how to last longer!

Smoke weed, works for me.

Get older, works for me.

cloudsurf said:

Get older, works for me.

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So true, I can last for dayseep:

When I was 30 , I would have 5 orgasms a night.....now that I`m older it takes one night to have an orgasm. OK I`m exaggerating ….not one night but 45 minutes.

Wildfire01

Can you keep it up? Just go for round 2 than 3

I've heard this stuff works wonders.

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This was covered in Something About Mary, just jerk off before.

Ok, now how do you go the other way? I want to cum a little faster, particularly the 2nd orgasm of the day when I am in a place like an FKK.

Wildfire01

You best option is a Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitor. These are generally prescribed to treat depression and anxiety. One of the effects is that it delays ejaculation. There is one specifically designed for this it is called Dapoxetine but it is not approved by the FDA so is not available for sale in North America but is available in Europe and Asia. I tried some once and it really made a big difference. Since it is not available here you have to try the other SSRIs which tend to have more side effects and are not as fast acting meaning you got to take them much before sex and are usually not the use on demand types. Dapoxetine was made specifically to for premature ejaculation because it is fast acting (within 15 mins) and it has minimal side effects and you can use it as needed on demand. I would suggest to see a doctor and get a prescription for Paroxetine or any other SSRIs and discuss about the possible side effects.

not sure which is worse, premature ejaculation or not being able to stay erect and/or cum...I have had both. I'm like geroge costanza.

for me it was (and still is to some extent) the start and stop technique. If you can enter without ejaculating your half way there. Once in, dont move. When you feel like you have some controle, you start slowly the thrusting. As soon as you feel the cum starting to move, you stop, while staying inside, you wait. It can take 30 seconds each time, even a minute, but it will subside enough to start over again, slowly.

You would be surprised how this can prolong intercourse for 5, 10, 15 or 20 minutes. Of course there is a lot of doing nothing during this time, but you are still inside her, which is better than being already finished. YOu can also do other things while inside and not moving like kissing and caressing, even talking. Its fuckin fantastic. However, you have to be with someone who understands and is willing to be patient with you. I have had a lot of sps purposely continue thrusting to make me cum (how devious )...but most understand and enjoy helping you with your problem.

If you practice this you will improve, but it will still take time. if exclusively with sps, it will take dozens and dozens of encounters to see an improvement. It would go a lot faster with a girlfriend/wife.

I dont like viagra SSRIs.

I started by practicing putting condoms on and giving myself a HJ to get used to wearing a Hat.

If the SP has photos on the web, I'd spank the monkey looking at her photos. I do this the night before so that my body can regenerate the necessary juices when I'm with her in person.

The other trick is to not go see a SP already or nearly "fully loaded" with cum about to shoot. I've tried to reduce my exposure to sexual stimuli before I see a lady. It's better if my system builds up cum during the session so that I can have a satisfying (and longer time) to finish.

I had the same problem as you before. Even worst because I could do one shot, so some sessions I spent like 1hr just chatting away with the escort. I just figured out that fast banging worked for me, not sure why but I think it’s becausetired before I can cum. Also you can masturbate before the session but it could be backfired as well if you end up with blue balls.

Edging worked wonders on my control. I just read a bit about it and it took me about 2 months every 2-4 days to get where I wanted.