We recently have gone through some corporate training in my organization. The consultant stressed the importance of venturing outside of our comfort zones. I really took the training to heart. I'm a relatively low key, conservative male who has been most comfortable focusing on family, my career & work around the home. You could call this my comfort zone. Soon after completing my training, I made my first visit to an SP in Montreal. I certainly suffered anxiety throughout the process - from identifying the "right" SP & scheduling the visit, to fabricating an excuse to get away from work & home for a day, to initial introductions, to actually becoming acquainted & then intimate. Think about it - most of us would never ask out such fascinating, sensual & attractive females outside of this world. I was extremely nervous throughout. But what a rush! I was well outside of my zone of comfort & I loved the experience. My problem is that I relatively quickly re-establish a new comfort zone & then need to repeat the process. I have an SP that I have become very comfortable with, but I believe it may be healthiest to alternate with someone I typically never would have had the courage to approach. I don't need the rush, but I do believe a certain amount of anxiety is healthy & that anxiety is a sign that my horizons are broadening & that I am becoming a more open & diverse individual. I'm thinking someone like this Miss Julia Sky may be a very good choice if I am fortunate enough to secure a date. I guess the bottom line is that anxiety is fine so long as it isn't debilitating. A wise man once told me that our experiences are what make us wealthy. I can't wait to share my experience with the rest of the team at the next corporate training session.
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