Finding SPs with the right attitude...
A recent negative experience has prompted me to post this thread. I made the mistake of booking an SP that I didn't really know enough about for two hours. She was obviously stoned and her conversational skills didn't impress me - in fact, I was totally turned off. I asked her to massage me and leave after an hour.
In retrospect, I have nobody to blame but myself. I didn't prepare well. Making decisions on impulse have for the most part been a disaster for me.
I want us to discuss attitude here. I think it's extremely important to find the SP with a golden attitude. Even if she's not gorgeous, the right attitude can make all the difference between an average encounter and an extraordinary encounter.
Among the SPs that I find to be total sweethearts are Samy, Karma, Michelle of Celine's, and Alexia of Bodylicious. I have also met with SPs that I have not romped with but have great attitudes (Anik and Anabelle of Celine's).
Among the MPs, I have to say that Sarah and Kylie of Massageme, Kim and Maya of Kama and Maylee, the indy, all have great attitudes.
Let me know who you think has a great attitude and is a total sweetheart.
Last edited by General Gonad; 08-21-2006 at 08:13 AM.
You forgot Anabelle and Paige of Celine's. Can't go wrong with either of them also.
Ooops, just saw you mentionned Anabelle.
To me, the right attitude and a matching personality do make ALL the difference in the world.
I've seen gorgeous ladies with cold, passive or, even worst, diva attitudes that were just complete turnoffs. On the other hand, I've met ladies with girl-next-door looks that don't necessarily turn heads on the street, but with sweetheart personalities and passionate attitudes that left skid marks on the bed sheets. When you can have it all in the same package, then it's heaven on Earth.
Among my current favorites, Miss Samantha and Mia (FKS) are the ones who brings the best in beauty, personality and attitude. True slices of heaven in my book.
In some respects, it is hard to disagree with the premise underlying GG’s question. Attitude is indeed a crucial component of the success or failure of a meeting with an SP, though it is not everything.
But just what is attitude? Are we all talking about the same thing? For example, “sweetheart” is not one of the words that spring to mind when I think about “good” attitude.
It might be interesting to find out what people mean when they use this expression. For my part, the more I think about it, the harder it is for me to define it. This being said, one of the defining characteristics of the attitude that I appreciate is presence, that is, a willingness to become completely involved or engrossed with the interaction for the time that it lasts. Whether she is a sweetheart or a hard-edged demanding type (and I’ve been with both) is irrelevant for me; what is counts is her “being there” and not somewhere else.
A second, related characteristic is spontaneity, that is, a willingness to go with the flow rather than following a pre-established program.
Some of the SPs I have met (in no particular order) who in my view have a great attitude:
Ronnie the Naughtylady
Anna (High Class)
Julianna (the Brazilian Babe)
Last edited by Rexroth; 08-21-2006 at 10:16 AM.
Miss Samantha, Lily of FKS, Cindy of DC, Jessy of Celines, Taylor formerly of Celines, Marie Eve of Asservissante, Neesha independent, Chrystelle formerly of Platinum (perfect pornstar looks and body at your command).
Attitude can make or break a session
but not all men are looking for a sweetheart...
I think that a good attitude comes from a lady being able to relax and enjoy herself - very likely, she is like that all the time, not just in sessions. All the ladies mentioned as girls with great attitudes are like that - Naughty lady, Sam, etc... they all have super attitudes in life, in general
Very true darling and so do you.
Originally Posted by Just-ass-weet
In regards to above, I usually look to provide an honest compliment and something that is not terribly obvious such as beautiful face/body etc. If I do notice and compliment a known virtue or physical attribute that is not mentioned by all .. I find it brings about the greatest gratitude and eventually relaxes the lady .. an example: mention her smile if distinctive or her smartness w/ specific reasons always pointed out etc etc.
Originally Posted by Just-ass-weet
Funny thing is .. I learnt this the long way .. life is a continuous learning process, isn't it?
Originally Posted by General Gonad
sounds like a recent experience I had w/ Chanel of Devilish...it wasnt her by chance?
Last edited by Waynegrow2; 08-22-2006 at 09:59 PM.
No it was another lady from Devilish but I will not comment on her. To be honest, she was just not my cup of tea. I should have told her right way to leave and offer her one hour of her time (even though I booked for two).
Originally Posted by Waynegrow2
But I tried to make the best of it. I am sure a lot of horny men who do not care about conversing would have enjoyed her. I did not enjoy her at all.
I also have strong suspiscions that she takes cocaine but I will refrain from any accusations. I told her that Devilish has a reputation for providing dope to their ladies and she denied it but added:"...what do clients care? As long as they are getting their GFE, this shouldn't concern them."
Well to me, taking drugs or abusing yor body is a major turn-off. I value my health because of what I am going through and I cannot understand why people would abuse their bodies with drugs. Even cigarettes are a waste but that doesn't bother me as much as cocaine, heroine or even weed.
P.S. Do not PM me trying to find out who it is. Do your research and you will not stumble on her. I made a rookie mistake and took Mike's word that she is worth two hours.
Last edited by General Gonad; 08-22-2006 at 10:21 PM.
I was not happy with my booking at Devilish as well. I might try them again, but there are other agencies who are 'sure things'.