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    Too young to get with an escort?

    I contributed to this post about why some escorts might not prefer younger dudes.

    Are any of you guys under the age of 30? Have you found that you were rejected because of your age?

    Seriously, WHY do many escorts prefer older men...what's the bottom line?
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    I don't think you will find a bottom line... While we don't refuse any client based on race or age, there have been some situations that didn't run as smoothly... Personally, it's been anywhere to how the treat the ladies (bluntly put: as if we are nothing more then whores and we are to do and only do what they want even if it hurts us), and having issues with them getting the hotel room... They are to shy or scared... Not sure which but if you treat the women with respect and do you part to make the rendez vous happen, then my girls will definately do there part....
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    Personally I never heard of younger men having a difficult time finding an SP. Yes some SPs prefer older men for personal reasons, but I do not see any major issues personally:
    YES, Often their budget is tighter so it is usually only a 1 hour date;
    and they tend to have less experience (but they are usually eager to learn how to please a woman so this all works out in the end).

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    Sometimes guys don't tell you how old they are and it is always surprising when they are younger then 25. I have asked some guys to provide IDs a couple times because they looked so young and I didn't want to do anything illegal.

    I have had great fun with younger men even if they are less experienced and more nervous about meeting an escort. The problem I have had with it was that if they were students and/or living at home, I couldn't help but feel bad to take their money. I think men should learn about relationships, intimacy and sexuality in a manner where there is no money involved. I have refused to see some younger guys a second time because it just didn't feel right to do it.

    I do prefer older men in my personal life as well. Might be a way to express a HUGE unresolved Oedipus complex. I just love my Daddy!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss Maria
    Might be a way to express a HUGE unresolved Oedipus complex. I just love my Daddy!

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    Don't want to be fussy, but in your case it's an ELECTRA complex - unless you're hiding a few inches up your skirt.

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    LOL!! No extra bits, promised!

    For Freud, the term 'Oedipus complex' is used for both girls and boys. He actually never studied boys.. only one girl. I suspect the term Electra complex was brought about by the Neo-Freudians.
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    Almost right !!

    Quote Originally Posted by Miss Maria
    LOL!! No extra bits, promised!

    For Freud, the term 'Oedipus complex' is used for both girls and boys. He actually never studied boys.. only one girl. I suspect the term Electra complex was brought about by the Neo-Freudians.
    Sweet Maria... Carl Jung intoduced the term "Electra complex",that involves a sexual attachment to her father and is analogous to a boy's attachment to his mother,that form the basis of "The Oedipus complex" (Sigmund Freud) I hope this will help you...mamacita.
    "Life ain't always beautiful...but is a beautiful ride"

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    Oh Papi!

    You know a little bit about psychology??? That is sooo sexy!
    Smile and the world will smile with you

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    I saw my first escort when I was under 30. I never hid or lied about my age. I never had an issue with agency providers or independents. As long as you treat the SP like you would any other woman in your bed, I don't see what the problem is. The only difference is that an SP is generally more open to your sexual advances and desire for experimentation. Some SP's post age preferences on their pages, and if I don't qualify I simply do not seek to spend time with them. Montreal has far too many options available to get hung up on not meeting a handful of SPs.

    I never really asked any of them how they want to be pleased. I kept trying several things patiently, and I took their responses at face value. I am certain there is acting going on, but I don't really dwell on that. This is mainly because I don't like being asked about details about how I like being pleased. I am afraid that if I am too specific, I will miss out on a great talent the SP might possess. Ultimately I just stick with the one(s) I feel I enjoy a good time with and experiment with new ones from time to time.

    With agencies this is a non-issue, since the SP does not know anything about the person she is going to see. If you are e-mailing an independent, just be respectful - she will use your writing to figure out what kind of person you are (this is an assumption on my part). Also be sure to tell her a bit about yourself.

    I have been told by various people that young men should seek women in a more conventional manner. The fact is I do both, and I never see an SP while dating someone (I don't want to lie or keep secrets). SP's tend to be more open and talented sexually, and I don't want to wait until I am old man and wonder what something would have been like had I been younger and had more energy to do it.

    Edit: Just wanted to add that from my experience, SPs are very open to suggestion, except for things they explicitly say they will not do (e.g. Greek or CIM). It may not be acceptable to treat her like a tramp, but it is acceptable to say it is your fantasy to completely debase a woman in bed, and then she can agree/disagree to play the role you want her to.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss Maria
    Oh Papi!

    You know a little bit about psychology??? That is sooo sexy!
    Me too look!

    "A lie as a self-interested untruth told by someone other than Freud."

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    It's just plain easier...

    Quote Originally Posted by Marauder69
    ...WHY do many escorts prefer older men...what's the bottom line?
    NO MSOG(or rarely)... Erectile disfunction.... It's ALL about having as less sex as possible...

    Why bother with a 20 something year old dude who will want to fuck for 50 minutes in the hour(with MSOG), when you can have another dude who will have a hard time just getting a hard-on?...And will end up talking for most of the encounter?

    L'équation est facile a faire....Even more true with HDH's.....I piss in my pants when I read: I prefer the company of a more experienced men....My ASS!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crappy_Lover
    NO MSOG(or rarely)... Erectile disfunction.... It's ALL about having as less sex as possible...

    Why bother with a 20 something year old dude who will want to fuck for 50 minutes in the hour(with MSOG), when you can have another dude who will have a hard time just getting a hard-on?...And will end up talking for most of the encounter?

    L'équation est facile a faire....Even more true with HDH's.....I piss in my pants when I read: I prefer the company of a more experienced men....My ASS!!!!
    I'm looking forward to being 75 so I can be considered "prefered company"!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Crappy_Lover
    NO MSOG(or rarely)... Erectile disfunction.... It's ALL about having as less sex as possible...

    Why bother with a 20 something year old dude who will want to fuck for 50 minutes in the hour(with MSOG), when you can have another dude who will have a hard time just getting a hard-on?...And will end up talking for most of the encounter?

    L'équation est facile a faire....Even more true with HDH's.....I piss in my pants when I read: I prefer the company of a more experienced men....My ASS!!!!
    Actually the young 20 year olds cum really fast usually because they are nervous and have less experiences. The best lovers I have had were from 30s-late 50s. Some of them doing me over and over again for 4 hours.

    Maria
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    I am sure there are good lovers at any age.
    Smile and the world will smile with you

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    Some SP's prefer older men because younger one's are immature but if you

    prove to them that you are mature for your age then they will give you a

    chance. Their age restriction isnt written in stone.

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