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    "Rocking Chair" Memories

    Just sharing ...

    As a hobbyist one goes through different stages. I doubt it's the same progression for everyone and I don't think one stage is better or worse than the other ... but in my experience, they are just different!

    It was 5+ years ago that I started hobbying in Montreal and started engaging in multi-hour dates. Suffice it to say that I was quite green at the time as far as hobbying goes. Going from 1-hour dates to multi-hour dates was definitely different!

    Having just celebrated a milestone b'day (still young), I am now at a stage where I'd like to invest in creating "rocking chair" memories. Projecting several decades out into the future, I see myself on a rocking chair on some exotic beachy island (yes, I am dreaming), reminiscing about the "good old days". I'd like to invest in creating a few fabulous memories that will put a smile on my face in a time where Junior is, perhaps, not as cooperative(?)

    Now, there is always the temptation of a quick fix to relieve the valve pressure. Sometimes, those impromptu dates coupled with low expectations can be pretty darn terrific! More often than not, however, I have found them to be sub-par. For moi, anyway, if all I need is to relieve the valve pressure, there's always great porn!

    I think if you truly want to get acquainted with someone, you need to invest in a 2-3 hour date upfront. The fact that it's a multi-hour date relaxes the girl and she doesn't feel like she needs to switch positions every few seconds like a circus acrobat. It also gives one the chance to connect on a mental level, assuming there is chemistry, and to build towards more fulfilling encounters in the future.

    If "novelty" is your thing and you want to claim you've bagged a zillion dates, then my current approach is not for you. For some, a zillion dates may just be the "rocking chair" memories they want to create. However, if you enjoy building a "relationship" of sorts with a few you really connect with, and actively seek a deeper union, my current approach may agree with you.

    To be clear, I am not advocating one vs. the other - they both have plusses and minuses. I am, however, just sharing where I am at (mentally) after my 5+ years of hobbying in Montreal ... at a stage of creating "rocking chair" memories.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeff jones

    I have had quite a few rocking chair moments and for the last 6 months i have been considering doing something that most on the board would scoff at or call crazy or a waste of money but i would say to them that it is my money, my business and it all depends on what you can afford. I am toying with the idea of doing a las vegas duo, nope not going to las vegas and picking up two ladies but stopping in montreal and taking two of montreals finest with me for 4 or 5 days of vegas style fun. The possibilities would be endless
    If you can afford it you should absolutely do it. Just be sure there's a good chemistry between all three of you before going.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jeff jones
    If i did go thru with it i would be very careful about who i chose to do it with. There would definitely be a duo done with the two ladies in montreal first to make sure they got along well and enjoyed each others company
    Do it Jeff! Consider it No.1 on your bucket list. God knows everyone slides into decrepitude soon enough. You don't want to be heading down the middle church aisle with a priest chanting over you and the choir singing Ave Maria and you saying, "No! Wait! I'm not finished yet!" Don't worry about leaving your money to others. They'll just spend it.
    Confucius say: Man who take woman into house on side of hill - not on level.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeff jones
    As far as falling into decrepitude that is always possible, as far as a priest following me down the aisle you have to go to church for that, so that's not likely to happen and as far as leaving money to others that is one of the good things about not having any kids so nothing to worry about there and my motto has always been you can't take it with you
    Well Jeff, falling into decrepitude is inevitable. And whether you will be churched or someone will just stick you in a bag and bury you, in the end analysis, isn't really worth much unless you have an out of body experience and a ringside seat. As for your money? Trust me! Someone, somewhere, will spend it.
    Confucius say: Man who take woman into house on side of hill - not on level.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CS Martin

    Happy Birthday to Good Sam.
    Yeah! Whatever did happen to Good Sam? I miss his posts on the board.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeff jones
    I have had quite a few rocking chair moments and for the last 6 months i have been considering doing something that most on the board would scoff at or call crazy or a waste of money but i would say to them that it is my money, my business and it all depends on what you can afford. I am toying with the idea of doing a las vegas duo, nope not going to las vegas and picking up two ladies but stopping in montreal and taking two of montreals finest with me for 4 or 5 days of vegas style fun. The possibilities would be endless
    Sk's right. It's your money & if you can afford it, go ahead. People who would question your motives likely would be jealous & in awe of you, more than anything else. You wouldn't be the first one who would do this type of thing & good for you if you do. A few years ago, a very wealthy well-known european got 3-4 high end sps to join him at his home overseas & since the women knew one another very well, it was great for all concerned & from what i've heard from some of them, it appeard it was a fantastic trip.

    Personally, i've never done this type of thing (but who says i wouldn't?), but have gone on trips with other couples where their 'travelling companion' was an sp. We had a great time & spending our trip with the company of other couples was even better (i think) than travelling by ourselves. I'm actually looking at maybe going to Hawaii with a friend of mine who'd bring a 'date' on his trip. Of course, i'd have to bring a 'travelling companion' myself. But i'm positive it would be a great trip, as long as everyone gets along.

    The bottom line, we only live once....so go for it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Doc Holliday

    The bottom line, we only live once....so go for it!
    Absolutely! However, you may want to hold off until the weather drops below 100F. You probably want somewhat cooler outdoors given that you plan on generating plenty of heat indoors

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeff jones
    If i did go thru with it i would be very careful about who i chose to do it with. There would definitely be a duo done with the two ladies in montreal first to make sure they got along well and enjoyed each others company
    Jeff, STRONGLY suggest you do a 24hr test run with both ladies in Montreal. The personalities exhibited by people in short exposures differ from longer appts. I did the Vegas thing with a tall striking blond some years ago.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeff jones
    I know what you are saying the longer you test it out the more sure you are. I doubt that i would do a 24 hr test run but if i did this i would do a duo with the two ladies first and one of the ladies involved would be a lady i already know well and she has the type of personality that she gets along well with pretty much everybody she meets
    Should work. Be sure to get a suite in Vegas. Based upon my last experience, your profile should get you an easy upgrade.

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