I know that in the big picture it doesn’t mean too much because everyone is different, but how much time do you spend “getting to know” the girl and how much time do you think is the best?
Since I have started the hobby I have tried several different “get to know you” time variations. Interestingly enough, although my gut tells me to spend a little more time building rapport I have found with much consistency that the sooner I initiate the action the better service I get; I’m not talking sex in the first 5 min but some sort of sexual contact in the first 5 min. I am curious if psychologically the girl starts to put you more in “friend” category -vs- lover (sex partner) category the longer you take to make some sort of sexual contact? Even though it is a paid for service the gut level psychology of lover/provider for the girl probably plays some part, especially if she is newer to the biz and not a just providing a mechanical service.
So with all of that said I am finding that starting sexual contact (i.e. making out) within the first 5 min yields the best results.
If this topic interests you please post. And the few girls who post here please feel free to chime in.
NYC
Since I have started the hobby I have tried several different “get to know you” time variations. Interestingly enough, although my gut tells me to spend a little more time building rapport I have found with much consistency that the sooner I initiate the action the better service I get; I’m not talking sex in the first 5 min but some sort of sexual contact in the first 5 min. I am curious if psychologically the girl starts to put you more in “friend” category -vs- lover (sex partner) category the longer you take to make some sort of sexual contact? Even though it is a paid for service the gut level psychology of lover/provider for the girl probably plays some part, especially if she is newer to the biz and not a just providing a mechanical service.
So with all of that said I am finding that starting sexual contact (i.e. making out) within the first 5 min yields the best results.
If this topic interests you please post. And the few girls who post here please feel free to chime in.
NYC
