This trip to Montreal, two of the women I was with had children. In between SOGs sometimes I talk. Both had volunteered the information on their children, and I asked about their boyfriends or ex-husbands, and both said that they had boyfriends who were abusive. They said that their men did cocaine or drunk too much and hit them and they were happy that they were gone.
Now, I was not shocked. I know that abusive men exist. But is this a pattern amongst some SP's? One was in her late 20s, and the other was in her early 20s. The majority of the SPs that I have been with are not mothers, but the ones that are, it seems to be a familiar story.
Is this a natural progression? They find a man who is the abusive type and he charms her. Then he she gets pregnant. He gets abusive. She finds it difficult to make ends meet. She becomes an SP.
I know that the childless single girls who are in college or were dancing and find SPing the next step and more lucrative are a different story and don't fall into this scenario.
What has been your guys experience talking to the women who have children?