Bad date assistance

sure why not. as long as girls don't use this just to get out of a bad date quickly.

what if the guy needs help? lol...just run

That's good. Bravo for the initiative. <3

When I use to be on reseaucontact (about 10-15 years ago...) I told all girls that I would meet them for coffee or a drink but that I was "on duty" at work that night, that I was "on call" and had to respond if I got called.

When it was obvious that the girl was not interesting for me I would just fake the call, pay the bill and say good bye. I did that because the first girl I ever met spoke for 1 straight hour without me being able to say a word... After that meeting I told myself I would never waste time like that again!

Girls could do a similar trick.

Cheers,

jalimon said:

I did that because the first girl I ever met spoke for 1 straight hour without me being able to say a word... After that meeting I told myself I would never waste time like that again!

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was she talking about her "ex" or men in general? ound:

I had a quite same experience back in the days... dating at large ... once I saw 10 girls on 10 evenings lol
one was quite chatty and I excused myself pretending to have to use bathroom!
When I came back she was ... crying ... saying she ruined it all and... well oui she did!
Communication is both ways and know how to listen others...

As I am about to try SA, thanks to this thread I learn some nice tricks :clap2:

Sol Tee Nutz said:

There is a phone app ( fake call ) that you can set to ring 30 min ( or whatever ) after your date starts, if the meet is going south you can say a family emergency just came up.
Funny story ( my side anyway ), was at a restaurant dinner with my ex during out trial separation and she had a few too many glasses of wine and started to get belligerent and loud, I excused myself to go to the bathroom and went home out the back door, yes left her with the bill also. She was pissed when she got back home but I will never put up with a loud mouthed drunk person, especially in public.

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You have balls men!! I had to put my ego and self esteem deep in the closet while discussing my separation.... Now all is fine and were good friends but ho buy I just whish I could have done something like that!

Cheers,

pat98 said:

was she talking about her "ex" or men in general? ound:

I had a quite same experience back in the days... dating at large ... once I saw 10 girls on 10 evenings lol
one was quite chatty and I excused myself pretending to have to use bathroom!
When I came back she was ... crying ... saying she ruined it all and... well oui she did!
Communication is both ways and know how to listen others...

As I am about to try SA, thanks to this thread I learn some nice tricks :clap2:

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You know when you are in your 30's and you meet girl out of these sites you realize that some of these girls are still single for a reason!!

On the other side I once met a complete nerd. A girl with absolutely no social skills. As I was about to fake the phone call and leave, she told me how she tried to bring her last boyfriend to bed but he refused, and they had been dating for 2 fucking years!!! She said all that with big smile and all happy, she made me laugh a lot. That made me realize that the girl had grits and that beside her complete nerdy look, there was a girl behind. We were in a bar with not many people as it was early in the week. I told her to go to the bathroom and remove her bra and come back to the table. She did it without a flinch! Men the sex I had with her... Fuck I whish I had time now to go back on SA or a similar site...

Cheers,

Angel Shot

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In my younger days, I normally asked the young lady to meet at 8-8:30 AM breakfast. I usually had a morning class (going to school during the morning, worked afternoons) 2-3 days a week. If things weren't going well, then both sides knew that I had to get to class at 10:30-11:00 AM. I was only out $12, and either side could chalk it up to experience. What was good about this arrangement was that if things were going well (and I didn't have class--but the other party didn't know that) they we could hang out longer and I would tell them I would skip class because I was (and hopefully they were as well) having a good time. In several instances the breakfast stretched into a late lunch, a visit to the art museum, an early movie, and hit the motel until 2-3 AM.

I miss those days. Life was much simpler...

HAHAHA its kinda funny reading you. Would i be the only one actually feeling lucky a girl would talk for a 1h straight and enjoy herself? That would mean she is having fun and enjoy the compagny. Maybe im desesperate... but honesty i would never feel the resort to call a date short unless things got super weird or something.

Now for the girlif if a guy is acting weird and you fear for your safety then yes this is a good initiative i supose..

Honesly i just wish i had dates like this period...

Halloween many here will again write that I sound like Peter Robin or Oprah Winfrey but I dont give a fuck.

I have made 2 big complete turnaround in my life so far. Once younger I quit a very good job to go back to university to later become an entrepreneur. Then about 4 years ago when I separated from my ex, leaving her the house and all...

I am about to make a 3rd one as I will reach 50 in 3 years. I recently decided that by then I want to retire, completely stopped alcohol and be back in top shape. I want to be as fit at 50 as I was at 30. I sincerely hope I will have the grits to reach all these goals. Which will give me confidence in myself. Which is what girls find attractive in men. At least it work for me.

Sorry for my positive bullshit à la peter robbin... It's just that I believe in the power of change!

Cheers,