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FHB,Originally Posted by Fat Happy Buddha
If you really care about someone, you wouldn`t "encourage them to do what`s right for them" if it was SPing. Every single SP I meet, I really hope that they do not stay in this for long, but I know that many get trapped with this lifestyle and do it far longer than they should.
And to be very honest, I care about some ladies more than others. I should be telling them straight in their face that they shouldn`t be doing this. They could easily cut me off for saying this, but it`s the truth. I can`t just lie and say "it`s your life, you know what is best for you"...BULLSHIT!!! What I really want to say is you`re beautiful and smart so why are you wasting your innate talent doing this shit!!!
If you really care about someone, no matter what the consequences, you tell them the truth.