So here's my situation. I managed to get a deal on a really great looking place. It's been renovated to crazy extremes and it looks wicked. The problem is, it also looks like I have much, much more money then I actually have. People come over and they think I'm loaded, and I most certainly am not. The question is, am I asking for trouble by having outcalls here? I'm not sure it's a great idea to have strangers who, in some cases, might have habits, come by and possibly case the place for a future visit. I realize how paranoid that sounds, but I have in the past, when I did outcall to my old apartment, had an alarmingly strung out looking girl show up, and it freaked me out enough to have me consider leaving the hobby for good. I can't imagine how creepy it might be to have the same situation in my new place.
Now, believe me, the large majority of women I've met in the hobby have been as cool as can be, and were people I'd certainly trust. It's just there's always the wild card factor in seeing a new girl. I'm really not sure what to do.