I am a frequent visitor to this great city of the North and I regularly read reviews on this site so I can adequately prepare my visits. Though I appreciate the efforts made by members, I think it is time for some "reality check".
I am always amazed when guys think that the SP is enjoying herself. Really? Guys, come on!
Here are some of the arguments you can frequently read:
"She really enjoys sex"
"Her performance was great"
"We really connected"
Let's start with the beginning: you are paying for a service! I would even say that you are paying for a performance. So, the SP is simply... an "actress".
She comes in: she looks at you: you may be cute, maybe fat, maybe old, maybe young, maybe clean-cut,... you are just a horny guy willing to pay her!
She takes the money and she gets started... the performance begins... a performance because this is not and can not be the same as if you were with a girl friend (a reall one who actually cares for you!).
The performance starts: the actress follows the lead of the director (that is you! - you paid after all!) for one hour... She asks:"What do you like... or she has experience, so she just follows her "script", her routine that she used the hour before with the guy before you. Tell her you write regularly on merb, then, you might get a better performance because a few bad review can "kill a career" very quickly...
What is she thinking while she is doing it? Great question? Have you ever wondered? You, maybe... or maybe her car, her apartment, her next exam, her last boyfriend...
Do you really think she enjoys this? Really enjoys it? Ask yourself why she is there: money! that is the only reason... Did you hear a SP say that she does this because she can not get enough sex? I do not think so... Any girl can go at any bar and pick up a guy in less than 5 minuites if she "needs it". If even better, she has a guy friend that she can call in case of emergency.
So, where does that leave us?
All SPs do this for the money... so, we should accept that we are getting an "actress" who we hope will provide a great performance... and for one short hour, we will feel that this girl we did not know 55 minutes ago enjoyed herself at least a bit....
Have fun and be safe!
I was there and I will be back...