn"t tell me to do it outside the agency" LOL.
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    Hagubaba,

    Continue seeing her ONLY if you think you can handle seeing her solely as a client and not expecting anything more. I have run into SP's at restaurants, night clubs, strip clubs and hotels and all I do is a slight nod of acknowledgement or if they should approach me first then I just give a quick cheek kiss and I go about my business. By constantly being in a social surrounding where you will often see one another, it's best for both of you to just keep a comfortable distance and not try to be "friends" as can possibly happen if these settings are continuous in nature.

    IMHO, the main point of SP-Client meetings is discretion and what happens behind closed doors should remain behind closed doors. In most cases if not all, she may not even want anyone to know what she does and by becoming overtly friendly it can compromise her personal and private life. Situations such as these are never easy but there is a fine line that should not be crossed. I hope this helps you out.

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    i totally agree with nycbadboy128.

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    Trouble down the road.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cobra1 View Post
    i totally agree with nycbadboy128.
    I second the agreement with NYCBadBoy128.

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    One or the other, not both.

    The only exception is when client and SP are really into each other. The fact that you are asking, sounds like it's not mutual between you too otherwise it would be more obvious. Does she ever contact you just to say what's up? If not, don't give yourself the illusion that the more you hangout with her that she'll fall for you. That doesn't happen unless you both mutually seek out each other's company.

    I've been in relationships with SPs couple times before and it's a lot more obvious when you mutually like one another.
    She would call me or text me on her own just to tell me stuff
    She would ask me to stay over night
    She would bring me gifts meaning she thought of me outside of our time
    She would initiate social meetings
    In the end it should feel natural.

    Don't hurt yourself be careful

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    I think she should have a say in this as well. Just saying. Just because we are escorts doesn't mean we see everyone that contacts us. If i know you outside this world i wouldn't see you in it.
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    Exactly...I juggle many lives and I do not mix them...I see you in real life? No more funlife...
    All classy,all for you...

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    Quote Originally Posted by nycbadboy128 View Post
    what happens behind closed doors should remain behind closed doors. In most cases if not all, she may not even want anyone to know what she does and by becoming overtly friendly it can compromise her personal and private life. Situations such as these are never easy but there is a fine line that should not be crossed. I hope this helps you out.
    Exactly, I ran into SPs right after the session in the elevator a few times, I just pretended I don't know them, some would smile and slightly nod, but I know they don't want to be bothered.

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    Remember if you were a client and now you are a BF she would lose you as a client, I have been there and it can go bad. At the beginning its all fun and games but in the end if you get attached and she gets feeling for you then you need to make a decision if you want her for a long term relationship. If you get her out of the bis you better be able to cash out on her needs, she is making a shit load of money SP so you better be loaded and treat her like a princess. Good luck, my advise is keep it like a transaction and don't get attached, if you see you are getting attached cut the rope and move on to another sp. Your heart needs to be like a stone so you don't get hurt and that only comes with experience.
    Cheers DJ

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    I'm seconding Emma Alexandra and Lily.

    But a question: Why don't you ask her directly what she does prefer? Maybe the solution resides in her answer.

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    Youre right Maria...best way to know ;-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maria Divina View Post
    I'm seconding Emma Alexandra and Lily.

    But a question: Why don't you ask her directly what she does prefer? Maybe the solution resides in her answer.
    Bingo! Maria says it all
    Its funny cause im in the same kind of situation lol and the lady in question prefers not seeing me in a sp/client context because we're friend and it could be weird so i respect that...
    If your friend is confortable with it and you are too, be sure to put some bundaries first and be clear about it and just surf the wave, im sure it can add a little something to your rdv that regular sp/client rdv normally are.
    See it as friends with benefits situation. Did that once with a girl from seeking arrangement and it was really really nice and worked well for a while.
    Just ask her

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