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    I need some advice

    Hi here is my situation i have seen escort since i was 21 (i am now 24 and the last time i seen a sp was about 1 year ago) from time to time and i never had a girlfriend before. Now i have just started a relationship with someone (2 week actually) and she begin to ask me some question about my ex so what should i do? do i lie and invent some story or do i tell the truth?
    Thanks a lot

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    OH YES telling a lie is always the best thing to do in a new relationship

    oh and another thing girls just love it when you lie to them
    i think she would love you even more if and when she finds out.

    are you for real !!!!!!!!

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    Yes, try not to answer her question as she is still new to you
    did you ask how many boyfriend she had in her life?
    anyhow, you can tell you had a girlfriend and you don't want to discuss her since she bumped and hurted you and she does not deserve to be mentioned
    but don't tell her about the Sp..because then she thinks you are still seeing sps and whenever things are not doing well with her , she can claim that you are seeing sps.....
    anyhow good luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by insomniak
    Hi here is my situation i have seen escort since i was 21 (i am now 24 and the last time i seen a sp was about 1 year ago) from time to time and i never had a girlfriend before. Now i have just started a relationship with someone (2 week actually) and she begin to ask me some question about my ex so what should i do? do i lie and invent some story or do i tell the truth?
    Thanks a lot

    Dont talk about your past love lives

    Tell her I dont want to talk about it, its in the past and I dont want to

    hear about yours. Lets just focus on the present.

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    I agree with Oliver.

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    If she still insist, tell her you had one night stand with some women and leave it a that.

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    Wink Be genuine but "let sleeping dogs lie"!

    Quote Originally Posted by insomniak
    Hi here is my situation i have seen escort since i was 21 (i am now 24 and the last time i seen a sp was about 1 year ago) from time to time and i never had a girlfriend before. Now i have just started a relationship with someone (2 week actually) and she begin to ask me some question about my ex so what should i do? do i lie and invent some story or do i tell the truth?
    Thanks a lot
    I understand the corner you are in. If you are heading into a relationship then you should be concerned about being honest. But I am not sure that is the issue here. It is not necessary to reveal anything more than that you dated other girls who you met briefly and never formed any real attachments. Tell her that these girls were nice but not for you. Tell her that she is the first girl that you have felt any kind of connection with. Whether you paid for the date is irrelevant. When young, many people go through a dating period as they gain the maturity to make a meaningful choice. I am sure she knows that.and will leave the discussion at that point. If she presses you then you might want to be asking yourself what kinds of insecurities she is dealing with. Taken to an extreme this can be a red flag. Possessiveness can destroy a relationship. If you feel yourself being questioned to the point of where the relationship is becoming dysfunctional then think carefully. However I am sure that she is simply interested in what kind of guy she is making herself vulnerable to. If this is the case and you feel she is a keeper then you may be into something very special. All the best.
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    If you had an ex I would tell her about it, no big deal. If you haven't had an ex, I would tell her that. If your thinking of telling her that you have banged some of the finest gems that Montreal has to offer, I wouldn't. Not sure if she is asking about girls you have slept with or ex's, but either way I would leave out the part about banging sp's. But that's just me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by insomniak
    Hi here is my situation i have seen escort since i was 21 (i am now 24 and the last time i seen a sp was about 1 year ago) from time to time and i never had a girlfriend before. Now i have just started a relationship with someone (2 week actually) and she begin to ask me some question about my ex so what should i do? do i lie and invent some story or do i tell the truth?
    Thanks a lot
    Simple, just tell her that you have never been good at relationships, but that you have learned from all of your past experiences and that you are now at a point of your life that things will now work out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by metoo4
    I agree with Oliver.
    Never a good idea.
    The mounties always get their man.

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    Being with an SP is not a relationship or a past girlfriend. Tell her that you have dated previously, you have made out with a couple of girls, but you have never had a serious relationship prior to her. End of story.

    If she does not respect that, then she isn't worth your time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rumpleforeskiin
    Never a good idea.
    Yhea, scares me! But you have to give it to the big guy: when he's right, he is, and it does happen!

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    Quote Originally Posted by daydreamer41
    ...Tell her ...
    This isn't directly for you DayDreamer, this is just a general observation.

    I always find it funny when peoples say "Tell her..." Who are we to say that? What do we know of the situation? I know, I do it myself sometimes and always later, I ask myself "Why did I say that?" Why can't we always say "You could tell her..." and leave the person use it's head to take the decision he see fit, without feeling somebody is giving him a miracle solution?

    Just funny!

    Now back to our regular programming...

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    Quote Originally Posted by daydreamer41
    Being with an SP is not a relationship or a past girlfriend. Tell her that you have dated previously, you have made out with a couple of girls, but you have never had a serious relationship prior to her. End of story.

    If she does not respect that, then she isn't worth your time.
    Well said dreamer... do not lie, just dont tell her things you know will hurt her without doing any good on the long run...

    Now if you intend to continue to see SPs, then this is another story. Be sure she'll find out sooner or later. You'll have to figure out how open mind she is.
    ROBOT

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    You might also respond by saying in a nice way, "why do you ask? do you have any concerns?" See what she's really after. And no, do not under any circumstances mention ANYTHING about hobbying!

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