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    If you were a female...

    Hello gentlemen:
    I have been thinking of escorting and still haven't made up my mind. One question I had was if the guys here were female would they have chosen to be escorts and why?

    xxx Wendy

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wendy C.
    Hello gentlemen:
    I have been thinking of escorting and still haven't made up my mind. One question I had was if the guys here were female would they have chosen to be escorts and why?

    xxx Wendy
    Wow... I think every guy has thought about this. I honestly believe that if a girls chooses to do this it is because of any one or all of the following (there are tons more, but i'm too tired to think of any):

    1. They need the money, they are in a jam financially.
    2. They love sex, so why not get paid for having it.
    3. They want the money, I deserve that 50" plasma too.

    Personally I would love it to be #2, There is nothing better than being in bed with a sex starved girl(s). I also think that along with reason number 2 some choose to do it because they can, a sense of empowerment, where they literally have us kind of by the balls.

    This trade is a very weird one at that, it depends on the girl. If I were given the chance to work independant and make a couple grand a week cash, hell I would be naked faster than you could blink an eye. For me, because I love sex and I would not say no to the large amounts of cash I get paid for doing it. it beats working 9 to 5 for peanuts.

    WI

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    Damn, what an interesting question. Naturally the flip answer would be sure, no problem and I would do as many guys as possible because I love sex and money. I think the emotional costs of being an escort outweigh the financial advantages. Women I have met and talked to who make sense seem to have a lousy personal life. They seem to have a problem trusting and loving and when that hurdle is overcome they leave the business. The one girl who made sense was a student I met in Boston who told me that she was doing this to pay her $24,000 of tuition, period. She was doing it to fulfill a financial need with no intention of making it a career. I can imagine this is a difficult decision for you, good luck with it.
    By the way, we are not able to send you a PM ?
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    In my case, I really don't know. I suppose to intelligently answer this question we must put ourselves into a different age bracket going back in time, and thrust ourselves into different, perhaps less fortunate financial circumstances.

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    It's easy for a man to find out, considering there's big fan of GFE here a man simply have to ask the question: Would I offer BFE experience to some woman that I don't know? Walk on street check for ugly, fat, etc... woman and you'll get your answer... unless very bad financial issue I would not do it but I think I would had work out my think (like im doing now) to make sure I would not have to do it.

    My 2 cents...

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    Wendy,

    I think the poll should be amended to add an "I don't know" option. I suppose if you had to pin me down to a yes or a no, I would lean towards a qualified no. What I mean by this is no if I could not be selective about my clients and pre-screen them by meeting them. Otherwise, yes.

    Is that response enough of a waffle to make the House of Pancakes blush?

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    Hello
    Thanks for those of you who`ve been helpful. I just realize that you are a brainy bunch and not the weird-type as it is often the stereotype of what you call a ``hobbyist``. I also realized that this is a highly hypothetical question, not easily answered by people who have their feet on the ground.
    EB, I am sorry darling I can`t add a 3rd option. Not because I don`t want to but the way I see it this business of a companion is like being pregnant. There is no such concept as a little pregnant. Either you are or you are not.

    xxx hugs and kisses
    Wendy

    PS. Now that I think about it the question my question is stupid. I mean what guy in his right mind would go around hotels having sex with women he wouldn`t have sex with even if it was for free.

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    not in a million years

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    Quote Originally Posted by JacknJill
    Well Wendy, a lot of women (and men) think the same about female escorts...:

    JNJ
    Thank you darling. You`re right.
    Sorry if I have made an attempt to create controversy, totally unwillingly! I was reading past posts.

    https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=11424

    Opinions have chanced over the past year. It is the first time during my 29 years in this life I witness men being forced to submission by just talking to each other. It is rather sexy, I think.

    Wendy
    Last edited by Wendy C.; 10-24-2006 at 01:38 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EagerBeaver
    if I could not be selective about my clients and pre-screen them by meeting them.
    I agree 100% with this.... kinda makes you think what the ladies who are SPs and can't presecreen go through or have to put up with.... frankly, however wonderful of a guy I may be, if I were a woman I wouldn't be overly thrilled at the prospect of having me for a client if I were in it for the sex....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wendy C.
    Hello gentlemen:
    I have been thinking of escorting and still haven't made up my mind. One question I had was if the guys here were female would they have chosen to be escorts and why?

    xxx Wendy
    In my personal situation, I am capable of having a type of work that pays me well, and I am not interested to sleep with random women who I am not attracted to. So since I never thought to be a gigolo, I can't imagine wanting to be an escort if I was female. If I were female and my situation were different and I had fewer job skills and had the possibility to find a wide range of men attractive, then it's not so bad to be paid for a job involving pleasure. The negatives are the emotional risks, health risks, and risks of living in a society which looks down on it. There is the risk of having a lot of physical pleasure while trapped in a life of loneliness. If it's worth such risks and you tend to find most men you take time to know attractive, then go ahead. Otherwise my answer is no.
    BïgPiçklê

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    I would probably have to say no.

    My guess is that most guys who say "sure I'd be a stripper/escort/etc." imagine themselves as a fun-loving beautiful woman with a knockout physique and strong sex drive - getting paid to party.

    If I consider a female version of myself, I'd be a shy, timid, bookish, awkward girl, with a decent physique (no knockout that's for sure), and average face; well read, but lacking the social graces to carry on a stimulating or interesting conversation with a total stranger.

    OTOH, if I were a sexually open-minded knockout, I'd probably become a prostitute of a different sort - I'd find a decent guy with good earning potential who could/would buy me what I wanted. IMHO, a knockout who finds a high income geek, and concentrates on seducing, blowing and fucking him on a daily basis (including fulfilling his every fantasy) will end up far better off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by the_rock70
    Are you one? If so....who are you? where are your pics? Just curious...
    Hello. I am not ONE, yet. AND I WOULD PREFFER TO BE ADDRESSED AS "LADY" and not "ONE". I am not interested in using this medium as a way to promote anything. I noticed there is a chat line here just line msn or yahoo. I will be visiting it tonight to meet some of you and talk about this and other topics.

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    the rock,

    Wendy doesn't have PM set up yet, and I suspect she wants to keep it that way so she is not inundated with private chat requests. She has not decided what she wants to do - the very point of this thread. Perhaps you should join her in the public chat like everyone else, rather than expect personal favors. If she had PM I am sure it would be filled with requests like yours........and she would have dozens of requests for her contact info.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wendy C.
    Thank you darling. You`re right.
    Sorry if I have made an attempt to create controversy, totally unwillingly! I was reading past posts.

    https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=11424

    Opinions have chanced over the past year. It is the first time during my 29 years in this life I witness men being forced to submission by just talking to each other. It is rather sexy, I think.

    Wendy
    Wendy,

    Very interesting thread and poll. The link may be somewhat dated and out of context as it was a spin-off from another thread and I am sure that given a chance to explain EB would clarify the situation.

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