Lighten up ladies

nicknickolas said:

Lighten up ladies

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Posting this in the lounge (there are review sections for a reason if you really need to talk about your mishaps), talking about a specific weird chick but doing so with a title directed to every single lady out there, does make you seem kind of unprofessionnal to be honest... Were her age and nationality listed in her ads/website ? If your answer is yes, I could see why she thought you weren't serious.

nicknickolas I think I know who you are talking about....PM me

Well i would guess she has a rule of "no black gentlemen" and "no men under specific age" and she probably ask on her contact page to disclose those info in a first contact email. So if you didn't put those i can see why she sent the reply she sent. Now was it professional on her part? Nop... I can also understand providers having to deal with tons of emails that never follow up to any meeting where guys just want the info and then decide its not for them or its too expensive or whatever, some guys just hoping for having an erotic conversation in email and so on and on. But staying professional and/or friendly is key of a first contact.

Best would be to provide all usefull infos on the website, and if she can't/prefer not, she can always have a formal email reply ready in a word document and do a copy past. That way even if she is half pissed of having receive 15 emails that lead to nothing that day, it just takes 30 secs to answer the next one and she does not have to make an answer herself. Of course thats guessing she has a computer and does not respond to all mails with a cellphone. In that case i dunno if what i listed is possible...

Maybe she has many clients that she does not care about new ones... She does seem like it if she refuse to meet someone on such an inofensive comment...

Oh well as someone said above, you would probably not had good chemistry with her and maybe its for the best lol.

Sam21 said:

You got lucky.
You saved a few bucks.
Then again, who knows how many weird emails she received that day, perhaps enough to lose all sense of humour.

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I agree with this. What you did wasn't a huge deal per se. Consider yourself lucky, and a warning sign of what might have been her personality, etc.

That being said, you should still be careful of the comments/questions you ask. Especially about rates (as SPs dislike this being brought up at the risk of LE).

If any info is already posted on her ad/website/etc, it normally shouldn't be bought up as she'll think you haven't done your homework and are wasting her time. Also gotta be careful about the jokes....might think you're not a serious client with goofy/silly comments, etc.