Well, here is the deal. I hobbied extensively after the end of a marriage 10 years ago, and in between several attempts at reconciliation. My ex and I have finally shot and buried the marriage, thank God. (I have made no secret of the fact that years ago I posted mainly on Canbest as Jerseylefty.)
So I started hobbying again a year or so ago. And now, I've met a fantastic woman.
The problem is this: I like hobbying. I like the excitement of seeing SPs. I love the feeling of wondering who is going to be on the other side of the door when the knock comes. And, frankly, I love the feeling of having two women in bed.
I'm not sure what to do. Some of you can live in both worlds (having a regular partner and hobbying), but I can't because I live a distance from Montreal and would have trouble making excuses to get away. I made a small effort at convincing her that she'd like making a trip with me and making it with another woman, but it didn't take. At least she shares my lingerie fetish, which my wife wanted no part of.
I'm really stuck on this. I would like to make one more trip at least and see Kiki and perhaps a couple other women. I'm just not sure what to do.
Argh.
So I started hobbying again a year or so ago. And now, I've met a fantastic woman.
The problem is this: I like hobbying. I like the excitement of seeing SPs. I love the feeling of wondering who is going to be on the other side of the door when the knock comes. And, frankly, I love the feeling of having two women in bed.
I'm not sure what to do. Some of you can live in both worlds (having a regular partner and hobbying), but I can't because I live a distance from Montreal and would have trouble making excuses to get away. I made a small effort at convincing her that she'd like making a trip with me and making it with another woman, but it didn't take. At least she shares my lingerie fetish, which my wife wanted no part of.
I'm really stuck on this. I would like to make one more trip at least and see Kiki and perhaps a couple other women. I'm just not sure what to do.
Argh.