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Thread: Escorts that don't shower!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bryson
    I wonder if we should expose SPs that don't shower in this thread or start bringing it to the attention of the agency owner to talk to the girl.
    Sounds like a good idea.

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    More of you can never make everyone happy

    You have clients who complain because she took a shower and guys who complain that she didn't. If you prefer a girl who showers, always offer her one when she arrives. If she says she already showered but asks if you mind if she uses it before she leaves, you have a winner. If she showers right then, you are still in luck because she is clean and fresh for you. You must remember that not all places have "clean" shower facilities. I always brought along wipes and a hand towel when I was working for an agency, if I didn't feel comfy taking a shower at someones home, at least I could head to the bathroom at the local Tim Hortons and wash up there.

    In any case, offering is half the battle as we often see posts about how the girl "wasted" 10 minutes of a guys time taking a shower.

    xoxox
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    What matters is that the lady is fresh when she arrives, or that she asks to freshen up QUICKLY. My expectation is generally that the lady is fully prepared when she arrives, but I would much rather have her ask to freshen up than not do so and be less than fresh.
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    I always prefered to shower at home after a date.

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    J’ai résolu ce problème en demandant toujours à la dame de prendre avec moi une douche avant. (9 fois sur 10 elles acceptent)
    Je trouve que ça prépare bien la cession et elle est également assurée que je suis propre.
    Il y a quelques dames, mais ce n’est pas fréquent, qui demande en quittant de prendre une douche. Pour moi, elles marquent des points quand elles font ça. C’est une marque de professionnalisme.

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    From my experience, the women who don't care about their personal hygiene are the ones without any class.

    I had an early morning session once and she arrived as promised. Now you would have thought that someone who had just gotten up and was having her first appointment of the day would have showered.

    Nope, she hadn't showered at all. In fact, she had little bits of crap on her ass hairs. What a turnoff!

    I took her by the hand and I washed her nooks and crannies well before we did anything.

    The better agencies and girls would not send out someone who didn't attend to her personal hygiene.

    Its the ones who have girls on their staff who would otherwise be milking cows if they weren't doing this metier who don't have any standards for personal hygiene, IMHO.
    jackyo

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    Reverse situation!

    I remember a girl calling back to go and pick her up while I just drop her off...
    She said that she could not stay because when she arrived there was already
    a girl getting out the shower and ... well she figure out the guy didn't took a
    shower in between and didn't wanted to stay.
    Was also to embaressed to ask the guy to take a shower, and prefered to leave...
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    On incalls piles of girls don't want to take a shower before and they put their clothes on immediately after without showering.

    Personally I do not repeat with a girl that won't shower and I may walk out before.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bryson
    Why should anybody be embarrased about expecting good hygiene from their partner? COMMUNICATION is the key and you don't even have to be rude about it. Either take a shower together or just say," I would feel more comfortable if you took a shower." Any normal person would take the hint and if not then just say,"I'm sorry but I don't think this is going to work out." Nobody wants to sleep with a dirty person lol!
    She was unconfortable to ask. And personnaly, if the guy cannot figure it out
    himself...

    Concerning taking a shower with a client, some girls told me that they would
    but if the guy do not realize that she definetly wants to preserve her make
    up intact, he should be awared about water bouncing from his shoulder, head
    or back to her face.
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    Thumbs down Professionalism

    Not all girls share the same sense of professionalism that Dorothy has. Thats why its so important for girls to have excellent mentors like her to show them the ropes. As a responsible client I always offer the full use of the room and its facilities upon a girls arrival without hesitation making sure there is a fresh clean towel for her along with toiletries. One can see to this by simply asking the front desk for more towels a few hours before your dates scheduled arrival and bringing your own soap/shampoo so she can use the stuff the hotel provides. I even leave out my toothpaste for them if they need it.

    Some shower before and some shower after but I figure I'm all right either way as long as they take at least one oppurtunity to do so. I'm fine with it if they take two showers as long as they spend an appropriate amount of our time with me. I've never had a girl not shower. I wouldn't turn down an oppurtunity to shower with a lady but I feel no need to get in her way as she tries to get ready to go, I'll have the place to myself when she is gone. To be honest I would be worried that if I showered with her after our session was over I would probably get excited again in the shower and be out of luck due to time restraints.

    If either person is malodorous the other should not hesitate to insist on a shower and be prepared to either turn them away or refuse service whatever the situation might be. As far as clients go I find that taking a shower immediately before an SP's arrival is very much appreciated by them and helps to set the mood off right because their very first impression of you will be positive in that regard. I have even been caught in the shower once by an SP who actually showed up early and was forced to answer the door soak and wet in a towel! She expressed great pleasure to find me squeaky clean as she said sometimes clients can smell quite foul without even realizing it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bryson
    I take my health very seriously and if I see that a girl doesn't shower after seeing me....
    Thoughts?
    I would be more worried if she doesnt shower BEFORE. You can't assume that she won't shower after she saw you. In Incall they might shower after you leave. Indy Outcall might shower at their own place unless.

    I always ask the ladies in the biz to shower before we mingle. And I also take my shower. If she says she already did, I tell her so did I.... It settles the situation really fast.

    Even cuties I meet in bars I ask them to shower with me when we start taking our clothes off.
    Escorts are like a box of chocolate, you never know what you gonna get! Especially with a repeat!!!!

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    I think any SP I saw showered at the end - frankly I've never been bothered by the SP taking time at the beginning or end of an appt. to make herself feel presentable for me or for the next client.

    However, I was thinking offering a shower to an SP I've never met seems like a good idea but how do you offer this without making it sound insulting. For example:

    Me: Would you like to use the shower?
    She thinks: I must really stink?
    or
    Me: Do you need to use the shower?
    She thinks: He thinks I didn't wash before coming here.
    or
    Me: (this is worse) Do you need to wash up?
    She thinks: He really thinks I'm filthy dirty
    or the gallant scenario
    Me: Would you like me to run the shower for you?
    She thinks: Wow, I must be really stinky dirty!

    Maybe I'm double guessing too much here but is there a good way to suggest a shower positively.

    MakeIt
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    Quote Originally Posted by MakeIt
    Maybe I'm double guessing too much here but is there a good way to suggest a shower positively.

    MakeIt
    I think all of your offers are fine and I doubt anyone of us ladies would think you think we stink... we are more likely to appreciate that you have probably recently taken a shower yourself.

    I must say I like the last one best - very galant!

    xoxox
    Anik

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    Quote Originally Posted by Just-ass-weet
    I think all of your offers are fine and I doubt anyone of us ladies would think you think we stink... we are more likely to appreciate that you have probably recently taken a shower yourself.

    I must say I like the last one best - very galant!

    xoxox
    Anik
    Just to be clear - I always shower just prior to the date. To paraphrase, cleanliness is next to sexiness.

    As for starting the shower, I used to see an independent MP who always started the shower for me at the end of a session which I found a really nice touch. She'd set out towels and everything - quite nice.

    So what do you think of this - not only only start the shower but make sure there's some nice smelling extracts shower gel and one of those squishy things for washing and have a nice big terry cotton towel ready for her when she exits to dry her off...then a little rub down with some decent moisturizer....

    MakeIt
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    Quote Originally Posted by MakeIt
    So what do you think of this - not only only start the shower but make sure there's some nice smelling extracts shower gel and one of those squishy things for washing and have a nice big terry cotton towel ready for her when she exits to dry her off...then a little rub down with some decent moisturizer....

    MakeIt
    Everything put the squishy thing - it is just too hard for us to make sure it is new or properly washed.

    I like taking a shower together - although, I, like tracy, cannot use regular soap, but I carry my own shower gel everywhere anyhow.

    xoxox
    Anik

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