Most Beautiful SPs that do not mind being with older guys

Why the range from 38-50? If you're 50 just state the fact instead of saying somewhere between 38 and 50.

mlpcmd said:

Thanks Maxima. Based on your answer, I will delete the thread. I might leave it there for a day or two to let people read your reply in case they had a similar question.

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interesting conception

the question here i think is when you call for a SP do you stated you age.
20,30,40,50,60,70or whatever
i say yes because if the SP knows who he or she is dealing with they can prepare themself .
It like when client call for the SP they want to know who the are dealing with
Therefore they can refuse or exception the inventation
I believe the young sp the 18 to 24 rangre might have difficulty with a old range like 45 plus beacuse they are more active and real enjoy there job and its free and profitable

You are only old when you feel old

My feeling is that if you treat them with respect and you're clean they'll be more than happy to be with you whether you're 20, 40 or 60. I know many older guys who hobby and have never heard a bad experience because they're older. On the contrary, I believe many SP's prefer older gentlemen.

I think you are mistaking fantasy for reality. I reality, a 18 to 24 year old attractive woman, might not consider dating a man with a 20 year age difference........ especially if he looked his age, but the reality is this is not just any woman we are talking about, but a young SP...... Most SP just want a guy who is clean and treats her with respect for his session, age rarely comes into play, unless she is very new in the business. If it is your fantasy to date a SP........ good luck! Even if you are shooting for the Sugar Daddy angle, it won't last!

Think about it, how many twenty year old men do you hear about booking SP's? They don't, it is way too easy to score the very same girls for free on campus. If SP's had a problem with "older" men, they wouldn't be able to work for very long. A great SP like Karyna of Eleganza, is the perfect professional, when it comes to acting out your fantasy for your session. She will make you believe that you are the hottest guy on the planet, when you are with her, and I don't think it really matters to her if you are old and ugly. All that does is that you are a gentleman, clean(and clean smelling) and offer her something to drink.

mlpcmd said:

Hi all,


The range of older guys is open. Let's say, 38-50.
mlpcmd

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Miss Maria said:

You are only old when you feel old

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38-50 is an old guy? NOW I feel old!! lol

voyageur said:

38-50 is an old guy? NOW I feel old!! lol

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And there was Tom Hanks on tv the other day saying he had turned 51 & Kelly Ripa telling him not to worry since 50 is the new 30.

mlpcmd said:

Could you please list the most beautiful SPs that feel comfortable and do not mind being with older guys?

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My experience is that most sps will welcome older clients. I've been told they enjoy the maturity level & that a client with money to spend is usually an older man. Others have told me that older men often enjoy spoiling a young woman & that younger clients are usually cheap and/or don't know how to treat a woman.
Other sps (usually the hdh kind) have told me that even though they don't mind older clients, it's nice to get to fuck a younger client once in a while in order to inject a dose of reality back into their lives.

In general, the only time i've heard of sps being uncomfortable with a client the moment they meet them has to do more with their ethnicity. Not all sps are comfortable screwing strange men of all kinds of ethnicities. I'd very probably feel the same way if i were in their shoes.

Hey! Where do the old-age pensioners over 70 like me fit in? Or, I we just chopped liver?

Kasp_ar

I'm glad you have all chimed in. When I first read this I thought "SP's do not like old men and old is 38-50?" "Holy shit I'm old!"
I honestly didn't think the hobby was worth it until I was 38+. I am in my 40's and this has been the best, most fullfilling year so far. With the discovery web sites such as MERB etc. I really think my best years are ahead of me. I sure hope SPs like guys 40+.

From one who is up there as well!

Just to take a stab at what is behind this question for the sake of argument:

It may be that a lot of guys simply don't understand how women view men. Not quite the same as how men view women. For example, since the dawn of time, women the nest builders have always looked to men as providers and perhaps that applies to a certain extent with this hobby. Further, women endowed with greater beauty (someone mentioned Karyna) have a better chance of attracting a better provider with male attractiveness thrown in as a bonus. Is this what some of the older clients feel is in her head and has prompted this thread? Just a comment on that point: I have met several extremely attractive women (as I am sure some of you guys have) who simply don't have a true appreciation of their beauty (usually girls with brothers,lol).

Perhaps many guys feel that youth and physical attractiveness in a client are requisite for young sp's “getting into” the session. Female passion is a great motivator as is acceptance, generally, to put a guy “on top of the world.” Rejection in any form is a cold pail of water. Women have tremendous power as in the natural scheme of things men make the advances and women either accept or reject. Many reviews show the anger and disgust of the reviewer at an sp who virtually rejects them by expressions of boredom or being short with them (I am sure we all can recall one or two personally). We have all read them. For a lot of guys that can be a real slap in the face. An interesting debate not long ago dealt with (and continues to this day) on the subject of kissing. A client attempting to kiss an sp and having her turn her head away can engender feelings of rejection. Yet in all fairness, the girls are human and, when first starting out, they may be struggling with feelings of differentiating between true love making with someone they are attracted to and a session with a client. They are all different, I suppose and some may actually love sex with men in general where for others they are struggling to find a proper perspective. I suspect the job is demanding emotionally and can take its toll. In that light there is no question that it is economically driven.

So mlpcnd you do have value in their eyes, maybe more than you know. You are a good provider, you treat them well, you have a wealth of life experience which leads you to be able to truly appreciate these girls. If you have good hygiene and are a true gentleman then you are honouring and valuing them. What they really detest are the jerks who diminish their sense of self worth. And maybe that has infinitely more value to them. And the wise ones can appreciate it.

An extremely complex issue when you really begin to get into it. I feel I have just touched the
surface. I am only one guy and I would guess that some of the more experienced members could enrich the discussion by filling in the gaps or constructively challenging one of the points I have made. I recall one client who posted that he would love to be a fly on the wall when sp's gather. What do they say about us when we are not there? (They are having a “souper” soon hmmmmmn!). Girls?

Being a newbie to this hobby and some one who falls into the age category mentioned, I must admit that my first encounter, although filled with nervous tension at first, ended up being a most wonderful date due totally to the experience, attitude and personality of the SP.

I humbly thank you!

Athana said:

Regular Guy!! ....... amen!!!

You should become the Official Merb Preacher

Your post pretty much says everything!

What do we (SP's) say when you guys are not there? Me think.... hummm that's a very good thread starter question!!

I would start it, but I'm leaving on vacations and won't be here for a couple of weeks.

Kisses;

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Thanks Athana. Have to confess it can be tough tackling something like this and nice to know I may have been on track. As for becoming a preacher, if I get to that stage on this board please, somebody, take me outside and shoot me! I have seen where delusions of grandeur in one or two others on this board have led them. They wound up being perpetually locked in battle. No thanks.

Last word to mlpcnd: It is my belief that rather than concentrate on the age differential just read the reviews and choose a young lady with a great attitude and just maybe concentrate on the reviews by some of the older members. Perhaps some of them might be so kind as to recommend

Sps with "Older Men" restriction

At the opposite of escorts who do not want to meet with color men (there's a thread on it on Merb), I am not aware of any sp who's officially against meeting with seniors. So, no worry about this.

even

I am 22 and prefer to date men in their 30s...

I like people who are interesting, intelligent, respectful and who have a sense of humour. Oh yes and who know how to kiss and let go... mmmmm

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