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Thread: What is definitively the most important? Beauty or Attitude? Explain you view.

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    Red face What is definitively the most important? Beauty or Attitude? Explain you view.

    I adore intelligent exchanges about our preferences, our choices, our experiences......

    J'adore les échanges senties et bien écrits sur nos préférences, nos choix, nos expériences......


    So, Ladies & Gentlemen, what is definitively the MOST important for you when you are sharing a tête-à-tête?

    Donc, Mesdames & Messieurs, qu'est-ce qui est définitivement le PLUS important pour vous lorsque vous partager une date?


    And note that the most beautiful part of your answer would be your explanations.

    Remarquez que la partie la plus belle de votre réponse sera les pourquoi.


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    Maria Divina qui travaille à créer un monde meilleur en ce jour d'Action de Grâces 2016

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    Hi Oliver, you changed your handle, me I stick to mine all those years.
    Did not need to change it I'm kidding you.

    Thank you for your great answer. Have a good Thanks Giving, by the way

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    Some, a very few, women have an aura, indescribable but you know it when you feel it.

    In their case looks do not matter. I met a woman like that in 1982...we are still friends though she has long retired. I am still "smitten".
    Since then I have only met one other.

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    Quote Originally Posted by John S. Black View Post
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    I met him. He was a great guy. I ran into him once when he was with a former escort. Too bad I never saw him after.

    Maria Divina was one of the very special ladies. The first meeting was one of the best ever of them all. I can sit right now and see her in my memory as lovely as can be.

    I find physical beauty is easy. It's not necessary to be a supermodel to be very, very beautiful. It's not one kind of type it's many. But attitude is very hard. A lady can only pretend up to a point. The flaws come out and she may not realize she's showing them or is aware she has them, maybe because she is so confident about her beauty. When those flaws show up the physical beauty also declines in importance and if the flaws are bad enough her physical beauty can become repulsive. That has happened many times. It's much better to be average looking, sweet, charming, and genuinely kind and compassionate than only having beauty with a poor attitude.

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    Attitude...

    I had meeting where the girls was extremely beautifull but the attitude/chemistry was lacking and it was not that good.
    I had meeting where the girls where not the hottest ever but with great attitudes and i had fantastic times.

    Obviously the girl have to at least attrack you a bit lol, but attitude over beauty anyday.
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    It changes with time as you mature.

    In my early twenties it probably would have been the supermodel type.

    Today it is somebody who is mature, loves life, and has a genuine connection with people, somebody who can be at home in an elegant setting or at a hokey game.

    Out of all the escorts that advertise here, for me Lily of Montreal and you Maria fit that bill the most.
    You are both sexy as hell, classy, with a great sense of humour, able to speak your mind and get your point across without even the slightest hint of insult and it speaks volumes about your interest in people in general.

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    Je préfère légèrement la beauté, à moins qu'on parle d'une fille qui est pas loin d'être hostile! Quand je choisis de rencontrer une escorte, je la choisis principalement pour sa beauté. C'est un peu le concept pour moi, je paie pour être en compagnie d'une femme qui est plus belle que les femmes que je côtoie habituellement. Pour une partenaire de vie, je choisirais l'attitude et la personnalité (sans virer fou, naturellement; je ne sortirais pas avec quelqu'un qui est défiguré).

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    As a woman of my generation (and yes, I can use that expression ) that's a classic to say that body/beauty isn't the first priority at all.
    (there's some serious survives about that subject, and for men the results are generally slightly different a bit)

    What is the most marvellous for any kind of partnership in life in my eyes (love, friendships, business, private secret encounters, family)

    is to find that incredible love of humanity in someone that understood that sharing, be generous of himself/herself is what is fulling most your own life.

    Love is something when you divise it, it's just multiplying and growing. That's a very fantastic human's capacity, let me tell you.

    And yes, without being a new-age girl, this is all related to our inner energy and the way we are mixing ours with the energy of others.


    ps: thank you for your beautiful and nice comments about me. That's touching. xoxoxoxox

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    I'm still curious about why you are preferring Beauty OR Attitude ?

    And to know what is the most popular in a, hopefully, very large portion of Merb community

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    Quote Originally Posted by John S. Black View Post
    hey long, time no see,you were a companion of my buddie.... startrekk1 a number of times .you remember me as oliver kloseoff... peter (satin dreams) brought you to meet me 1st time at that resturant on ontario st many years back
    attraction and attitude for me,a woman definately does not have to be beautiful,she can actually be homley a bit but something about her makes my dick hard without touching her .

    beauty a woman can be beautiful body and face and inside her be very ugly or her attitude can be a turnoff
    i will take average with a good heart and attraction any day over a barbie doll.
    I agree with you- the most important thing in an encounter is the attitude that both partners bring to the exchange. A very hot girl who brings nothing to the table in an emotional sense leaves me completely cold. I'm not talking about "love" and all that, but a loving attitude, a giving, generous, attentive attitude. When both people, in that brief time, bring it, it is a sublime experience. It's all about attitude.

    Ooops- I just voted "beauty" by mistake... not that there's anything wrong with that...

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    Hi, I am very new to all this and I have to say that beauty gets a lady only so far. Attitude is more important to me. I saw a girl in GTA who wasn't able to make any conversation and I just wanted to get out of there.
    A good attitude brings out the best in the rendezvous, sets a nice mood and makes me more comfortable and its nice to have a conversation that can hold for more than 5 minutes.

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    la fille peux être vraiment belle mais quand elle parle c'est un turn off total (non je donnerai pas de nom) ... ca marchera pas pour moi !

    mais elle peux être moins belle mais son attitude tellement plaisante et le fun ... qu'elle en devient très jolie assez vite et ca donne le gout de la revoir souvent encore et encore ... entk c'est mon point de vue

    A+

    ps : if she have the 2 side ... its a angel !

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    Beauty gets attention and a visit, but only attitude will get a return visit.

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    Attitude trumps beauty with me all the time, as westwoody said, attitude does get a return visit.
    I enjoy a glass of wine each day for it's health benifits. The other glasses are for my witty comebacks and flawless dance moves.

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    Brains and the genuine humanistic attitude toward this poor masculine creature that is slave of his penis is a winner for me

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