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    Girls Who Delay

    How do you handle it when the girl wants to keep talking and you want to get started?

    And which kinds of girls tend to be delayers? I'd say anglophone college girls for sure. Any others?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Red Paul
    How do you handle it when the girl wants to keep talking and you want to get started?
    I ask her to get started. Usually with "Well, let's get started" But I'm suave that way.

    Quote Originally Posted by Red Paul
    And which kinds of girls tend to be delayers? I'd say anglophone college girls for sure. Any others?
    Mostly women with, what are they called again? Oh yeah, vaginas. Seriously, could you have generalized more?
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    For most girls, the talking is the sex.

    Quote Originally Posted by Red Paul
    And which kinds of girls tend to be delayers? I'd say anglophone college girls for sure. Any others?
    RP,

    IMHO all girls are delayers. And it is not because they are mean. For most girls, the talking is the sex.

    For most women the connection is important and they assume that this is the same thing for you.....and this applies no matter how long you have known them, how many times you tell them you just want to get f$$%&^ed, or how long they are in the business.

    Ben

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    Personally the way that I like to have a gentleman tell me that he's done with the chit chat and ready for action is this way... Caress my body and then passion takes over.... It's a friendly and easy way to show that you are now interested sexually... And then well if you have the unfortunately luck of getting someone who wants to complete there sentence.... Just kiss her... lol....
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    One escort told me she talks as much as possible if she doesn't find the client attractive. that way there's less sex.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sexxxymtl
    Personally the way that I like to have a gentleman tell me that he's done with the chit chat and ready for action is this way... Caress my body and then passion takes over.... It's a friendly and easy way to show that you are now interested sexually... And then well if you have the unfortunately luck of getting someone who wants to complete there sentence.... Just kiss her... lol....
    This isthe best way. Start the caressing & before you can get a woody the caressing becomes mutual!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Red Paul
    How do you handle it when the girl wants to keep talking and you want to get started?

    And which kinds of girls tend to be delayers? I'd say anglophone college girls for sure. Any others?
    Hello Red Paul,

    This does not apply in my experience. For me, it has been the high end so-called "elite" ladies who are more likely to do this. Their operational strategy seems to be to create a clientele interested in long encounters with a "date experience" having a long build up to the intimacy that includes dinner. They hope this type of encounter will be a minimum of 4-6 hours. They will accept a two-hour encounter to entice new prospective clients, or just to fill vacant time, or if the agency is just starting out and needs to build a loyal client base. Fine. This is all good business strategy. But too much delaying during a shorter 2-hour encounter can also be a cheat in the view of clients.

    Generally, high end ladies and some independents seem to consider the atmosphere and their mere presence as an important part of the fulfillment of the arrangement. The sexual element for them is given in proportional allotments of time matching the longer "date experience" framework...even if you have only arranged for two hours. This was what happened to me when I met one very well known independent, now retired; and with a repeat encounter at FKS, and at other high end agencies.

    Quote Originally Posted by sexxxymtl
    Personally the way that I like to have a gentleman tell me that he's done with the chit chat and ready for action is this way... Caress my body and then passion takes over.... It's a friendly and easy way to show that you are now interested sexually... And then well if you have the unfortunately luck of getting someone who wants to complete there sentence.... Just kiss her... lol....
    With some ladies this does not work by their design. Getting back to that independent...she talked for about 90 minutes of a two-hour arrangement. Yes, she was very beautiful, elegant, and charming. Had I the funds and the time to enjoy this sort of date type of encounter there would have been nothing wrong with it. But, having only two hours, talking for 90 minutes was unreasonable. I did give her gentle clear signals of light caresses since I am not the kind who would just say "alright lets move on". Maybe I should be. She ignored signals twice and then when the intimate time came it was ..."we've got 15 minutes, what do you want to do? I need 10 minutes to shower before our time is up." Well, maybe I was very foolish not to make an argument about this, but I just decided to not see her again.

    This kind of thing can happen to anyone with any lady at any level for many reasons. My advice is, if you feel it's a reasonable time to move on to the intimacy in view of the time frame, and she fails to take a clear gentle signal...be crass. Tell her it's time to move on. If she then fails to move on, ask her to leave, pay her for her time (1/2 the donation rate up to that time), and write an honest and accurate review. It's fine to be a gentleman and end it gracefully. But it's also very expensive to take it on the chin. If she doesn't want to admit what you really called her for, then ask her to move on...or get out.

    By the way...I still think independents are the best overall. Lilly Lombard and Miss Samantha are incredible.

    Cheers,

    Merlot
    Last edited by Merlot; 12-22-2008 at 01:36 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 10-19
    Nope. I actually have the opposite problem.
    LOL 10-19,

    Ahhhhhhhh, so you have the curse of I.A.M...Irresistible Animal Magnetism. You poor boy. The streets, with all those gorgeous women, must be such a horror for you. I FEEL YOUR PAIN!

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    Last edited by Merlot; 12-22-2008 at 11:52 PM.

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    ..."we've got 15 minutes, what do you want to do? I need 10 minutes to shower before our time is up."


    this begs to differ another question within this thread, is it fair the "shower time" is included in the actual time you paid for? i hear alot about this and was wondering are all agency/indies like this or do some honor the full hour/hours you pay for and the shower counts as "their time"

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    It's like Zamboni Time when you rent s sheet of hockey ice....

    Quote Originally Posted by lgna69xxx
    ..."we've got 15 minutes, what do you want to do? I need 10 minutes to shower before our time is up." this begs to differ another question within this thread, is it fair the "shower time" is included in the actual time you paid for? i hear alot about this and was wondering are all agency/indies like this or do some honor the full hour/hours you pay for and the shower counts as "their time"
    It's like "Zamboni Time" when you rent a sheet of hockey ice....

    You rent the ice for one hour, but you only get 50 minutes...the other 10 minutes is for the Zamboni.....

    Same thing with a chick...except she takes a shower....

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    I have to admit that I talk alot but I do not do it to waste time from other more sexy activities. I love these activities too. Sometimes the conversation just flows so well (Most gentlemen actually love some nice interesting conversation and do not just want a wham bam thank you mam kind of encounter - Desire comes from between your ears). But I have to admit that sometimes it seems a little long to me and the gentleman has not made his move and keeps talking.. I know some of you might be a little nervous at first. If you are upset because a girl seems to be 'wasting time' just get it started! Smoothly please, touch her and lean in for a kiss.. Once that has started, it is very hard to supress the passion!

    Hint: we cannot always read your mind.. and all of you are soo different and unique.. we sometimes need a little help to know how you like it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by YouVantOption
    Mostly women with, what are they called again? Oh yeah, vaginas. Seriously, could you have generalized more?
    Well yeah, I could have said what you just said.

    Seriously, though, I wouldn't have brought up anglophone college girls if I'd known you were one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Red Paul
    How do you handle it when the girl wants to keep talking and you want to get started?

    And which kinds of girls tend to be delayers? I'd say anglophone college girls for sure. Any others?
    I get closer, start to caress the girl's thighs or arms. If this does not work, I suggest moving to somewhere a little more comfortable (i.e. bed). If this does not work, you know you're not gonna have much fun...

    Which girls? Since I don't see HDH's who dwell in the "long date" thing, it's mostly younger true debutante girls who are not comfortable with what they're doing. Which would fit well with anglo college girls, since all Quebec/ francophone girls are soooo horny!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Red Paul
    How do you handle it when the girl wants to keep talking and you want to get started?
    And which kinds of girls tend to be delayers? I'd say anglophone college girls for sure. Any others?
    He-he-he...
    The longest delay I had was Krystal/Jamie from Devilish, but it was definitely my fault. She is really cool and funny girl! We connected pretty good although her English was just like my French, i.e. around zero!
    She was very enthusiastic when I finally got down to business and really made up the delay!
    I was probably lucky: with one exception I never met a girl in Montreal that tried to delay. They were all pretty good with starting the main course right on time!
    How would I deal with the girl like that? I don't know.
    You can try to push her (hell, you got her here to fuck her, right?), but if you do that wrong the date can be good, or it can be ruined.
    The other hand, if you don't it will be ruined for sure.

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    I just take my clothes off, that usually gets the point across.

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