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    Other Escort Options

    Does anyone know or have experience with any of the SPs providing escorting out to dinner or showing one around the city. I saw a few threads that indicate some independent SPs may provide this.

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    I think any escort will be happy to do this...

    I mean its like if im being paid to work in a restaurant by a client as me to take dinner with him...of course i would said yes...

    Escort are use to be paid to have sex with clients, so if a client ask them to have dinner with them, im sure they will be more than happy to do it....
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    HM, not really ANY escorts.

    Some escorts are working so much "under the radar" from friends and family they just won't risk being seen in public with a guy calling her "Sabrina", when her real name is "Louise". Too much explaining.

    Most who will, if not all, will charge the same fare as if it would be a "combo" with vertical and horizontal time, or even a full multi-hours vertical time.

    After all, at any time, don't forget "Money exchanged is for the lady's time and companionship. Anything else that could happen between consenting adults is not paid for."

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    i had a SP tell me once when regarding to the "cost" of dinner as chargeable, as "well, a girls gotta eat right? , im not gonna charge someone extra to take me to dinner"

    now i no all sp's dont think like she did,. but i am just pointing out , its not ALWAYS the norm, to have a sp charge you the time to "EAT"



    Quote Originally Posted by metoo4
    HM, not really ANY escorts.

    Some escorts are working so much "under the radar" from friends and family they just won't risk being seen in public with a guy calling her "Sabrina", when her real name is "Louise". Too much explaining.

    Most who will, if not all, will charge the same fare as if it would be a "combo" with vertical and horizontal time, or even a full multi-hours vertical time.

    After all, at any time, don't forget "Money exchanged is for the lady's time and companionship. Anything else that could happen between consenting adults is not paid for."

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    Quote Originally Posted by lgna69xxx
    i had a SP tell me once when regarding to the "cost" of dinner as chargeable, as "well, a girls gotta eat right? , im not gonna charge someone extra to take me to dinner"

    now i no all sp's dont think like she did,. but i am just pointing out , its not ALWAYS the norm, to have a sp charge you the time to "EAT"
    Of course it is. There is plenty of evidence on sites mentioning the cost of a dinner date. You are paying her for her time, always. How the time is used to put various things in her mouth, is up to you. You want to waste it at some high-priced joint, your call. Personally, I always opt for providing a meal of hot tube steak.

    I remember one SP lamenting to me about some trick who took her to a top-end restaurant, dicking around, then complaining about her fee for her to be there (which he paid).

    i asked her what she ate. Her reply was "I don't know, some fucking shit"

    A real appreciative gourmand, that one.
    You are cordially invited to toss my salad. There's an app for that!

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    It varies with the SP.

    One asked me out (with me paying for the meals, of course). I found her interesting and entertaining so I said OK, but off the clock. After going out a few times, she stopped as her parasite was jealous - not of the sex, but of our going out to dinner!

    Another, I asked an SP out to dinner. She told me how she could be making money with other clients so she wanted me to pay for her time. I declined, but later she deigned to let me take her out off the clock as she wasn't all that busy.

    I have no interest in seeing most SPs out of bed. I don't imagine that they want to spend time with me either.

    I pay SPs as I realize that I can't get beautiful young women to have sex for free with me, not any more anyway. I would rather go out to dinner with a male friend than feel as if I need to pay for company. I don't care if strangers in a restaurant see me with an attractive young woman.
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    Exactly

    Quote Originally Posted by jeff jones
    I take sp's out of the room a little bit and i will not pay anyone to watch them eat or any other activity outside the room so they either come off the clock or we do not leave the room. Now in fairness if you are seeing an sp for the first time it would be very unreasonable to try to book a 1 or 2 hr date and ask her to spend a couple of hrs out of the room off the clock.
    One time only, I took an escort out to lunch on the clock. It was to say thank you for a string of really great "horizontal time" dates, including a duo she helped arrange. She was the attentive girlfriend the entire time and rushed us back to my place hand in hand for a marvelous dessert. It was a great experience, but the circumstances were special in a way.

    Apart from that, I enjoy the company of the ladies very much outside the room, but only if they want to come out socially, not as part of their work.

    No to knock it for those who have the inclination and budget to make the whole thing part of the fantasy. An evening of classy build-up leading to a night of luxury passion is not something to disregard after all . To each their own, or never say never.
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    I think on a not too busy night, if a I went out with a SP as a prelude for things to come say after dinner. Of course the SP would have to be someone interesting I'd want to have dinner with. I did hear from one independant and she does charge the same for dinner as for post dinner. I suppose time is time to them.

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    I like meeting indies at a public place first. That way if she stands me up I don't rent a room. If she shows up and she's hungry I'll pay for snacks or lunch but off the clock.
    As for conversations. They get pretty mundane after a few rendez-vous.
    After the rocks are off I can only think of getting away.

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    I went on an entirely vertical date with an SP off the clock. It was very fun and I got to see a very interesting side of Montreal. She even bought me a drink. It was very fun but not something ordinary. It was also her suggestion (after our 4th time together).

    I think you can maybe try to negotiate a reduced rate for a vertical date but if it is an escort situation and happening on your time according to your schedule then I think it is pretty clear you need to be willing to pay. Otherwise just be cool enough that she wants to take you with her to her favourite places off the clock but wait for her to suggest it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by coolnight
    Of course the SP would have to be someone interesting I'd want to have dinner with.
    And how would you know this if you've never met her before?

    I've been to dinner with SP's on the clock (*when I was new to the hobby), off the clock (once, she paid!), and at a discount as part of an extended date (11hrs)... in each case it was with someone that I'd been with before. It is something you work up to because at whatever rate (or free), you don't want to be sitting there in total silence.

    Good luck with your search!

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    Gosh there are more than a few that I would have liked to wine and dine and get to know a little better. I have never done this and for $180 - 250/ hour (to buy someone drinks and dinner) I probably will not. This is a shame because I think it would be fun.

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    nope, not always, trust me........ like i have said before, sp's are human beings also, just like anyone, and when maybe they meet a client they click with, then maybe they want to spend time outside of work with them,. is it rare? sure, but it also exist's sometimes too



    Quote Originally Posted by YouVantOption
    Of course it is. There is plenty of evidence on sites mentioning the cost of a dinner date. You are paying her for her time, always. .

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    It is possible to negotiate a reasonable flat rate fee for an afternoon together with an SP. Especially an indy as she does not have an agency managing her time.

    Do some homework. Decide who seems like a lady you would find interesting on a personal level, come up with a budget and make her an offer. As we are talking about multiple hours and a vertical date, it is unlikely she has something similarly listed on her rates page.

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    There are high-end agencies that specifically advertise "dinner dates" in which case you will obviously be paying.

    And then there are independants who I've known who will meet someone for dinner or a drink beforehand (and before the meter is running) because they enjoy that guys company.

    It all depends on the situation.

    Several Montreal women I've met through "work" are definitely women I would hang out with on the outside .... maybe that's why I chose them in the first place Something about them definitely 'clicked'.

    I've gone out with them & they feel comfortable because I don't make a big deal about it. Just kick back, relax, be yourselves. That's why, if I'm setting something up with an independant, I just ask them to dress casual so they can be more themselves. If she's dressed like a knockout when you are out in public, then it would be pretty obvious to most what the situation is, right

    Of course there are guys who specifically want that & then you should be expecting to pay for that experience. If you want "arm candy" to parade around & show off to people then it's going to cost you.

    I know a woman who told me that she's had guys take her out shopping. So she's not getting paid for her time directly but indirectly. These guys want to pamper a woman and are paying for the experience at the department store.

    Talk about the ultimate GFE!

    I had guy out here once PM me to ask about a specific woman I had given several great reviews for asking if she would be an appropriate date for an out-of-town wedding he was attending where the night would end with a sleepover. That's a pretty special request and it would take a special woman to pull that off ... socializing with friends & family without either of them feeling uncomfotable. To do this with a woman you've never met before could be a potentially embarassing situation.

    But I recommended this woman because that's the type of dates that she liked & I knew she would be perfect. She could hold her own in a conversation, was fun to be with, and a great dancer also.

    Some guys are not just paying to get their rocks off but for other things as well so the request for such service is not unusual.

    And, although it may not be common, it's also not unusual for a woman to want to spend time with a guy "off the clock" if it's someone she likes being with in a non-sexual setting.
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