Firstly, women like Amanda and Hanna could work anywhere in the world where escort agencies exist and earn much more than they do now. I've quit well paying jobs which were a thousand times easier than what they do.
I've lived with a couple of escorts and, of course, listened to their complaints. I can't remember them ever saying anything about a client's looks, but they hated kissing smokers or others with bad breath and feeling obliged to provide BBBJ to clients who were less than squeaky clean or just had a natural odor they found unpleasant. They also hated being treated disrespectfully, jumped upon at the door and/or being expected to provide porn star services - e.g. having a client grab their heads and push them up and down like pistons during a BJ. They were instantly turned off by clients who behaved weirdly or appeared to be mentally ill. Many didn't offer drinks and rarely did anyone provide snacks. I was surprised to hear that more than half the clients made no attempt to make sex pleasant for them.
I almost always get excellent service the first time I see an escort from a merb agency. If you don't, Azzaro, perhaps you should try to imagine how escorts see you. Try as they do, to find something to like in each of them. People can tell when you don't like them. In your case, at least pretend to like them. Also, as you would a date with a civilian, try to get them to like you. Even if you think that you are paying too much, be grateful that they are trying hard to please you and doing something which is extraordinarily difficult.
