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    Why Did Pussy Contract?

    So I was with this girl at a Berlin FKK club last week and for most of the time, her pussy felt quite loose. Then during two different moments, her pussy suddenly contracted around my dick a couple of times. What was happening here? Was she orgasming or was it something else that she could do voluntarily?

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    Quote Originally Posted by 10-19
    Didn't want to inflate the thread starter's ego too much.
    I don't care about my ego. I just want to know what was happening. If she was doing it voluntarily, how often would SPs actually do this because out of all the SPs I've been with, nobody else has done this and I didn't ask for it. If she was doing this as an enhancement, maybe I could ask others in the future to do it then because it was kind of cool. At least it was way better than when everything was loose.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ExoticSpirit
    Then during two different moments, her pussy suddenly contracted around my dick a couple of times.
    Is this all that change? The sudden contract? If this is all that change so maybe it is volunteer. Usually when it is orgasme it is not the contract you notice first (well not with me ). Attitude change (harder please), inside change (more slip and wet), face change (it can look like hurt), talk change ('I am have orgasme' or 'oh oui, oui' for example), etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by alice_wonderland
    Is this all that change? The sudden contract? If this is all that change so maybe it is volunteer. Usually when it is orgasme it is not the contract you notice first (well not with me ). Attitude change (harder please), inside change (more slip and wet), face change (it can look like hurt), talk change ('I am have orgasme' or 'oh oui, oui' for example), etc.

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    She was more vocal during the contractions.

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    ES, maybe you did hit a button!

    As MariaD is saying, Kegel! Some girls will do it involuntary when orgasming but it's not an absolute 100% guarantee it will always happen. For some, It can happen once or twice on a few hundred intercourse and for other it will be every time.

    Some can reproduce this movement voluntarly, (practice make perfect) some will never be able to do it, voluntarly or not, practice or not. It's not like turning a light on or off. You can't really expect every woman to perform this successfully. You can ask her to squeeze your tool with her pussy and, if she can do it, you'll know pretty soon but if she can't, it's no big deal!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maria Divina
    Humm...Mom say that every women could do it..
    Maybe I should put my GF in contact with your mom? 20 years together and it never happened!! Tried, tried and tried again!


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    Quote Originally Posted by metoo4
    As MariaD is saying, Kegel! Some girls will do it involuntary when orgasming but it's not an absolute 100% guarantee it will always happen. For some, It can happen once or twice on a few hundred intercourse and for other it will be every time.
    Metoo4,

    I do not want to be contradicting you, but I invite to look 'woman orgasme' in google. Contract is part of orgasme, exact like man. If you do not feel contract it is maybe because you get 'voluntary' orgasme....

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    Metoo4, I find this for you (read especially 'orgasme' section):

    What is The Female Orgasm?

    The male and female orgasms are very similar subjectively. When women and men are asked to described the sensations they feel during arousal and orgasm but excluding gender-specific anatomical terms, the descriptions are remarkably similar, and involve feelings of inevitability when the orgasm is imminent...

    ...The standard textbook description of female excitation and orgasm goes like this: A prolonged period of arousal, a plateau, orgasm proper and resolution. The same phases can be identified in men. Major studies which are still often quoted are those of Kimsey and of Masters and Johnson who tackled the sensitive topic of female sexuality in what was effectively the dark ages of the post-war 20th century.


    Arousal

    In the excitement phase, often induced by thought alone, involves the following set of processes:

    The nipples typically become erect and the clitoris also becomes turgid and it expands a little (though not much), and this may result in it becoming a bit more visible in some women with medium to large ones. Clitoral erection, more properly called tumescence, is due to increased arterial blood flow to the clitoris and reduced venous drainage and so is essentially identical to the process of penile erection but the degree of expansion is much less and involves little change in length, though the change in thickness and turgidity of the long clitoral shaft is very easily appreciated. Increasing heart rate and blood pressure, and increasing genital blood flow also result in gradual expansion of the inner and outer labia and vaginal lubrication. Vaginal lubrication results mostly from a process called transudation that is, the increased blood flow (vasocongestion) of the vaginal wall causes blood and lymphatic fluids to be forced through the tissue into the vagina where it appears as a lot of tiny sweat-like drops on the vaginal walls. Additional vaginal lubrication comes from the cervix which is well-supplied with mucous glands. The amount and thickness of a woman's vaginal lubrication may well depend on her stage in the menstrual cycle primarily because of the changes in the cervical mucus.

    There is also lubrication of the inner lips resulting from glandular secretions from the mucous membranes and possibly from the Skene's glands (paraurethral glands) that open at two small, sometimes quite visible, pores, one on either side of the urethral opening (at 5 and 7 o'clock if the genitals are arranged with clitoris at 12 o'clock).

    As the arousal continues, the swelling of the labia causes the inner lips to part and spread outwards thus making the opening of the vagina more obvious. The increased blood flow causes the woman's genitals to change colour, from flesh tones to at least pinkish, but in women who have had children (it isn't clear if pregnancy alone causes this or childbirth is important) the colour change can be more extreme and her genitals can become almost a deep wine red.

    The colour of the vaginal walls also changes in the same way, and internally the vaginal cavity expands and the inner two thirds can form a rather large space; evolutionarily this is probably to produce a cavity in which sperm will be kept in close proximity to the cervix and not simply run out after the male has shed his load. On the other hand, the outer third of the vagina (the introitus) becomes tighter due to the increased blood flow to the region (reported as a corpus spongiosum i.e. similar tissue to that in the penis and clitoris). Internally the positions of the uterus moves causing the vagina to elongate, and the position of the cervix changes collectively these changes in the internal vaginal arrangement are often referred to as "tenting".

    Late in the excitement phase the breasts are reported to swell, though it is hard to find detailed measurements.


    Plateau

    The plateau is the final phase of excitement when basically all excitement parameters are at max and she is waiting to get herself over the edge, usually focusing her thoughts very much on her genitals or other arousing things. At this time spontaneous contractions of the anal sphincter, and muscles in the upper legs and pelvic region are common, and increased semi-involuntary movements of the hips usually indicates the imminence of orgasm.


    Orgasm

    The orgasm is a pulsatile event with strong feelings of pleasure centred around the genitala and a demanding pushing feeling. In women this is usually indicated visibly by a series of contractions in the vaginal-anal area which occur at about once every 0.8 seconds approx. and by a "sex flush" which is a rapid change in skin colour of the chest (breasts and area between them up to the neck and face) resulting from an increase in cutaneous blood flow. The rate of perineal contractions may vary from woman to woman, and certainly not all contractions in an orgasmic series are evenly spaced, the first usually being relatively long. Internally, a lot more is going on, and videos of the inside of the vagina during orgasm show the cervix is very active and with each contraction it pushes down and "drinks" up semen from the puddle that would be there after a normal copulation so evolutionarily it only makes sense for the woman to come after the man has and only to do so if she wants to get pregnant by him! There are also waves of contractions of the uterus which are stimulated by the orgasmic surge in the hormone oxytosin. During orgasm the woman's blood pressure and heart rate increase considerably and she often does staccato breathing and may vocalise though this may be both voluntary and involuntary depending on the individual. Some hold their breath. Many also show spastic contractions of muscles in the hands and feet causing curling of toes (carpopedal spasms).

    Much of the literature about female orgasm reports that during orgasm the clitoris retracts under the clitoral hood. This obviously comes from the studies of Kinsey and others. However, none of the hundreds of videos of real orgasm shown here is this visible. Also, given that the clitoris is composed of spongiform tissue without skeletal muscle, it is hard to see how this could be achieved mechanically as it certainly does not detumesce during orgasm.

    The Bartholin's glands (greater vestibular glands) which open just outside the vaginal opening produce a small amount of mucus (just a few drops) and this seems to be secreted just before orgasm. It may be involved in making the chemistry of the vagina less hostile to sperm.


    Resolution

    After orgasm many women cannot bear continued direct stimulation of the clitoris and/or vulva (and even the breasts in some) and so pass into a resolution phase, but if the stimulation is maintained at a low level until the sensitivity subsides, avoiding direct clitoral contact, quite a lot of women can have a second or even numerous extra orgasms after the first one, separated by a minute or so. After a few orgasms it seems that clitoral sensitivity subsides and continued stimulation is possible. Possibly multi-orgasmicity is not universal in women, though it is likely that the painful, postorgasmic sensitivity of the clitoris puts many off trying. In men it is possible but is exceedingly rare.

    In early resolution there may be one or more infrequent contractions of the perineal muscles and anal sphincter that feel pleasurable (often referred top as aftershocks), but basically this is a time when the swelling of the breast and genitals slowly subsides over a period of many minutes (often about 20 mins). Failure to reach orgasm after reaching plateau can be very uncomfortable for some women because there has been no trigger to start the vascular decongestion of the genitals.

    From: http://www.the-female-orgasm.com/ (there is video if you want to see )

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    There are at least two sp's in Montreal that can do this at will with a vise -like grip.

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    This excersize is highly recommended to women who give birth by their doctors because of the losening of the muscles during the birthing process...
    It also helps to keep your pussy tighter after you have had a kid...
    Yes, every woman or girl or man or boy even who has ever had to hold in their pee can do this, some stronger than others if they have practiced using the muscles...
    Also yes, there are women who involentarily do this when orgasming... maybe not all though (I thought all did but I can be wrong...)
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    If her contractions were voluntary, then I could have asked for more. I've never had an SP who offered this type of thing before. If they were involuntary, ie., an orgasm, then I suppose there's only so much she can do.

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    I started doing Kegel exercises when I was about 10 years old. My mom was having bladder problems ( she eventually needed surgery) and I was at that age where she still preferred to bring me in the doctors office than leave me alone in the waiting room. The doc told her tp try those exercises and she may be able to avoid surgery. Well as a little girl I certainly did not like the idea of peeing if I laughed to hard or sneezed or... (I found my moms problem embarrassing... actually she did too!) so at 10 I started doing Kegel exercises.

    To do them (it is good for both men and women) stop peeing mid-stream then start and stop again. Those are the muscles you are working. The exercises can be done at any time not only when peeing.

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