When is the best time to see an SP? Firsts? Sloppy seconds?

I use to try to be first. Now I dont care at all about that. I actually like to be last so we can relax a bit at the end. Have a drink or something.

A good sp will be good no matter if your first or last. The important thing is you. And some chemistry. Read here ymmv. Experience helps a lot with ymmv. Being actives also helps. As my all time favorite once said to me "if you are too fat to be able to take them in doggy, c'est long longtemps" haha

Cheers,

Also whenever a girl or an agency tells you you're first, take it with a grain of salt. Seriously. Sometimes it means nothing if she had hardcore sex all night the night before, for example. Or the opposite, being second after a 3 weeks break from the lady, is almost like being first haha. Or you know, it's easy to say you're first even if you're not really.

I think Jalimon is right. If you see reputable ladies you will be in for a good time regardless if you're first or last. Hygiene should not be an issue either (and if it was to begin with, then being first means nothing in that case).

In most case I don't notice a difference whenever I'm first or last of her shift. Hygiene is key, sometime I even ask the girl to shower on my time, even if supposedly I'm the first if her shift.

For years i've had to be first or had to believe i was first. I still have this personal rule but considering i was very active in an orgy over a year ago where it wasn't 'sloppy seconds' but actually 'sloppy dozens' and it didn't bother me i guess i should throw my so-called 'personal rule' out the window. It's actually kind of silly when you think of it. Of course i'm expecting the sp to be as clean as i am and therefore being #2 or #3 shouldn't be such a big deal for me.

However the reason why i prefer being #1 is that several years ago i found out that an sp i had seen 3 times never showered between 'dates'. So this made me somewhat paranoid which is why i've kind of become a hygiene freak over the years.

On another note, one of my buddies prefers seeing sps when they're at the end of their shifts. He insists on being last and gets irritated if an sp he sees tells him she still has another client or so to see after him. Like i have to be first, he's got to be last! :lol:

To me its not about being after someone else. If she do her job well, she will be clean everywhere Its actually about attitude and risks. If you are last client there is chances she get tired and just decide to cancel her last client. Also she could had seen 1 or 2 assholes early in her shift wich made her not as nice as usual or anything. She can be under substance and/or heavy alchool. When you are the first client the girl just start so even tough some of this stuff can still happen i feel it dismish the chances. I heard being second client is pretty good too as she "warm" up before seeing you.... lol. Also first client usually mean earlier so you have more chance to find a plan B if things fall apart. If you wait til 11 pm... good luck. Only time i would go for last client is when i know an SP allow COF but only with the last client as she does not feel to redo her make up, then if she is reliable i would be willing to go for it... lol

So yeah its more about attitude and putting every chances on my side rather than an hygiene thing.

Altough i heard stories of some girls pushing 10 clients a day, i would think by the 10th guys, eventually her pussy could get sore...

Heard some stories of DATY tasting like latex... Im not a daty guy but i would be very less willing to go for it if i know she saw 5 guys before me... but maybe its just psychological....

I don't get this "I don't want to redo my makeup" thing. Don't these girls shower between clients ? I don't wash my hair every single time because it's curly and I don't want to have To straighten it everytime, it takes time lol. But I do wash my face everytime. I mean I just spent an hour kissing another man' s entire body. I could smell like his perfume or anything. There could be lots of things on a girls face even if you don't see it lol...

I used to prefer to be first. But then I sense they might be holding back and not giving me their full energy because they have to pace themselves. So now I only book entire shifts when I am in town. I don't like same-day sharing.

I don't care about first or last - I care about the best fit for my schedule. My bookings are always during a long weekend in montreal, so I am always trying to make sure I catch the girl I want in a time that fits my recovery period.

If you spend a weekend with her you can be her first AND her last of the day

Julia Sky said:

I don't get this "I don't want to redo my makeup" thing. Don't these girls shower between clients ? I don't wash my hair every single time because it's curly and I don't want to have To straighten it everytime, it takes time lol. But I do wash my face everytime. I mean I just spent an hour kissing another man' s entire body. I could smell like his perfume or anything. There could be lots of things on a girls face even if you don't see it lol...

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Well i am not a woman and i don't do make up on myself but i would guess it does take time. Some girls, especially agency girls, probably take only a 20 to 30 min break at the very most between clients so i guess they don't have time for this. Most time i see girls and there is no COF involved... there make up stay pretty good. But then again i rarely go into FF/Gagging territory... in wich case lots of saliva and such can be involved and ruin the make up and all. Most time i see them shower (when we talk and they don't mind letting the door open) its often a very quick cleaning with focus on intimate parts the most.

If you do the first of the day you might be getting secret sloppy seconds of the BF from last night.

Beginning of shift vs end of shift?

I used to think, "beginning of shift," naturally ... the girls are fresh and not worn out and don't have traces of other men on them.


But when I think of my experiences, end of shift has usually been better. They're free to let loose. At a beginning of a shift, she's got a few more hours ahead of her. I've been told as much. She doesn't want to get her nut off and then grind through the rest of the time. At end, she can O to exhaustion.


I've also found that she's willing to be a little more flexible with time, since there are no subsequent clients waiting.


And truth be told, it's not like they're virgins. Untouched only means untouched for so long. And this hobby is by no means the cleanest one you can have. She may be fresh on shift but she could be fresh off the boyfriend too.


Finally, though I've never actually executed on it, girls are often like "it's time to get something to eat!" I've always wondered if that was a cue to take them out to dinner. Has anyone done so?


Of course, given how popular some of these girls are, you take whatever shift you can get..

What do you prefer?

Definitely last. Unless the girl, like last indy I saw last week, ask me to be first.

You see these girl makes their bread and butter out of vanilla gfe 10 minutes client. Which is awesome we need to thank these guys over and over.

But if you are a bit more intense, you know what I mean, it's better to be last guy. Like you wrote jmioffe the girl will be much more inclined to just let go with the last one.

Cheers,

^^^^^^^^ You do realize that SP's are sales people and tell you what you want to hear.... There also could have been someone who fucked the guts out of her before you arrives and she is telling you that you are the boss while she just wants to go home. SP's know who whales are same as a casino, tell them what they want. God bless the escorts but keep your head up. I prefer first for a few reasons, one being that I do not want to see an escort at the end of a shift as she just wants to finish the night but still please a client. You need to be grounded in the hobby, too easy to be side tracked.

It depends on my relationship with the girl. I’ve gotten more mileage being the last client than the first. Anal being offered when last but not on days where I am first. Anything that requires more energy. Say foursome. Always better last

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Of course, given how popular some of these girls are, you take whatever shift you can get..

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I agree with jmioffe. I just hope I can see the girl that I want. However, I have been burned once by a girl that I suspect was burned out because she was so busy. I will say the booker tried to talk me out of her. I am a bit weary of girls that work too much. I had girls that were sitting in the car all night that fucked the hell out of me. So I don't care if I'm first or last. I just want the girl to perform.

As the proverb says, what's important is not to be a woman's first man, but to be her last one!