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Thread: Finding an SP/MP Girlriend

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    Finding an SP/MP Girlriend

    I was wondering if anyone here had any experience with being in a relationship with an MP or SP and how you ended up in a relationship? I'm very interested in dating an MP/SP (outside of work). Do any of them ever want boyfriends, or are they just fine with having many 'boyfriends' who pay them? There must be some who would like someone to love and be loved by, to come home to and that sort of thing. I'm 24 years old incase that might affect your responses.

    How do I find a girl like this? I would never meet one in my current group of aquaintances. Is this at all likely or even possible? Thanks for any advice...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tee
    I was wondering if anyone here had any experience with being in a relationship with an MP or SP and how you ended up in a relationship?
    It happened. But I guess it's like in any other environment: sometimes, a chemistry occurs btween ppl and they get a bit closer.
    It sometimes happens when you do not expect it at all.
    In my case, there were 2 different relationships that ended in 2 diff ways:
    The 1st ended after she became way too controlling.
    The 2nd ended due to numerous travels that kept us apart.
    In both cases, I encouraged the girl to persue her escort job and made sure not to interfere in what she was doing.
    DENISE MILANI REDEFINES HOTNESS! !!

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    I agree with the Monk that it's all--and only--a matter of chemistry. If two people hit it off, it shouldn't matter what their professions are. Being an SP, like being a banker or lawyer or teacher, is a profession, not a universal inner identity. It's none of my business, but I would suggest you investigate your motivation for this search. Since you don't mention the qualities your are looking for (kindness, generosity, humor, whatever), it sounds like you are projecting some quality inherent in being an SP; if there is one, I don't know what it would be. As an aside, I'm always wary of the impulse to support and "protect" SPs (who usually don't need protecting), to hold sacred some wounded heart of gold, to assume some unique sexual gifts, or just to get an insider's view of the SP world. You didn't mention any of this and I don't mean to assume your motives--but these are not good foundations for a romantic relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by talkinghead
    I agree with the Monk that it's all--and only--a matter of chemistry. If two people hit it off, it shouldn't matter what their professions are. Being an SP, like being a banker or lawyer or teacher, is a profession, not a universal inner identity. It's none of my business, but I would suggest you investigate your motivation for this search. Since you don't mention the qualities your are looking for (kindness, generosity, humor, whatever), it sounds like you are projecting some quality inherent in being an SP; if there is one, I don't know what it would be. As an aside, I'm always wary of the impulse to support and "protect" SPs (who usually don't need protecting), to hold sacred some wounded heart of gold, to assume some unique sexual gifts, or just to get an insider's view of the SP world. You didn't mention any of this and I don't mean to assume your motives--but these are not good foundations for a romantic relationship.

    """Being an SP, like being a banker or lawyer or teacher, is a profession, not a universal inner identity."""

    Now ask yourself, how will you be able to handle it that she is tired after a hard-ons day work of being fucked- I don't care for any other way to describe what it is ultimately thats been done to her- by all kinds of guys, white, black, arabs, greeks , italians, pakistanis, small cocks, huge cocks, thin cocks, thick cocks , smelly cocks, two guys, or her face glazed like a fuckin doughnut by a nice blast of jism enough for a dozen.

    Go get some therapy and find out why are you proposing this question in the first place. Or just get out there and mingle and find yourself a woman without any exchange of cash.

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    franky sayz
    why would you specifically want this? I have had one or two relationships with SP's. It was different and for me at the time convenient. If you are looking for a tortured soul to save......
    I think you should explore your motivations for seeking this.
    franky

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    Arrow relationship with SP

    Here's my contribution to this post, this is based on personal experiences.

    As Monk said, I 100% do agree his position: sometimes it can happened. "But I guess it's like in any other environment: sometimes, a chemistry occurs between people and they get a bit closer".

    It happened to me twice. First time, I've met a very interesting woman and had a relation with her for 6 months. Very accidently I found out she was a SP (Indy)...Probably one of the most difficult situation in my life. I decided to broke-up because of the lies. From my point of view, nobody can't stand a decent relationship based on lies.

    Second time: I had couple of encounters with one of the MERB's favorite SP.
    And the chemistry occured...we started to see each other outside the professional relationship we used to have. And sometimes lightning strikes...

    For many reasons (health, self esteem, respect,...), I just can't imagine my girlfriend beeing a SP (I can't imagine hobbying while I'm into a relationship). Most people on Merb consider SP as professionals but we all know it's not that simple. And believe me or not it's not that easy to deal with the thin line especially when you're personally involved in a relation with a SP.

    At the beginning it was a kind of a fairy tale...almost a remake of 'pretty woman' (except I don't have a limo driver but my lawyer is quite stupid! ahahah) . But the reality has stroke very hard. We went through many difficult situations most of them came out because of her SP career, the industry contacts and her bad habits. For personal reasons and respect, I won't go into details but it's been very tough. Following many efforts, we both decided to end up this relationship.

    Were we in love? Yes
    Have we done the best we can? Not sure, but we're just human beings.

    Repeat: No, reasons are:

    Most of the SPs I had the opportunity to get to know better are having very heavy personal background.
    This profession is changing people a way too much...common sense just doesn't exist anymore. (I know it’s a judgement, please be indulgent with me)
    I really believe it’s not easy to have a decent relationship these days (you’ve to find the right person at the right time with same goals), with normal conditions I still think it’s a real challenge. I was a foolish man to believe it could have been possible with a SP.

    May be I have too much great expectations?
    May be I’m a dreamer?
    May be I should have think about this before?
    May be my definition of a relationship is a way too old school?
    May be I’m not that strong?
    May be I’m going to do it again?

    BUT I’M SURE I’VE NO REGRET, I’ve tried.
    Last edited by MarathonMan; 09-20-2007 at 01:03 PM.

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    I agree I would not be able to have a relationship maybe a casual fling but even at that.I don't think anyone with his head screwed on right would accept this even if its just a job for the girl!!!

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    love 'em, leave 'em (Gene Simmons)

    I can understand the fascination these girls provoke in some guy's fantasies. It's almost as if they're celebrities or something. To be really desired (or even loved) by a girl who's been with hundreds of guys is maybe good for valorisation, I don't know. Feeling like you're the chosen one, the best of 'em all. I've been subject to that fascination myself. I've had a few relationships with sex workers (strippers and sp), had amazing sex, got attached, but all I got in the end, was just... trouble.

    Man, these girls were trouble!

    They had self-image, self-confidence issues, they needed A LOT of attention, by everyone, not just by me, and they were high maintenance. IMO advice: If you are not firmly grounded and aware, they might rip your heart (and your mind) to pieces. Enjoy the ride but don't try to change or save them. They don't want to be saved, they don't need a savior. They need to do their thing their own way, and don't stand in their path or you'll be crushed like a bug by a steamroller.

    Attache ta tuque a'ec d'la broche!

    ps: Living dangerously. Yeah! Wouldn't want it any other way!
    Last edited by babaloo123; 09-21-2007 at 01:27 PM.
    Love will find a way, Indifference will find an excuse...

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    Red face Oh brother, dating a fantasy

    URGH! This topic again. In a recent encounter with Vanessa of Excentrix, she rightly remarked:"...guys need to understand that this a fantasy. They're only seeing an SP's best side." No shit.

    I have said this before: if your only form of interaction with females is through hobbying and you've never experienced a serious relationship, you're in for a hard landing. Even if you manage to date an SP, stripper or masseusse, don't think that your relationship will be like the encounters you paid for.

    GG

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    SP's are no different than any other women, if you can shower them with gifts and money they are yours till you stop.

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    Quote Originally Posted by beautydigger
    SP's are no different than any other women, if you can shower them with gifts and money they are yours till you stop.
    If you keep thinking like an adolescent, you'll only attract these type of leeches. When you're ready to settle down with someone and share a meaningful relationship, you will not be looking for someone who is hopelessly materialistic. At least I hope not.

    GG
    Last edited by General Gonad; 09-21-2007 at 03:22 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by General Gonad
    If you keep thinking like an adolescent, you'll only attract these type of leeches. When you're ready to settle down with someone and share a meaningful relationship, you will not be looking for someone who is hopelessly materialistic. At least I hope not.

    GG
    O.K. sure...and I bet you can show me plenty of women over the age of 27 like that. And I thought you were experienced

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    Quote Originally Posted by beautydigger
    O.K. sure...and I bet you can show me plenty of women over the age of 27 like that. And I thought you were experienced
    I can only say this: insecure rich men attract insecure hot women and the results are disastrous. If you end up with a leech, it's because that is what you were looking for. There are plenty of REAL gems out there.

    GG

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    Quote Originally Posted by General Gonad
    There are plenty of REAL gems out there.

    GG
    I respectfully disagree. You have a better chance of winning the lottery than finding a Real gem.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maria Divina
    Totally agree....Finding Real Gem for men AND women really according on ourselves is one of the most rare thing on earth.....
    I respectfully disagree. It is hard, but not impossible if you know where to look. Then again, anything worth pursuing is hard to find.

    GG

    P.S. If you're looking for the 'perfect fit', you'll die alone.
    Last edited by General Gonad; 09-21-2007 at 04:46 PM.

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