Losing virginity to sp....

I find this thread hilarious. My advice - absolutely book a well-reviewed girl and pop your cherry! Life's too short not to enjoy one of the greatest experiences. And if isn't great - try and try again until it is! I think I've put in my 10K hours to be considered a sex expert (and hoping to hit 10K girls in my lifetime).

To be super honest, I'm not sure it's a good idea. Well actually I'm mixed about it. It really depends on what your expectations and motivation are. Of course it depends on who you see and there is potential for big disappointment. I have accepted those types of bookings mainly because I figure at least they will be with someone nice. But it sometimes those are really awkward dates. Not bad but awkward. Depends on the individual of course.

In an ideal world you would have your first time with a woman you love, i think most peoples would agree. But when you are pushing mid 20s and want to experience it, know you will not otherwise... then its a great alternative.

Maybe i was lucky, but i don't have any regret of my first time and who i did it with. Exept maybe i never knew her real name and all i have for souvenir is a picture with blurry face (from the agency website) lol

HM,

Actually you did well , most times it is not with someone you love but someone as young as you and neither one of you really knows what they are doing and you only find out later that it can be sooooo much better.
What you are describing usually happens much later, but you are right nothing compares to being with the one you love, not even the most skilled SP on the planet.

My first time was in High School with my first love. It was both our first time. Was it special? Yes, but she dumped my ass 10 months later because she wanted to see other people. We are FB friends and shes a nice person but she looks like hell. When I look at her current pictures I wonder how someone like that broke my heart. I would have dumped her by now. Honestly, If I would of got it in an alley with a SW leaning over a dumpster it wouldn't make a difference.

This premium that one puts on their virginity is ridiculous. For a woman I guess I can understand it a little more due to societal norms etc. But men? My advice to someone in Montreal is to find someone like Sasha Johansen or Gabrielle Garnier...maybe Heaven or Bianka. Get yourself an uninhibited, experienced seasoned woman and have a great time. It's gonna be awkward but the 2nd time will be better and the 3rd time better yet.

You need to get in the game if you are out of school and working for a living at a big boy job and you haven't got laid yet....it's time!

Patron said:

In Asia, there is a market for deflowering a virgin, and the cost is quite high. As long as the lady is 18 or over, would anyone here pay a premium?

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Hell no. I'd pay less.

When they say a Muslim martyr gets 72 vestal virgins I am thinking Great, blow yourself up and you get 72 women that don't know how to fuck.

The whole 57 seconds that lasted my first fuck would suggest me to tell you to book a 15 minute provider. Get in, put in the rubber and pound away. It's just a fuck. Do not put any fantasy over your first time because anyhow it's bound to fail. But like everything in life everything is hard before becoming easy. So there is hope

Omg some of you guys are giving terrible advices. The first time you're intimate with someone can be very intimidating, you're better off looking for someone with whom you'll be comfortable. Go on twitter and read some of the indy girls profiles and how they act/think/talk. Find one you find attractive for her personnality and her physique, tell her it's your first time and take at least one hour so you can get ease into it. It doesn't have to be terrible or be a quick thing. It can be, of course, but you have to do what make you feel good about it. At least plan it to be special and what will happen will happen.

Rosie in my younger years I probably worked in 200 weddings as a waiter, barman or maitre d. I would say 75% of the time the girl cried at some point during the evening. While the dude is having a blast. Why? Because girl simply overthink the moment. Forget to have fun. Nerves breaks out...

It's the same with losing your virginity. But now it's the dude who overthink. I would say just do it. Anyhow it wont be really good. How could it be? You are nervous.. The girl is nervous. You are putting wayyyyyy to much stress on yoursef.

Every guy I know will say 2 - 3 years after loosing their virginity something like "ho men if I knew then what I know now!!"....

I was one of them. I waited like a year to have a magical moment which turned to disaster... What a fucking waste. I could have easily been like these dudes that fucked like 12 girls while I was waiting for the perfect one to make me lose my virginity... What a waste... Now approaching 50 I understand how stupid I was.

Cheers,

hungry101 said:

Hell no. I'd pay less.

When they say a Muslim martyr gets 72 vestal virgins I am thinking Great, blow yourself up and you get 72 women that don't know how to fuck.

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And 72 mothers in law...!!! enough to want to shoot yourself! But you're stuck there, you can't die twice....

Agree with Rosie 110%. After being with my first SP in 2004 I wish I lost my virginity to a pro. The girl was well dressed, she was fully shaved and down the doggy dog didn’t smell like rotten fish. If you plan to lose your virginity you would want a well packaged experience instead of some clumsy fumble that smells like swamp.

Haha, I have to agree with jalimon on this. Great if a guy’s first time is with his high school sweetheart who happens to look like a young Scarlett Johansson & they live happily ever after. But for most guys, that’s not going to happen. It’s going to be awkward with a kinda plain looking girl and over too soon. If I have a son or nephew who’s still a virgin by his twenties, I’ll bring him to an FKK where he can really learn to ride a bicycle.

Ha donbush I do agree!!

I suggest everyone to watch Sex education on Netflix. One of the best tv series I have watched in years!!

Sps are fun and give you a fantasy but if it is your first time and you are a virgin, you need a woman who wants it too and one who will be only yours, if not for while . Why, because your first time is pretty emotional, special and memorable in a way. For the Sp it is mostly another payday. for the gal who is not, it is something special too. Besides if you have sex with a normal gal, you are sure she wants it as bad as you do and the emotional baggage you both carry will only make things better. A Gf give you authenticity. As to how to hook up....I am sure you got gals in your entourage that you might have never seen as a partner. I know many guys want that hot chick for their first time but that happens rarely. May be you should be hitting closer to home with gals you are friends and try to make a move. Forget that friend zone stuff but don't jump in straight away. Through conversation may be explore the possibility. Talking to women is not that hard ... just try not to think you want to score or screw them on the first contact. They are people too

I lost my virginity to a SP about 2 years ago and I do not regret it now. I was 20 at that time and realized, in my life a normal hot and pretty girl will never come and so, there is no point for more waiting. So, I booked a well reviewed independent SP who looks like an angel. And here is what happened in that session- the SP opened the door and let me inside and asked me first- you look young, what is your age? Is it my first time seeing an escort etc? After initial talk and shower, she started to do BBBJ and I lasted about 30 seconds. She was very surprised that I cum very soon. Then she give me some tips on how to last longer. Then we started second round in doggy and I lasted probably about 3-4 minutes. Overall, the SP was really nice and understanding during the session even though I never told her that I am virgin. Personally, I did not enjoy that session very much. But, it is very memorable experience for me, where I came twice within 90 minutes which now is impossible.

Since I did not enjoy my first time (I was pretty sure it was not due to being anxious), later I tried to find the reason. I started to see more SPs. In last 2 years, I saw about 36 SPs and now I know why my first time was not perfect. Apparently, I have type- I like those SPs who are between 5'1'' to 5'3'', weight 95lbs-115lbs, very energetic, really into the session and also like to do role-play/basic kinky stuff.

My advice is, do not take your first time too seriously. There is a big learning curve, you have to keep exploring. By only exploring, you will find what you like and what you do not. Losing virginity is only the first step.

I would agree with Patron’s above post.
It does feel better with someone you are in love with, everything does, but sex for the sake of just sex, I have not had girlfriends that were anywhere near as good at it as the escorts that I am seeing now.
If I am being honest maybe two out of every 10 girls I slept with would actually indulge in what is considered a normal GFE session with a Montreal escort.

^^^^^^ Bet if you gave your previous girlfriends $250 when you had sex they would improve. Joking aside, yeah escorts ( most ) want you to get the most bang for your buck so you repeat.

overfiend said:

Sps are fun and give you a fantasy but if it is your first time and you are a virgin, you need a woman who wants it too and one who will be only yours, if not for while . Why, because your first time is pretty emotional, special and memorable in a way. For the Sp it is mostly another payday. for the gal who is not, it is something special too. Besides if you have sex with a normal gal, you are sure she wants it as bad as you do and the emotional baggage you both carry will only make things better. A Gf give you authenticity. As to how to hook up....I am sure you got gals in your entourage that you might have never seen as a partner. I know many guys want that hot chick for their first time but that happens rarely. May be you should be hitting closer to home with gals you are friends and try to make a move. Forget that friend zone stuff but don't jump in straight away. Through conversation may be explore the possibility. Talking to women is not that hard ... just try not to think you want to score or screw them on the first contact. They are people too

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Spend as much time choosing an escort to lose your virginity to as any of us well seasoned hobbyists spend while finding an escort on a hobby trip...OK, you may want to pass on the PSE girls for your first time. You may not want to hear Anal-Stasia, the Romanian sweetie from Sharks shouting You're fucking my ass. OMG Your fucking my ass as you have two hands securely fit around her neck in a gentle choke hold, for your first time. I'd go more GFE than PSE.

testingsite said:

My advice is, do not take your first time too seriously. There is a big learning curve, you have to keep exploring. By only exploring, you will find what you like and what you do not. Losing virginity is only the first step.

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Agree x 1000000

Those who had the privilege to have a "normal", caring and affectionate girl for your first time, good for you, praise your luck. Not all men do so stop giving them the bullshit about "finding the right one", "it's not that hard", "it will come naturally", "your first time is very important" and the like. For all of those who waited and waited, there is a limit to pain and to stupidity! Don't wait until you're the 30-years old virgin. By that time any "normal" girl you meet will expect you to have at least minimal sexual experience and know-how, and when you don't you have no chance as you're competing against other male who do have it in spades.

In sex like in everything else, practice makes perfect!

Do I have a chip on my shoulder? Yes I do, don't get me started. And reading this forum, I'm sadly not the only one.

I lost my virginity exactly 30 years ago. Has someone find it? If so could you get it back? Would appreciate

Cheers,