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Thread: Married or not?

  1. #1

    Married or not?

    Been hobbying for 2 years. Out of the 5 SPís I have had sessions with, 4 have asked me if I was married or had a girlfriend. It got me wondering if this really matters to them or if it is easy small talk. To me, it matters!!! Sometimes I wonder how many board members are actually married and how many are not. If all hobbyists were single, it would become much more respectable, or even accepted.

  2. #2
    Quote Originally Posted by tex
    Why don't you post a poll?
    From the lack of response, and lack of integrity on this site, I already know.

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    Actually, you really should post a poll about that! I'm really curious.
    BTW I'm not married! TOOO EXPENSIVE IN CASE OF DIVORCE PROCEDURE!!!!!!!!!

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    Poll added.

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    Some of us are single for the second time in our lives. Having put all of the energy into a relationship (and make no mistake, it is work), then betrayal and the BS of how the system treats men in split-ups, some are just a tad gunshy or emotionally not up to try it again for at least awhile. The ladies here are wonderful at letting a guy share some quality time with them or at least getting that necessary injection of femininity. When you do the math, a wife can cost you as much. The hazards? getting attached to them. Making love can be a bonding experience at times. One occasionally has to fight to keep the proper perspective. Now I am talking about the sweethearts here not the walking cash registers. The good part? It is one never ending honeymoon.
    Confucius say: Man who take woman into house on side of hill - not on level.

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    We probably all do!!!! Safest way of not getting caught!!!

    lollll

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    Quote Originally Posted by Regular Guy
    The ladies here are wonderful at letting a guy share some quality time with them or at least getting that necessary injection of femininity. When you do the math, a wife can cost you as much. The hazards? getting attached to them. Making love can be a bonding experience at times. One occasionally has to fight to keep the proper perspective. Now I am talking about the sweethearts here not the walking cash registers. The good part? It is one never ending honeymoon.
    RG,

    I know who you're talking about - a true sweetheart.

    GG

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    I'm married. What does that have to do with anything? I don't get the point of the question.
    Last edited by Fat Happy Buddha; 01-08-2007 at 04:30 PM.

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    I know GG, I know. Sometimes you think maybe you should never have met them and other times that you are richer for having met them. Of course, in one sense, I suppose, a good dose of selfish ice queen is a tonic now and then. lol.
    Confucius say: Man who take woman into house on side of hill - not on level.

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    Integrity? I got news for you, there is no integrity in this biz, none whatsoever. I voted in your poll but I did not vote to show my approval of your question. As the SP I met last night told me, guys who think you should never cheat on your wife have never been married. They talk about honesty as a virtue under any circumstance but honesty is often overrated, especially if you're going to hurt someone else.

    You want honesty? I am honestly sick and tired of polls by single dudes meant to give us married guys lectures in morality.

    GG
    Last edited by MERB124; 01-08-2007 at 10:02 PM. Reason: removed quote

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    Dude, have you ever been married? My guess is that you haven't and that you probably don't know how difficult marriage can be sometimes and how many sacrifices it entails. There are a thousand different situations that could make visiting SPs understandable, if not exactly ethical.

    Oh yes, speaking of integrity. The next time you enlist the services of a SP, take her home to introduce her to your mother and tell your mom, "This is the lady I'm going to be banging for the next hour and, oh yes, she won't do it unless I give her $180. Can you lend me the money?" And while you're at it, hire an SP for your next office party and introduce her to your boss, explaining, of course, the details of your very short and cash-based relationship.

    Then have your mom and your boss post on Merb, explaining how your integrity is clearly greater than we married folk, because I don't get it.

    Oh, by the way, my wife says I can screw whoever I want as long as it's not her friends. But I have a suspician that my wife likes girls too, so I gradually working my way to a threesome with my wife and an SP. How's THAT for integrity. So there, ha ha, think of me in twenty years time when your banging off in the washroom trying to remain faithful to your 250 lb wife.

    Opps, Fat Buddha blew a gasket. Okay, I'll go sit in the corner and meditate.

    Seriously, nothing personal beautydigger, I'm just venting, although I have noticed a lot of excessive moralizing on the board since New Year's. Sounds like we gotta work harder at breaking those new year's resolutions.
    Last edited by MERB124; 01-08-2007 at 10:02 PM.

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    Being a hobbyist cost less than a divorce, don't you think? Besides that if your life with your wife is good except sex why change everything? A little hour or two with a nice young lady and your are OK... In those contries where they have more than one women they never talk about fidelity !!! All depends on how you look at the situation.
    Do what is good for you without judging the others: that's a good way of living!
    Luap

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    *yawn*... get off your high horse buddy. You think we are bad people and immoral ppl because we have gf/wives yet we go out to get SPs? Brother pleaseeee! You really must have no idea what it's like to be in a real relationship or in other ppls' case, married.

    I love my gf dearly. She treats me awesome. I treat her awesome. I spoil her with love and gifts. We live with each other. All is happy, no problems at all.

    I'm a guy. I have needs. I enjoy beautiful women, but I also love my GF. Do I want to break up with my gf? No. Do i want to bang hot chicks? Yes. Being monogamous is so overrated. I think that when I go out to SP, it BETTERS my relationship with my GF.

    How you ask?

    For one, I just got to bang a super hot blond and do stuff my gf would normally not do. I come home, i'm in a GREAT mood, and I see my loving gf there making dinner. I go over and give her a hug and a kiss, then spend time with her and have dinner and watch tv together.

    I'm sure many of the guys on this board understand what I mean by that feeling... going out to bang a freaking hot SP. Release your load, pay your $160. Go home feeling like a million bucks, and then go to your wife and give her a big hug and a kiss just because you're in a great mood. And when you're in a good mood, ur wife's in a good mood, and when you and ur wife's in a good mood, you end up with a happy relationship.

    Yes, what we do might be frowned upon and not "right", but hey, if you can keep the wifey happy and yourself happy, I say you're doing a damn good job in life and who really cares what is "right" or "wrong". And of course I ain't gonna go tell my gf/wife what I do because then she's not gonna be happy and then i'm gonna have problems and arguments, and then I ain't doing such a good job in life. What really matters in the end, is if your life and relationship are good and healthy.

    My 2cent.
    Last edited by MontrealAsian; 01-08-2007 at 07:16 PM.

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    I truly wonder what the reaction of all these 'involved' people would be if their wives/girlfriends confessed that either:

    - they've been fucking other men for free to get the satisfaction their bf/husband cannot give them (but they love their significant other and don't want to seperate - easier to pay the bills)

    or

    - they're fucking other men for money

    Just how sanctimonious would they all be then?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MontrealAsian
    What really matters in the end, is if your life and relationship are good and healthy.
    Real healthy relationship there... cheating on your other, refusing to admit to it or discuss it... Yup, you got yourself a winner there.

    Flame away...

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