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larrywildman

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I'm a pretty big guy (~375lbs). I'm constantly concerned about getting a bad reaction from an SP when she shows up, in fact it is a major deterrent from seeing an SP at all.

I understand an SP probably isn't physically attracted to many of the clients they see, but it's still probably easier to have sex with a skinny guy with an ugly face than a fat guy regardless of what his face looks like.

Anyone that could weigh in on this (no pun intended ;) ) either from experience or just opinion would be appreciated.

Thanks, Larry.
 

Jou

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Je suis content de voir que la plus part des merbistes s'attaquent au fond du probleme et non pas aux symptomes.

Le corp est une machine formidable. Men sano in corpore sana.

Larry, prends toi en main, tu vas te rendre le meilleur service de ta vie! Voila une super bonne resolution pour 2007.

Pour les SP, je suis a 100% d'accord avec maylee: HYGIENE, PROPRETÉ,RESPECT et ATTITUDE font la qualité du service!
 

Jou

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Sorry for the mistake! My god we have a latinist. Thanks DEE.

May be wikipedia was a good help on this?
 

EagerBeaver

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Larry,

I am not a very big guy but ironically I recently had a conversation with a very petite SP I met about the issue of taking poundings from "bigger", not necessarily fatter, guys. My take is that if a guy is very big and he just wants to pound the shit out of a smaller, petite woman it can be a very rough experience for her, and a lot of guys don't realize this. In your case obviously you should lose some weight and you have acknowledged the problem, but until that happens, just try to be gentle and don't "use your weight" as you would on the football field.
 
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hornyanglo66

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I doubt the guy was looking for people to tell him to lose weight... he probably gets enough of that on a daily basis. :rolleyes:

What he is obviously looking for is an SP who is not troubled by his excess weight and is not turned off by it and will give a GFE. There's enough positions available to ensure he's not 'pounding on them'... I'd like to see which SP stands forth and provides the A1 service he is looking for.

Come on ladies, put up or shut up.
 

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Larry,

This is the best time of year to join a health club. You won't feel out of place since so many people's New Years Resolution is to lose weight. Picture how you'd like to look and feel by summer and you'll feel like a different person. Remember success is a journey and it can start right now!

I've had people tell me I'm in great shape but I've always worked out. Women seem to care more about a warm personality, a sense of humor and a winning smile.

Get in shape for YOU!

Rango
 
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EB - my experience with bigger guys is that they are very

gentle and conscientious of their size and weight. It is the bigger guys who are these "muscle men" who are usually the pounders - trying to prove how big and strong they are.:rolleyes:

My advice is to contact a provider and ask, if you are going through an agency - again, just ask... most of the girls like to know what they are getting into before they arrive.

xoxox
Anik
 

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There are several large men who read this board. Not that many who post however; and of those that do post most would not admit to being considered obese.

All that being said, if you are calling an agency, let them know in advance so that they can inform the girl and if she has a problem with large men they will send someone else. Same goes for an indy, let her know up front.

Personally if I have to choose between a date who is too skinny or too heavy, I will choose the heavy guy. (Fluffy is better than bony :D )

Ronnie, no skinny-mini herself,
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Bucky

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The gym prices are goin' thru the roof man, i went to check with nautillus plus...$1000 a year with the options that are mandatory for pumpin' iron...be honest on the phone i'm 330 lbs i know how you feel. I saw Lisane in Repentigny she was great... good luck man
 

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I'm no stringbean & my weight tends to fluctuate at times depending on how much i tend to workout, but the day i hit 300 lbs is the day i retire from the hobby. Being fit & healthy is key to enjoying the hobby at its fullest. The hobby also has to be good for my self-esteem.
 
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larrywildman said:
I'm a pretty big guy (~375lbs). I'm constantly concerned about getting a bad reaction from an SP when she shows up, in fact it is a major deterrent from seeing an SP at all.

I think that the best thing to do is to mention this when booking an appointment and ask if there are any issues. I think that if the SP has an idea of who she will meet, it will prevent or lessen any uncomfortable situations.
 

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Be up front.

larrywildman said:
I'm a pretty big guy (~375lbs). I'm constantly concerned about getting a bad reaction from an SP when she shows up, in fact it is a major deterrent from seeing an SP at all.

I understand an SP probably isn't physically attracted to many of the clients they see, but it's still probably easier to have sex with a skinny guy with an ugly face than a fat guy regardless of what his face looks like.

Anyone that could weigh in on this (no pun intended ;) ) either from experience or just opinion would be appreciated.

Thanks, Larry.
Hello Larrywildman,

I will put your post hear so that all can read again, as Hornyanglo66 tried to point out, that you were not looking for a weight and excercise critique. Unfortunately, by looking at the reactions on this board, we can all see how valid your concern is about getting a bad reaction to your size.

As a one exquisitely beautiful lady from FKS once described to me, there are ways of working around this. The person she described was over 400 pounds. She said that because of the size issue the possibilities were limited. If the client accepted these limitations she was happy to provide a very enjoyable time. But she had known this important fact ahead of time and that helped a lot to put aside any uncomfortable moments that could have happened. Believe me she was a sensational beauty at about 5'8", 118 pounds when I saw her a few years ago. So being with someone of any type is possible as long as you are up front...and I know you really should not have to be in a perfect SP world, but you already realize some ladies will have difficulty on this issue. As for this particular lady, she does not allow reviews and I have no idea if she still works since it was four years ago when I saw her the last time.

Good luck,

Korbel
 
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larrywildman said:
I'm a pretty big guy (~375lbs). I'm constantly concerned about getting a bad reaction from an SP when she shows up, in fact it is a major deterrent from seeing an SP at all.

I understand an SP probably isn't physically attracted to many of the clients they see, but it's still probably easier to have sex with a skinny guy with an ugly face than a fat guy regardless of what his face looks like.

Anyone that could weigh in on this (no pun intended ;) ) either from experience or just opinion would be appreciated.

Thanks, Larry.

It could very well be in your mind. I personally think that SP should not mind it. I think most people can put up with almost anyone for about one hour. It is not like she has to be around you for ever (assuming that she does not like you).

There are certain things that you can do to make an SP comfortable. Hygine, lighting and room ambience may be some of these things. You could even select certain positions (cowgirl or reverse cow girl) so that the SP does not feel the impact of your heaviness because she does all the work.

Since for a SP it is work, she would not care as much. If you are reading an encounter as more that a fantasy then it will be a different matter.
 

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Big Daddy said:
It could very well be in your mind. I personally think that SP should not mind it. I think most people can put up with almost anyone for about one hour. It is not like she has to be around you for ever (assuming that she does not like you).

There are certain things that you can do to make an SP comfortable. Hygine, lighting and room ambience may be some of these things. You could even select certain positions (cowgirl or reverse cow girl) so that the SP does not feel the impact of your heaviness because she does all the work.

Since for a SP it is work, she would not care as much. If you are reading an encounter as more that a fantasy then it will be a different matter.
Hello BDC,

Yes, the limitations I refered to in my post were about letting the lady be on top in some manner, or in some position that avoids the obvious problem.

I hope I have not been indelicate. I understand your feelings, but not to the point of experiencing them first hand since I am very light at 160 pounds. But there are other things that can cause clients inner concern too.

Tenderly,

Korbel
 
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I've never had a problem with heavier guys, because even though I may not be attracted to most of my clientel, it's their attitude and personality (and of course technique;) ) that ultimately makes the encounter enjoyable for me (and it always is). I know a guy would probably rather be seen as sexy than as a "big teddy bear" but there's something comforting about cuddling with a big sweetie ( I love how Ronnie put it... "Fluffy is better than bony" ).

Trust me, if you're respectful and gentle (of course sometimes a little rough is fun:D ), the lady will have a good time and definitely put you on her "to do again" list:p
 

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I was rather obese (350lbs 5' 11") but managed to lose about 75 lbs, gained some, lost some again, and so the battle of the bulge continues (I've launched a new offensive recently). But I am still fat. I'm not a regular visitor to MTL but have enjoyed about 8 different SPs from Montreal, and 2 outside of it.

The problem with asking the agency if its a problem is that you will often not hear the truth. From my personal perspective none of them appeared to have issue with my weight. None had knowledge of my weight before hand except for indy whom I had sent my photo beforehand. Its not something I would do normally, but she was an HDH and I wanted to make sure there would be no problems before hand.

First and foremost Hygeine is key, but dont go overboard like I did. I thought I had to overcompensate and ended up doing quite a bit of waxing - very painful and all the SPs I was with said it was unecessary. But still, pay attention to detail, treat her nicely and it will pay off. I always let the SP go CG first and then we explore what works best from there.

With regards to what EB said, in my opinion someone with that much weight will have a hard time pounding away - physical stamina and flexibility is not one of the great attributes of obese men, and while there is plenty of sexual energy, I doubt they can pound away for as long as a healthy man can.

In addition dont forget to do your research, I did my homework and only had 1 out of those 8 experiences end up bad. And it wasn't my fault either, the problem was with her (garlic breath and unclean Y). Almost each SP I was with asked me when I would be again in town, and one even made some arrangements to see me the next day under the radar (without the agency owner's knowledge).

Larry feel free to PM me if you are looking for fat-friendly SPs. Though I'm sure you understand every experience is unique.
 
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A position that I find works well with many obese clients is with me lying at the edge of the bed my legs in the air in a 'V" and him standing facing me: lift the belly and slide right in. :p

This is great fun for me too because the belly rubs in all the right places in this position! :D



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