First, doing this(having sex, seeing escorts) is pretty new to me(very, very late starter). But the more I do it, the more I want to become a better BFE. In my case, I want to be a good boyfriend when I will meet my first "regular" girlfriend. Until it happens, I'm practicing with those lovely ladies I meet. They are human too and do need to be treated well and with respect. In a way, they are my teachers too.
Sometimes, it's the little non sexual details that count. For example, I don't drink but I always bring 2 bottles of water. I know, it's cheap but all of them were glad to have a fresh water not from the tap. Plus, it's handy for both of us to have them near the bed.
When I meet a new escort, I will bring chocolate with no sugar(maltitol). We will burn a few calories and I have to check my weight/carbs too like most escorts are doing anyway. Plus, it's nice to eat a piece or 2 at the end together. Some don't like chocolate or are allergic but it's rare.
Am I perfect? Heck no but I'm trying. The first few times, I did not do any of that.
The idea is to make encounters start pleasantly for both.
So, if you are a BFE and have tips for me and others, please share them here. It does not even have to cost money like taking a few minutes to talk.