Pornstars August Ames is dead. RIP

I learned that on twitter as i woke up today. There is no factual release on the cause of death yet but it would seem its a suicide. Most likely linked to the cyber-bullying she got because she refused to work with a "pay 4 gay" actor in the industry. She mentioned her reason was STD wich have a higher probability in the gay community and she has nothing against homosexual in general. I am paraphrasing and resuming there, but thats overall the situation. A good portion of the adult entertainement community was with her, as in "she could fuck with who she wanted" but others didn't took it like that.

I find it very sad that such situation made this happen. Its her body, her decision to work with who she want. Peoples do not have to judge her for doing so. Its the same in our business here, whatever reason there is, nobody should be forced to work with a client/escort they don't want to.

She was a huge rising star, very popular, and she will be missed for sure. RIP

Link : https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/50835...orn-starlet-passes-away-her-husband-confirms/

EagerBeaver said:

I don't really understand why she got so much flack over her position on this issue, but more importantly, I don't understand why getting flack on social media would lead any person of sound mind to commit suicide.

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Everybody is different. I personally wouldn't care if peopled would trash me on social media, i have my opinions and i am entitled to them, and i don't care if peoples share them or not. But i am not "famous" like she was. Her social "standing" is more important than mine. Maybe this was just "la goutte qui a fait deborder le verre" and she was having problems in her personal life. We don't know.

As for why peoples gave her shit for that? Well sadly its the social justice warrior's way these days. As soon as you touch even remotly to anything related to gender, sexuality, race or religion you got the legion of SJW coming at you like hungry vulture... Even if what you say is just right and reality.

clemieux6 said:

Rip, she always seemed so chill and down to earth. Madison Ivy is in Montreal today and posted it on IG, I was like wtf.

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I saw on her snapchat she was coming to Canada but didn't know it was montreal. What is she doing here? I didn't saw anything before yesterday about Canada and i follow her social media. Convention, bar dancing, escorting?

And yes you are right, August really looked like a good chill person. Its very sad.

MochaLaMulata said:

But why did she feel the need to go on social media and say that gays, bis and crossovers are more at risk of HIV/STDs...? And back herself up by saying that she’s not the only actress to refuse shooting with gays, bis and crossovers, and that she doesn’t know what these actors do in their private life... Didn’t she know that there are many gay/bi men still in the closet? You just never know who you’re dealing with...

maybe try to contact that replacement girl privately to let her know about her worries.

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She didn't know who the replacement was. The point is personally i am tired to see peoples attack each other on some point of views. Its like the whole reverse thing. I am all for proning personal decisions and such. I mean who you fuck in your bedroom is none of my business. I find it pretty stupid homosexuality was outlaw at some point, like super ridiculous. BUT its also wrong to attack somebody because of there point of view. If she don't want to sleep with a known bisexual person, its her right for whatever reason. No matter if there could be closet peoples she does without knowing... Its none of our business if she decide to avoid certain peoples no matter the reason.

Its kinda like a situation we have on a different subject but that have similarities in peoples bashing other peoples. Its like the peoples from Antifa and those extreme left groups. They say there are anti-fascist but don't even realise they are becoming more fascist than the peoples they are suposely fighting against for being that way.

Its kinda like this video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKDeyuM0-Og

I sugest tou watch it entirely. even if at first it may seem wrong to you. Its only 10 mins. I feel this is the kind of things we are seeing at times with certain groups.

By going to an extreme, they do as wrong as the very thing they originally wanted to fight against.

MochaLaMulata said:

Nice video, but I’m not sure what it has to do with August Ames’ situation... Your video is about preserving a country’s or one’s culture, just like Quebec wants to preserve their French heritage by only allowing French or Bilingual signs, adopting the Bonjour-Hello greetings in stores

I think she said too much useless, ignorant stuff publicly. Of course her comments were going to offend gays and people fighting for gay rights. She could have discussed her issues with producers, husband, close friends or pornstars, or she could have tried to find out who the replacement girl was to talk to her privately and "warn" her about the possible risks...

Society needs a bit of politically correct and censorship, otherwise the world is going to get worst with people taking their freedom of speech to whole new and extreme levels.

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The video was just to make an analogy about how SJWs stuff can be dangerous, and even turn upside down things. For instance in this case how anti racism pushed to an extrem could lead to racism in a different way. Just as when we had this long debate in a different thread about escorts and there decisions to see black customers or not. How one person personal decision that has nothing to do with racism or in the August case homophobia, could led to some peoples screaming it is.

Did she expressed herself right all the way? Maybe not. I didn't read the whole thing and i have not researched every statistic about gay porn to be honest. But she was 23 years old and probably could learn a lot more in life. Even if she expressed herself the wrong way, it does not justify peoples cyberbullying her and telling her to kill herself... I can understand expectied governement peoples to express themselves great and with double checked facts, its there job and there in charge. But here we are talking about a 23 years old pornstars.

As for society, there is already a criminal code to judge whats acceptable or pass as free speech and what does not. For the rest peoples should have the right to say what they want as long as its a personal opinion on something and not a direct attack on a person like she was the victim of. And if some peoples badly express themselves and insult indirectly some peoples by there comment... well those peoples can decide to not watch the stuff that first person do and/or support that person.

For instance i think the compagny EA in video games is a greedy compagny that does not care at all about there customers and gamers in general. There cancerous for the whole video game industry to be honest with there business practices. I decided im not buying any EA games in the futur. I will speak with my wallet. I won't go attack personally the CEO of EA or whatever.